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sorry deleted! thanks for ur advice!

Original post by ttdiff11

ttdiff11 Posted:

Re: i need advice, im gonna delete it shortly though, so please dont quote


Posted by gina409

1 more note i think wedding dresses and friends should be like ex boyfriends..no matter how cute it is if it was someones elses hands off




lol yess!!!
AugustBridein09 Posted:

Re: i need advice, im gonna delete it shortly though, so please dont quote


Posted by geegee827


Posted by gina409

1 more note i think wedding dresses and friends should be like ex boyfriends..no matter how cute it is if it was someones elses hands off



SO TRUE!!!!!!!!!!!!





I agree
ttdiff11 Posted:

Re: i need advice, im gonna delete it shortly though, so please dont quote


Posted by geegee827

That's just crazy!!! I hope someone talks her out of ordering her wedding gown 2 years in advance! So many things can change between now and then.

But, if she's annoyed because you're annoyed, let her be. Think of it this way, if she really thought it was no big deal, she NEVER would have mentioned it to you.

I think you did the right thing telling her you were bothered by it.




i dunno if shes annoyed, but im sure upset. i really do feel bad. but, i just get nautious when i think about it. its supp to be special, not supp to be where the next wedding i go after my own, the bride is wearing the same dress lol.
im getting my period and im def emotional lol
xosweetiexo Posted:

Re: i need advice, im gonna delete it shortly though, so please dont quote


Posted by gina409

1 more note i think wedding dresses and friends should be like ex boyfriends..no matter how cute it is if it was someones elses hands off




WOW that seriously is true!!! And No, you are not being babyish at ALL!!! I would be upset too.... its your dress and I totally understand about FH only being able to see you in it. But I am just so confused as to why she has to buy the dress now?? Did she try it on when you took her dress shopping with you?? Thats just so weird... doesnt she want to feel like she picked out her own dress and found THE ONE for her? If I wore a dress of one of my friends... I feel like I would always relate that dress back to my friend. Like standing in it I would prob think.... 'Hmmmmm it looks different on me than on _______ or this was _____'s dress for her wedding. Doesnt she care that people will say ... Didnt her friend wear that like 2 yrs ago???? lol I really hope someone talks some sense into her and tells her its way too early to be buying her dress. Whats the rush??


Also, I'm interested in seeing this dress now LOL!!! Do you have a pic??
Chanwich Posted:

Re: i need advice, im gonna delete it shortly though, so please dont quote

I honestly don't think you should worry about it. I mean, your wedding will be first and you will get to wear it, and two whole years will go by before she wears it. People may not even realize its the same dress after that long! Plus at least you know you have good taste if she loves your dress that much.

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