Spinoff from nrvbrd's post, Would it bother you if DH or FH...

jennbaby Posted: Jul 08, 2003 12:36 PM

Spinoff from nrvbrd's post, Would it bother you if DH or FH...

didn't want to add your name onto the house?

This is not my case but just a spinoff question.

nrvbrd Posted: Jul 08, 2003 12:37 PM

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Yes, it would.

shamma Posted: Jul 08, 2003 12:37 PM

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Jen tell John you are moving

aliasPook Posted: Jul 08, 2003 12:37 PM

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Yes, it would bother me alot. Maybe because I was never put in that situation and we have most of our accounts jointly (and we have had them for years), but I would feel as if he didn't have faith in our relationship!

butterfly20 Posted: Jul 08, 2003 12:38 PM

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it would TOTALLY bother me...
especially since im the only one who has credit, and im the one with the house down payment

jennbaby Posted: Jul 08, 2003 12:38 PM

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Shamma I'd kick him to the curb if he did this

MarcellaBella Posted: Jul 08, 2003 12:39 PM

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I most certainly WOULD be..

joeslauren Posted: Jul 08, 2003 12:40 PM

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i wouldnt have that!

cw0904 Posted: Jul 08, 2003 12:40 PM

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FH knows better than that!! I would be BIT$$ING!!

DaniRN Posted: Jul 08, 2003 12:43 PM

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Sure would

Sage10.03 Posted: Jul 08, 2003 12:44 PM

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ABSOLUTELY....

dkga1026 Posted: Jul 08, 2003 12:46 PM

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H e l l yeah!!
There would be no house if my name weren't on it!

KarenK122 Posted: Jul 08, 2003 12:47 PM

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It would absolutely bother me!!!

kmcwed Posted: Jul 08, 2003 12:48 PM

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Yes!!!! It's both names or none.

OctBride05 Posted: Jul 08, 2003 12:48 PM

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yes, it would bother me.

Olgaki Posted: Jul 08, 2003 12:50 PM

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I definetly would be!

But sometimes it makes sense credit-wise to have one buy it and not put the other on. I know credits join when you get married, but if one member buys it soley then it could be advantageoous.

shamma Posted: Jul 08, 2003 12:51 PM

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I just asked Roger and he said that, maybe that would mean he has no faith in us lasting that is why he would do something like that. He said it should be automatic, done w/o a thought.