Spinoff from nrvbrd's post, Would it bother you if DH or FH...

Original post by jennbaby

Jul 08, 2003 12:36 PM

didn't want to add your name onto the house?

This is not my case but just a spinoff question.

shamma Posted: Jul 08, 2003 04:15 PM

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Mish are you parting on bad terms You make it seem as if when you 2 decide to part ways, he is throwing you out right away He must give me time to pack my shoes and my hats at least

jenny2penny Posted: Jul 08, 2003 04:15 PM

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SURE WILL! My name or no name!

jennbaby Posted: Jul 08, 2003 04:59 PM

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interesting responses

HearzBellz Posted: Jul 08, 2003 06:00 PM

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Normally I would say yes, but since I am receiving Financial Aid for school, I am actually looking into the possibility of getting more $$ if my name is not on the house.....

However, that would be my chioce....if HE didn't want me to, then that would tick me off.

pschica Posted: Jul 08, 2003 06:02 PM

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certainly would!

spel Posted: Jul 08, 2003 06:05 PM

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while it may save you more money, thats very dangerous legally.

get your name on that deed!

we are not married yet & both of our names are on the mortgage & deed.

Helene718 Posted: Jul 08, 2003 06:07 PM

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Unfortunately (or fortunately, depending on how you look at it), i could not be on the mortgage when we bought our place because I have an absolutely rediculous amount of student loans from 5 years of graduate school. However, I will be added on (I guess it's to the deed?) now that we have closed. So i will be co-owner. FH would not have it any other way and neither would I.

Helene718 Posted: Jul 08, 2003 06:10 PM

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Hearzbellz - That's what I am going through, but I will be added on to the deed now that we have closed. You just can't be part of the mortgage process. It's actually really nice because I didn't have to go through all of the paperwork or sign my name a million times at the closing. Now, he just has to add me on to the deed.

Marcela1654 Posted: Jul 08, 2003 06:15 PM

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Yes it would bother me. The Maxima that HE bought this year is under both of our names and we're not even married yet. He wanted me to feel/know that it is OUR car and not just his.

Shamma: LMAO at the eyelash comment

HearzBellz Posted: Jul 08, 2003 06:54 PM

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Helene718 -That is what we are looking at too, just putting my name on the deed.... this item is actually stipulated in our pre-nup...I am just waiting for final word from my attorney.

and thanks spel.... I am a bit nervous about it, not being in the mortgage process, but I think I am covering my tracks!

beachbride04 Posted: Jul 08, 2003 07:15 PM

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I guess I am in the minority, but it really wouldn't bother me at all.

eternityawaits Posted: Jul 08, 2003 07:27 PM

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I would be absolutely furious!!!

Marnles Posted: Jul 08, 2003 08:23 PM

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Not only would it bother me, but the fact is it would never happen......not to me. I wouldn't allow it

jennbaby Posted: Jul 08, 2003 09:31 PM

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yo go Marnles you Bronx girl you!

jennbaby Posted: Jul 08, 2003 11:27 PM

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bump for chippa

WithThisRing Posted: Jul 08, 2003 11:32 PM

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We are having a house built. My credit Sucks. I mean it is really bad (darn credit cards in college) but FI credit is really good. For the construction loan purposes we both felt that just having it all in his name would be extremely benefitial. I have absolutly no problems whatsoever with it. In fact I told him please keep my name off the morgage and when my credit is better we will add me. I dont want my credit to ruin his good credit and us getting the morgage.

However the deed to our land is all me. He doesnt exist on the deed. But that is something when we bought it, it had to go in one person's name so we put it in mine.

jennbaby Posted: Jul 08, 2003 11:34 PM

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MichelleW Posted: Jul 09, 2003 10:41 AM

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If it is solely a credit issue then it would not bother me, provided that the agreement was that my name would be added later on.

jeng Posted: Jul 09, 2003 12:49 PM

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I bought the townhouse before we were married, so his name is not on the deed or mortgage.

We've looked into refianancing but it doesn't make sense for us since were not staying there for much longer. From what I've been told there is no other way to add his name to the deed.

I think it bothers me more than it does him. He doesn't care at all!

yabbobay Posted: Jul 09, 2003 02:44 PM

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if it was a house that we bought together!! absolutely...

if it was the house that we live in - absolutely..

however Dh does have some properties that my name is not on...but it doens't have to be...that doesn't bother me...