Reading the thread on the Z100 story, I was curious:
1. Where is the line drawn on what's cheating? Flirting? Kissing? Sex?
2. Do believe once somebody cheats, they're very likely to do it again?
3. If you found out that your FH cheated on a past GF, would that give you doubts about his character?
4. Have you ever cheated in your life?
I have some definite opinions on this, but I'll reserve them for now.
JandJ1224
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I say once you have physical contact you're cheating, starting with kissing...
I absolutely beieve once a cheater always a cheater, I think cheating is weak and shows flaw in you're character, if you are not happy end things don't cheat (can you tell my dad cheated on my mom) TERRIBLE!!
Well my first serious relationship was with someone who I know had cheated in the past, it was awful. I don't think you can ever really trust in a relationship if that happened.
I have NEVER cheated.
SPITSBRIDE
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Posted by STBMrsDaniRella
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1. Kissing
2. It depends, I mean someone who may have cheated when they were 16 years old is very different from an adult who cheated. If the person cheated at a much older age than yes, I believe once a cheat always a cheat because at that point they know it's just wrong.
3. No, not at all because every relationship is different.
4. Yes, when I was much younger.
#2 and #3 make VERY good points!!
Thank you
mnducc
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1.1. It is so complicated to define that line. Like I would say any emotional or physical action with the opposite sex that is not respectful of each other and the commitment of monogamy. To define that depends of situations but there are things that absolutely not aloud (kissing,sex, ect...) and then there is what you think is disrespectful. Like I have defined that cheating is ANY sexual 'interaction' with someone I have not approved of (this includes on line chats.stripers touching.). Flirting - whatever got bigger things to worry about but in front of me is very disrespectful & I know It would cause a fight but not cheating.
2. In that relationship very likely, even if you threaten to leave unless you do it will continue.... If they lose something they love maybe they won't do it when they love again.
3. Depends on when & with whom it happened.
4. Yep! In my high school years, I don't think anybody should be too serious in HS, besides your just learning about relationships then.
MichLiz213
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1. I don't consider playful flirting cheating, but once it starts to get serious, then that crosses the line.
2. I think it depends on the situation. If a person continues to cheat and they are continued to be forgiven by the same person, I think that makes them more likely to cheat again.
3. It would really depend on the circumstances if he did.
4. It was silly high school cheating. Last time I did it I was in high school and it was never farther than making out. I have never cheated on my FH and never would.
