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Spinoff to How much to leave

Im getting Married Posted:

Spinoff to How much to leave

Just wondering if you are in the BP do you leave more, else or the same as you normaly would


leesah85 Posted:

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if i'm in the BP, i always give more at a wedding. usually at least $100 more than i normally would, and sometimes 2x as much as i normally would, especially if FH and I are BOTH in the BP

IrishAli Posted:

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I don't upgrade by much. I always think that I bought the dress, shoes, chipped in for a shower, and got her a pricier shower gift than I normally would. So I might add like $50.

MNM0805 Posted:

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A little more than usual.

Positanochick Posted:

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More than usual....if you're in the BP then it means you're a really good friend (for the most part lol) or family so I would put in more.

VCanizalez Posted:

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Never been in the BP, But i wuld give MORE

adelya21 Posted:

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def more! esp if a good friend or fam.

LoveyDovey Posted:

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wow, im surprised!

we never give more if were in the BP...because we have spent so much on other things...shower, bach party, dress, etc

if were both in each other BP within recent time frame we dont give anything

FHs friend is getting married in april...us in sept, we both agreed not to give each other money- its silly its like just keep the money in your pocket rather than just exchange it lol
lilgem250 Posted:

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If the weddings are far apart, I would give more.

dianeb888 Posted:

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Posted by IrishAli

I don't upgrade by much. I always think that I bought the dress, shoes, chipped in for a shower, and got her a pricier shower gift than I normally would. So I might add like $50.



I agree with this, I usualy give the same
harts2976 Posted:

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I was only in one so far since none of my friends are married. It was my cousins so I gave a lot extra. I think for the most part I will always give 100 more

Soon2BMrsJoeBear Posted:

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I usually give a significant amount more if i'm in the wedding...

haitianbeautie Posted:

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the same becasue I spent a lot already

Tomsbride Posted:

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If i am in the BP its usually a very close friend so I give a more $$. Not too much though cause I'm broke! Probably $350-400 (for FH and I)

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