stating the obvious

Tiggeruth Posted: Apr 18, 2006 06:15 PM

stating the obvious

this whole wedding planning thing is like hurry hurry and then wait...

I got all excited figuring out the flowers thing and then booking the florist and i just realized now there is nothing to do with flowers until seeing a sample centerpiece three months before and that is like 6 months away.

I know that there is still so much for me to do but its like you need to rush and get something done but then that's that and then you start to wait.

Vicky423 Posted: Apr 18, 2006 06:17 PM

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yeah and waiting is the worst part of it.

bride2b24 Posted: Apr 18, 2006 06:27 PM

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yeah i def agree.......waiting stinks!!!!o yeah and so does paying....lol

mskittynj Posted: Apr 18, 2006 06:31 PM

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Everyone that got married b4 me told me that wedding planningcomes in waves, sometimes theres lots to do and sometimes nothing....I'm in the nothing wave right now....lol
XOXOXO
Kitty

casjj28 Posted: Apr 18, 2006 06:43 PM

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I TOTALLY agree with that. I had to hurry up and book the major vendors so that I got who I wanted (I mean if I have to wait 15 months until the wedding I had better get what I want!) and now I just have to wait until it gets closer to do everything!

SunBride07 Posted: Apr 18, 2006 06:56 PM

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It really is annoying. I would rather take everything slowly and enjoy it as opposed to being frantic and then having nothing to do and then being frantic again...

Missladybug15 Posted: Apr 18, 2006 10:23 PM

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I hate waiting!!! UGH

JPand TT Posted: Apr 18, 2006 10:30 PM

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Posted by bride2b24

yeah i def agree.......waiting stinks!!!!o yeah and so does paying....lol

The paying is definitely the worst part.

brittny817 Posted: Apr 18, 2006 10:36 PM

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It's an ugly combination of anticipation mixed with anxiety...with lots of peaks and valleys.

Athee07 Posted: Apr 18, 2006 10:42 PM

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yea waiting ***** but just think about how worth it it will be when everything falls together!!!! And you are one of the first 07 brides (if not THE first) to be getting married!! It will be here before you know it! in the meantime enjoy your engaged life!!

2Be1 Posted: Apr 18, 2006 11:30 PM

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Posted by bride2b24

yeah i def agree.......waiting stinks!!!!o yeah and so does paying....lol

Yeah, payiing really stinks. . . I'd patiently wait if it was all FREE

lilpie19 Posted: Apr 18, 2006 11:31 PM

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I totally agree! I'm in the waiting stage now and I'm bored! hehe. I hate waiting. I also hate having a 2 year engagement. But the weeks go by faster when you don't think about wedding planning and you're like 'wow a month has gone by!'

NinaChris07 Posted: Apr 19, 2006 12:31 AM

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wish i had a fast forward button to next April!

LoveBug1124 Posted: Apr 19, 2006 07:18 AM

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Posted by Tiggeruth

this whole wedding planning thing is like hurry hurry and then wait...

I got all excited figuring out the flowers thing and then booking the florist and i just realized now there is nothing to do with flowers until seeing a sample centerpiece three months before and that is like 6 months away.

I know that there is still so much for me to do but its like you need to rush and get something done but then that's that and then you start to wait.

I feel the same way after booking the hall we didn't do anything for 3 months then did the photographer. I found a dress I love but i'm waiting because i'm sad of the idea of not looking for a gown!!

tonimike Posted: Apr 19, 2006 07:31 AM

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I so agree with this,, We got engaged, booked the hall, church & band, It was so exciting & now we are just idle,, If it werent for our engagement party next month we'd be like what happen ,, Ive looked at gowns & I have my ideas on the other vendors i want to use, but I know once we go to them the are gonna want $$$$ & right now we are strapped..

transamgirlie Posted: Apr 19, 2006 08:17 AM

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I hear ya. I have a lot to book still though. I still have to finalize my photographer and my hair and makeup and all that stuff. I am so busy trying to put $$ aside that I am putting some of the other stuff off.

chellynyc Posted: Apr 19, 2006 09:10 AM

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I know!! I have nothing to do now until July when we're doing pre-cana and after that we won't be doing anything until Feb. 2007 and that's ordering invitations....I hate waiting!!

BrideChrissy Posted: Apr 19, 2006 09:32 AM

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Yea, I'm in the waiting stage now too. Nothing to do. The only major vendors that I have left are the limos and flowers which we will do over the summer. Also, June I will be looking for a dress. We haven't done much since March. I miss it!