STD Address Dilemma
So we still have not harvested in all the addresses, so I'm just sending STDs to people that are related to them. Ie: I am sending my great-great aunt's children's STDs to their mother's house b/c I do not know their addresses.
My mother's aunt was supposed to send us her sister-in-laws' addesses. She never did. We were able to hunt down one of them, but the other we can't find. I want to just send the STD to my great aunt. To me this makes sense. They are sister in laws...they will eventually speak to each other ++++they are invited to the wedding themselves.
My mom says that I should def not send it to her, and instead send it to the children of this woman (the children are NOT invited!) This makes no sense to me, and is very weird. And we can't just invite them, because that would mean we would have to invite like another 10-15 people.
Who do I send this thing to??? my great aunt (her sister in law) who IS invited?? Or her children who are NOT invited??
My mother's aunt was supposed to send us her sister-in-laws' addesses. She never did. We were able to hunt down one of them, but the other we can't find. I want to just send the STD to my great aunt. To me this makes sense. They are sister in laws...they will eventually speak to each other ++++they are invited to the wedding themselves.
My mom says that I should def not send it to her, and instead send it to the children of this woman (the children are NOT invited!) This makes no sense to me, and is very weird. And we can't just invite them, because that would mean we would have to invite like another 10-15 people.
Who do I send this thing to??? my great aunt (her sister in law) who IS invited?? Or her children who are NOT invited??
