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strapless regret...HELP

stargazerlily Posted:

strapless regret...HELP

SO having never worn a strapless anything before...i get this brilliant idea to get a strapless wedding (because I fell in love with it). So to get used to the feeling I just chose a strapless engagement dress.

SO the reason I don't wear strapless is because I don't feel it flatters my body. I have what I think are very noticable rolls under my arms.

SO I asked my FH to take a pic in the dress and it came out awful and now I am freaking out that I made a huge mistake. I am putting pics of what I am talking about in my album....please respond and tell me if I should rethink strapless, or advice to help.

Clothes should flatter you, and I'm not sure I made good choices.
KPetekie Posted:

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I think the dress is beautiful. I think you could have it altered to add straps if that is what you would be more comfortable with.

Nichole2010 Posted:

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people tentd to look at themselves in a different way than other people look at you...

you are your biggest critic


im sure its not as bad as you think..

POST PICS!!
SoonToBMrsC Posted:

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Honestly, you look gorgeous in your dress and I don't see what you are talking about because I don't even see anything hanging over your dress...you are just having the wedding jitters, trust me you look amazing!!!!

sjNY Posted:

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I think you look beautiful and the dress is very flattering. I agree that if you want straps, you can always have it altered to add them on.

hogie2be Posted:

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you look beautiful in your wedding? dress pics.. in your engagement? party dress your dress seems a bit lower than usual and the tan lines accent what everyone has unless you work out religiously... so pull up the black and white one more and don't sweat about the wedding dress at all!!!
Nichole2010 Posted:

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Oh my gosh..i just looked in your album & i think you look great!!! im not even kidding!!! seriously!

FloridaGal Posted:

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You look amazing in your wedding dress!! Don't worry at any rolls, you don't have any!!

Your engagement dress needs to be brought up a little, maybe take it for alterations, but you still look amazing with it!!!!
kbond06 Posted:

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I personally don't see anything your talking about in your wedding dress! It looks beautiful.
I see what your criticizing in the party dress, but it's a different cut than your gown. If it continues to be on your mind, could you have them make lace cap sleeves that match the material of your wedding gown?
gigglebride Posted:

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I agree with all the comments - I think your tan lines and the cut of your party dress don't flatter you nearly as much as your wedding gown which you look AWESOME in!!!! So beautiful, don't change a thing!!!

gina409 Posted:

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ok i just looked in ur album and i have no idea what u r talkin bout..u look beautiful and i would kill for ur arms

Lau0614 Posted:

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you look great and i think maybe your tanlines are throwing you off....once you even out it look perfect

little j Posted:

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if you feel self conscious, you can consider getting a shrug/jacket. then take some pics with it on and some wth it off. once you feel comfortable (pop the champage and relax) take the jacket off and party!! :)

little j Posted:

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ok. i just saw your pics. your dress is gorgeous and you look great! you have nothing to worry about!!!!

but seriously...if you are self consious, just get a little lace shrug made. i know there are some vendors on etsy.com that will do it for a reasonable rate. GL!
Jayla127 Posted:

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I don't even know why we are having this conversation. I checked out your album and honestly you look fabulous in your wedding dress. Your engagement dress is fine as well just bring it up a bit. Their is nothing wrong at all.

LaurenJosh Posted:

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I think you look great!

bkbaby4life Posted:

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i think ur crazy lol.

you look AWESOME in ur wedding dress. i think its a more flattering cut than the e-dress. so dont compare the two.
JMBJPK Posted:

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honey, as all of these girls have stated...YOU LOOK GREAT! Your wedding dress is beautiful and you absolutely nothing to worry about.

TommysWife08 Posted:

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Posted by JMBJPK

honey, as all of these girls have stated...YOU LOOK GREAT! Your wedding dress is beautiful and you absolutely nothing to worry about.



ITA!!!! you look beautiful!!!!!

if you still cant decide... just have straps put on the dress!

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