Okay so my FH was in Atlantic City this past weekend for his friends bachelor party. And the last stop they made was to a strip club. Now there's nothing i can do about it. It was his friends bachelor party and i certainly don't expect my FH to sit anything out. But i had a few thoughts on the topic...
-lots of people say that it's their last chance to see some boobs or naked bodies. Now correct me if i'm wrong, but didn't the guys think of this before they put the damn ring on your finger? I mean when you give the girl a ring... it sort of means that she's it, doesn't it? And that she's the last person you're ever going to sleep with? So if you want to see more boobs or a*ses... shouldn't you wait to give her the ring or at least visit the strip club before you propose to get it out of your system? I mean how romantic is it that your FH has to go to a strip club right before he marries you? Wow that says romance to me!!!
-Okay so say your FH is at a bar and him and a group of people leave. Then he realizes he has to pee and this girl in the group says oh i'm right around the corner, you can use my bathroom (i know its far fetched, but keep with me). When your FH comes out of the bathroom, she all of a sudden comes out of the room naked.... shouldn't your FH feel awkward and that he shouldn't be seeing this, much less be there? That's its very inappropriate? So why is it okay to see someone naked as long as you PAY for it?
I know i'm rambling and all, but it just aggravates me. I mean just because some people say it's acceptable to pay to see naked women, doesn't mean that it's okay. If you're single, that's one thing. But especially when you're engaged... how is it appropriate or acceptable to see other naked women!?!?!?! My FH definitely wouldn't like me showing my goods to other people, so why would it be okay for him to see someone else's goods?
DjPiLL
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You are a piece of work! You still didn't actually answer my question though! I wonder why that is!
There is no need to answer your question. I have already established that anything you say is simply outrageous.
Does anyone here REALLY think this would EVER happen? Come on. This is just sooooo silly and outrageous... I couldn't think this story up even if I tried to sell it.
Are you really that insecure? God forbid your FH sees a woman's tits. Does this mean gynecology is not an allowed profession for him?
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-Okay so say your FH is at a bar and him and a group of people leave. Then he realizes he has to pee and this girl in the group says oh i'm right around the corner, you can use my bathroom (i know its far fetched, but keep with me). When your FH comes out of the bathroom, she all of a sudden comes out of the room naked.... shouldn't your FH feel awkward and that he shouldn't be seeing this, much less be there? That's its very inappropriate? So why is it okay to see someone naked as long as you PAY for it?
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are you kidding me? are you seriously going to say that? Girls vent and talk about things on here all the time and i can't post 1 thing to vent about? I didn't realize you were the board police deciding what can be talked about.
I'm not saying you can't post about it. But since your 'vent' is being posted on a public form... expect a public opinion.
And yeah I am a guy.... married to a woman that shares the same view that I have.
Look buddy... i can take whatever you dish out! But not everyone on here can do the same, so maybe you should try being less of an a*s when posting your opinions! Just a suggestion!
Girl, you need to take a chill pill. Maybe you should go, it may loosen you up a bit
I think you are being very insensitive, hopefully when something is bothering you and you ask for opinions others don't make a joke out of your concerns
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are you kidding me? are you seriously going to say that? Girls vent and talk about things on here all the time and i can't post 1 thing to vent about? I didn't realize you were the board police deciding what can be talked about.
I'm not saying you can't post about it. But since your 'vent' is being posted on a public form... expect a public opinion.
And yeah I am a guy.... married to a woman that shares the same view that I have.
Look buddy... i can take whatever you dish out! But not everyone on here can do the same, so maybe you should try being less of an a*s when posting your opinions! Just a suggestion!
Girl, you need to take a chill pill. Maybe you should go, it may loosen you up a bit
I think you are being very insensitive, hopefully when something is bothering you and you ask for opinions others don't make a joke out of your concerns
Amen.
aliwnec10
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Posted by aliwnec10
You are a piece of work! You still didn't actually answer my question though! I wonder why that is!
There is no need to answer your question. I have already established that anything you say is simply outrageous.
Does anyone here REALLY think this would EVER happen? Come on. This is just sooooo silly and outrageous... I couldn't think this story up even if I tried to sell it.
Are you really that insecure? God forbid your FH sees a woman's tits. Does this mean gynecology is not an allowed profession for him?
Posted by aliwnec10
-Okay so say your FH is at a bar and him and a group of people leave. Then he realizes he has to pee and this girl in the group says oh i'm right around the corner, you can use my bathroom (i know its far fetched, but keep with me). When your FH comes out of the bathroom, she all of a sudden comes out of the room naked.... shouldn't your FH feel awkward and that he shouldn't be seeing this, much less be there? That's its very inappropriate? So why is it okay to see someone naked as long as you PAY for it?
I'm sorry if my example was a little weak. All i was trying to say was that under what other circumstance outside of a strip club, is it okay to see other woman naked??
And to answer your question, i'm not insecure at all actually. It has nothing to do with that. My problem is that you are obnoxious and what you posted about that girls opinion was flat out over the line and mean! Do you understand that or should i explain it again?
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God this is why I LOVE these silly strip club threads.
I can relate to people that don't like them... but they don't care in the end.
But some people get so worked up.
There are women out there with some serious issues. Cheating husbands. Alcoholics. Drugs. Financial problems. Deaths in the family.
But some people on this site are willing to break off a marriage (with a perfectly good man) because her future husband saw a set of tits on another woman (at a strip club).
aliwnec10
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God this is why I LOVE these silly strip club threads.
I can relate to people that don't like them... but they don't care in the end.
But some people get so worked up.
There are women out there with some serious issues. Cheating husbands. Alcoholics. Drugs. Financial problems. Deaths in the family.
But some people on this site are willing to break off a marriage (with a perfectly good man) because her future husband saw a set of tits on another woman (at a strip club).
Did i say that i was going to break up with him? Did i forbid him from going to the strip club? Did i do any of that or do you just not read anything that has been written?!?!?!? Nice try... but i never said any of that.
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I have to step in and say something here. Its not just about having ur man see another pair of T*ts-its the fact that some other girl is rubbing her body all over ur guy..sorry, imo that is gross-
the only body i want rubbed on my fiance's is my own...
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Posted by DjPiLL
God this is why I LOVE these silly strip club threads.
I can relate to people that don't like them... but they don't care in the end.
But some people get so worked up.
There are women out there with some serious issues. Cheating husbands. Alcoholics. Drugs. Financial problems. Deaths in the family.
But some people on this site are willing to break off a marriage (with a perfectly good man) because her future husband saw a set of tits on another woman (at a strip club).
hey strip clubs are a serious issue. many a wedding has been called off b/c of a few boobs.
MrsWmson2be
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God this is why I LOVE these silly strip club threads.
I can relate to people that don't like them... but they don't care in the end.
But some people get so worked up.
There are women out there with some serious issues. Cheating husbands. Alcoholics. Drugs. Financial problems. Deaths in the family.
But some people on this site are willing to break off a marriage (with a perfectly good man) because her future husband saw a set of tits on another woman (at a strip club).
Welllll...if he's willing to upset her for something he can control or compromise on then he isn't a 'perfectly good man', is he??
A 'perfectly good man' takes into account his FW's feelings, particularly when something is an issue for her. Now, you can't go around b******* about EVERYTHING, and sometimes you have to bite the bullet and give in on things....but I know FH wouldn't like it at all if I had men rubbing their groins in my face and God knows where else. Relationships are give and take. There's things that bother his friends' wives/gfs/FH that I don't think twice about giving him a hard time for.
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Posted by Sunrise813
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are you kidding me? are you seriously going to say that? Girls vent and talk about things on here all the time and i can't post 1 thing to vent about? I didn't realize you were the board police deciding what can be talked about.
I'm not saying you can't post about it. But since your 'vent' is being posted on a public form... expect a public opinion.
And yeah I am a guy.... married to a woman that shares the same view that I have.
Look buddy... i can take whatever you dish out! But not everyone on here can do the same, so maybe you should try being less of an a*s when posting your opinions! Just a suggestion!
Girl, you need to take a chill pill. Maybe you should go, it may loosen you up a bit
I think you are being very insensitive, hopefully when something is bothering you and you ask for opinions others don't make a joke out of your concerns
I am not being insensitive. I think it is laughable to equate respect and love to going to a strip club. I am sorry, but that is how I feel. Like it or hate it.........
ETA :and like I said earlier, if it is that big of a deal, your FH should respect your wishes. I just don't want to be 'that girl'
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Posted by aliwnec10
are you kidding me? are you seriously going to say that? Girls vent and talk about things on here all the time and i can't post 1 thing to vent about? I didn't realize you were the board police deciding what can be talked about.
I'm not saying you can't post about it. But since your 'vent' is being posted on a public form... expect a public opinion.
And yeah I am a guy.... married to a woman that shares the same view that I have.
Look buddy... i can take whatever you dish out! But not everyone on here can do the same, so maybe you should try being less of an a*s when posting your opinions! Just a suggestion!
Girl, you need to take a chill pill. Maybe you should go, it may loosen you up a bit
I think you are being very insensitive, hopefully when something is bothering you and you ask for opinions others don't make a joke out of your concerns
I am not being insensitive. I think it is laughable to equate respect and love to going to a strip club. I am sorry, but that is how I feel. Like it or hate it.........
man, i completely agree. if you don't 'let' your man go, you really have bigger issues
aliwnec10
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DOES NOBODY ACTUALLY READ THE WHOLE THREAD??
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DOES NOBODY ACTUALLY READ THE WHOLE THREAD??
uummm, yes, do you ?????????
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DOES NOBODY ACTUALLY READ THE WHOLE THREAD??
uummm, yes, do you ?????????
you do realize that i'm the one who started the post, don't you?
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I was looking for the Brides Helping Brides chat board ... am I lost?
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I just have to say that when I told my FI that some guy was posting on a thread on LIW who is actually already married and has been for awhile..well let's just say he didn't think it was a female strip club you were going too.
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I just have to say that when I told my FI that some guy was posting on a thread on LIW who is actually already married and has been for awhile..well let's just say he didn't think it was a female strip club you were going too.
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I was looking for the Brides Helping Brides chat board ... am I lost?
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I just have to say that when I told my FI that some guy was posting on a thread on LIW who is actually already married and has been for awhile..well let's just say he didn't think it was a female strip club you were going too.
Ok..because you are so confused. We think it is rather funny that a 'guy' would be posting on a wedding site frequented by 99% girls geez..you guys take the fun out of everything. I guess i am just used to guys being less 'into' this kind of thing...I like my men alittle less ..girly.
Amy
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I do not like them either.. my FH knows how I Feel and respects it.. But to be honest I know for his b pary he will go to one for sure. I will have to suck it up......... I trust him.. plus my brother and father will be there.
