just wondering what the rest of you think of strip clubs and strippers for bachelor and bachelorette parties. Would you object if your FH went to a strip club with all his boys? Would you be upset if he got a lap dance?
I think when girls hire a stripper - it's usually cheezy and funny and most of the women are laughing and screaming. But I think for guys it's different.
Personally, I don't care. I think it's all in good fun. I don't consider it cheating or inappropriate on either end. I trust my guy wouldn't do anything that I would consider cheating - like paying for something 'extra'.
What do you think?
meli722
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I worked in CVS during high school and developed pictures. Can I just tell you the SH*T I saw that would go on during bachelor parties???????? Definately not good!
Anyways, I personally don't appreciate some lady's rack in my fiance's face. I personally think it is not needed. I mean, would we go and have someone's junk in our face?
ive been to a party with female strippers and the things that were done OMGGGGG i cant even repeat, it was basically we were watching live porn lol But what can you do? you know a lot of these girls do these things, but if FH is invitied to a bach party where theyre going to be there, how would i know theyre not going to do nasty things like that? you can never know what strippers are going to do, just have to trust FH, i dont mind him watching that stuff just if he does stuff it bothers me
FuTuRe MrS MaZz
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Posted by flairforfashion
I worked in CVS during high school and developed pictures. Can I just tell you the SH*T I saw that would go on during bachelor parties???????? Definately not good!
Anyways, I personally don't appreciate some lady's rack in my fiance's face. I personally think it is not needed. I mean, would we go and have someone's junk in our face?
ive been to a party with female strippers and the things that were done OMGGGGG i cant even repeat, it was basically we were watching live porn lol But what can you do? you know a lot of these girls do these things, but if FH is invitied to a bach party where theyre going to be there, how would i know theyre not going to do nasty things like that? you can never know what strippers are going to do, just have to trust FH, i dont mind him watching that stuff just if he does stuff it bothers me
ugh just imagining that made me throw up in my mouth a lil
meli722
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Posted by meli722
Posted by flairforfashion
I worked in CVS during high school and developed pictures. Can I just tell you the SH*T I saw that would go on during bachelor parties???????? Definately not good!
Anyways, I personally don't appreciate some lady's rack in my fiance's face. I personally think it is not needed. I mean, would we go and have someone's junk in our face?
ive been to a party with female strippers and the things that were done OMGGGGG i cant even repeat, it was basically we were watching live porn lol But what can you do? you know a lot of these girls do these things, but if FH is invitied to a bach party where theyre going to be there, how would i know theyre not going to do nasty things like that? you can never know what strippers are going to do, just have to trust FH, i dont mind him watching that stuff just if he does stuff it bothers me
ugh just imagining that made me throw up in my mouth a lil
lol it was a friends BF's birthday.....she invited guys and girls....the guys were actually behaving, it was the birthday boy that they were doing NASTY things to. it was 2 girls. they did things to him, did things to each other......etc etc
FuTuRe MrS MaZz
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Posted by meli722
Posted by FuTuRe MrS MaZz
Posted by meli722
Posted by flairforfashion
I worked in CVS during high school and developed pictures. Can I just tell you the SH*T I saw that would go on during bachelor parties???????? Definately not good!
Anyways, I personally don't appreciate some lady's rack in my fiance's face. I personally think it is not needed. I mean, would we go and have someone's junk in our face?
ive been to a party with female strippers and the things that were done OMGGGGG i cant even repeat, it was basically we were watching live porn lol But what can you do? you know a lot of these girls do these things, but if FH is invitied to a bach party where theyre going to be there, how would i know theyre not going to do nasty things like that? you can never know what strippers are going to do, just have to trust FH, i dont mind him watching that stuff just if he does stuff it bothers me
ugh just imagining that made me throw up in my mouth a lil
lol it was a friends BF's birthday.....she invited guys and girls....the guys were actually behaving, it was the birthday boy that they were doing NASTY things to. it was 2 girls. they did things to him, did things to each other......etc etc
all i am thinkin of is like girls shooting various items out their cooch... ugh i wanna know how the hell THAT became entertainment
meli722
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Posted by meli722
Posted by FuTuRe MrS MaZz
Posted by meli722
Posted by flairforfashion
I worked in CVS during high school and developed pictures. Can I just tell you the SH*T I saw that would go on during bachelor parties???????? Definately not good!
Anyways, I personally don't appreciate some lady's rack in my fiance's face. I personally think it is not needed. I mean, would we go and have someone's junk in our face?
ive been to a party with female strippers and the things that were done OMGGGGG i cant even repeat, it was basically we were watching live porn lol But what can you do? you know a lot of these girls do these things, but if FH is invitied to a bach party where theyre going to be there, how would i know theyre not going to do nasty things like that? you can never know what strippers are going to do, just have to trust FH, i dont mind him watching that stuff just if he does stuff it bothers me
ugh just imagining that made me throw up in my mouth a lil
lol it was a friends BF's birthday.....she invited guys and girls....the guys were actually behaving, it was the birthday boy that they were doing NASTY things to. it was 2 girls. they did things to him, did things to each other......etc etc
all i am thinkin of is like girls shooting various items out their cooch... ugh i wanna know how the hell THAT became entertainment
baba022
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I could care less...for me personally I dont want one....some of the guys are just as schevy as the girls...I don't want them touching me....LOL As for the bach party....it doesnt bother me....he can have one if he wants...I trust his judgement....a lap dance never hurt anyone as long as you know it wont lead into anything else.....he feels the same way i do about strippers...they are schevy and also, who knows what they have or not...so who knows if he is going to want one or not...LOL
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Posted by meli722
Posted by FuTuRe MrS MaZz
Posted by meli722
Posted by flairforfashion
I worked in CVS during high school and developed pictures. Can I just tell you the SH*T I saw that would go on during bachelor parties???????? Definately not good!
Anyways, I personally don't appreciate some lady's rack in my fiance's face. I personally think it is not needed. I mean, would we go and have someone's junk in our face?
ive been to a party with female strippers and the things that were done OMGGGGG i cant even repeat, it was basically we were watching live porn lol But what can you do? you know a lot of these girls do these things, but if FH is invitied to a bach party where theyre going to be there, how would i know theyre not going to do nasty things like that? you can never know what strippers are going to do, just have to trust FH, i dont mind him watching that stuff just if he does stuff it bothers me
ugh just imagining that made me throw up in my mouth a lil
lol it was a friends BF's birthday.....she invited guys and girls....the guys were actually behaving, it was the birthday boy that they were doing NASTY things to. it was 2 girls. they did things to him, did things to each other......etc etc
all i am thinkin of is like girls shooting various items out their cooch... ugh i wanna know how the hell THAT became entertainment
I just read this and am hysterical laughing....some people are just so nasty!!!!!
flairforfashion
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Posted by FuTuRe MrS MaZz all i am thinkin of is like girls shooting various items out their cooch... ugh i wanna know how the hell THAT became entertainment
HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA!!!!!!!
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I am actually not OK with it and neither is my FH. We are having a Jack & Jill Bachelor/Bachelorette so all the bp is going to go out together and have a fun filled night.
ohhh i freakin wish! i have the best time with the boys and have very little girlfriends so this sux for me
Same as you Mazz, but we're having a jack & jill. Can't wait for it! Hope things change and you get to have one!
Im a Pepper
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I'm OK as long as everything stays inside, where it's supposed to be! But for the bachelor party only - I don't think I'd be happy if it were a regular outing!
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I can't be any more AGAINST it. I have strong issues with strip clubs/bach. parties due to my own family/emotional issues. In my opinion it is me and FH making a commitment to EACH OTHER, mind, body, soul, etc. This includes anything sexual even if it isn't touching. I don't see how it is necessary or fun to look at other women in that way when you are going to commit to someone. You are planning a wedding together, why do you need that last hurrah? To me the guy should have made that decision a long time ago. I've heard horror stories too and I don't know how people let themselves get carried away, but that is for them to worry about, not me. All I know is if FH went to that kind of party, he is not the one for me.
Disclaimer: I don't mean any negativity to anyone else who disagrees with me either. This is only my opinion and I feel the need to voice it only because it irks me so much. Not trying to cause any drama!
