Strippers and Strip Clubs - your opinions

TheLadyJ Posted: Jun 17, 2008 07:09 PM

Strippers and Strip Clubs - your opinions

just wondering what the rest of you think of strip clubs and strippers for bachelor and bachelorette parties. Would you object if your FH went to a strip club with all his boys? Would you be upset if he got a lap dance?

I think when girls hire a stripper - it's usually cheezy and funny and most of the women are laughing and screaming. But I think for guys it's different.

Personally, I don't care. I think it's all in good fun. I don't consider it cheating or inappropriate on either end. I trust my guy wouldn't do anything that I would consider cheating - like paying for something 'extra'.

What do you think?

MaggieLuvsJoe Posted: Jun 17, 2008 07:14 PM

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If it's for a bachelor/bachelorette party then I am okay with it. If it's a weekend ritual with the guys then I am not okay with it.

I don't mind FH going for his Bachelor party, it's something guys do and besides, my brothers and uncles will be there too so he won't step too much out of line lol.

I definitely wouldnt tolerate it if it was something he would do on a regular basis though.

DonnaPWhite1124 Posted: Jun 17, 2008 07:15 PM

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Every guy Ive dated/ had a relationship with has been to a bach party where there were strippers or attended a strip club.
If they get a lap dance they get a lap dance. No biggie. Just keep it in the pants is all I ask.

jenniferd Posted: Jun 17, 2008 07:15 PM

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I agree. I personally don't like male strippers. I'm not really into it. As for female ones, it doesn't really bother me. I try not to think about it. I'd rather him go to a strip club than have them hired in a hotel room or something. I have heard very nasty stories. I trust that FH wouldn't do anything stupid like you said anything that would be considered cheating like def paying for a lil somethin somethin.

ladybengal Posted: Jun 17, 2008 07:17 PM

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it doesn't bother me.

lizzzie35 Posted: Jun 17, 2008 07:17 PM

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I wouldn't mind it so much... as long as it wasn't habitual and just for occasions like a bachelor party.

FH refuses to go to one so I have no idea what he'll do for his partY!!

DonnaPWhite1124 Posted: Jun 17, 2008 07:18 PM

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I think I was watching Maury one day a while ago and it showed raunchy bachelor parties caught on tape, and it showed the groom getting down and dirty with a stripper in where else, a hotel room with all the boys watching. Yucky.

jenniferd Posted: Jun 17, 2008 07:32 PM

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Posted by DonnaPWhite1124

I think I was watching Maury one day a while ago and it showed raunchy bachelor parties caught on tape, and it showed the groom getting down and dirty with a stripper in where else, a hotel room with all the boys watching. Yucky.

Dirty

melcc83 Posted: Jun 17, 2008 07:34 PM

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for the bachloreete party i really dont care. Do i like the idea of course not, but im going to a strip club so i really have no right to say anything. I do feel like its different for girls then for guys but still as much as i arent going to like it i want him to have fun to

FuTuRe MrS MaZz Posted: Jun 17, 2008 07:44 PM

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I dont agree with either for either party. Never have, never will... Most bachelor parties dont include ONLY looking so this is why im not okay with it... as for bachelorette parties, its cheesy, girls end up acting like animals and its just nasty...

lilpiggy742 Posted: Jun 17, 2008 08:02 PM

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If it's for a bach party w/e If he wants that hes gonna do it so why stress ya know. I just have 2 trust him to not do anything stupid ( which i know he wont....its his friends on the other hand....ewwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwww)

BarbieGrl10 Posted: Jun 17, 2008 08:16 PM

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I dont mind strip clubs at all! I've offered to take him there....but he hates them.
I'm NOT a fan of them at bach parties b/c its like an excuse for things to be pushed a little further then they would normally.

I dont want any strippers at my b-party... I would rather have my GFs spend that money on themselves..... then a sweaty salami in my face.

cedesnyc Posted: Jun 17, 2008 08:31 PM

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I'm cool w/ it. I trust my boy

Lisa218 Posted: Jun 17, 2008 08:33 PM

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I don't mind if he goes for the bach party. As long as it's not a every weekend.

Me, personally... I don't like that stuff. It's not my scene. I would rather get some drinks & go dancing or a spa day with my bridesmaids!

Lisa218 Posted: Jun 17, 2008 08:35 PM

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Posted by BarbieGrl10

I dont mind strip clubs at all! I've offered to take him there....but he hates them.
I'm NOT a fan of them at bach parties b/c its like an excuse for things to be pushed a little further then they would normally.

I dont want any strippers at my b-party... I would rather have my GFs spend that money on themselves..... then a sweaty salami in my face.

My Fh hates the strip clubs too....His groomsmen already asked if he wanted to go and he said 'no thanks'

I agree about the sweaty salami!! I was laughing hysterically when i read that. Soooo true!!

Summertimegal424 Posted: Jun 17, 2008 09:36 PM

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i dont want strippers myself...i think its gross! i would rather go to a mens club! haha

DnJ0809 Posted: Jun 17, 2008 09:41 PM

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I already told FH he has my permission to do whatever he wants for his bachelor party. And that includes strip clubs. I think it's 'tradition'. I dunno. I want him to have fun.

Shellymd Posted: Jun 17, 2008 09:49 PM

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I really dont care either. I used to hate when my bf's went but for some reason i totally trust my fiance. I cant imagine ever getting upset or in a fight about it. I only ask that he keeps his pants on.haha..but i am totally cool with it. I do NOT want yucky male strippers near me though!

oldfriendoflive Posted: Jun 17, 2008 10:59 PM

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I don't care. He really thinks strippers are sleazy. I don't think he is into that. He ha d gone in the past because of his friends. He already said that he did not want anything stripper related for his Bachlor party.I personally think the male review shows are like comedy shows. I been to Escapes and Hunk a Mania so I definetly don't want to go for my bacholrette party-been there done that.

BeLissa Posted: Jun 17, 2008 11:06 PM

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i totally agree with you in that its diff for girls than it is guys. Me personally, I'm not into male strippers and would def not want them to be involved in my bach party. FH is not really into that either and while i cant say honestly that i wouldnt mind some strippers a$$ in my FH's face or grinding up against him (just threw up a little bit in my mouth) knowing that that is so not his scene and would prob skeeve him out too makes it much less bothersome.