I've never been to tacky wedding but i've had my fair share of tacky baby showers and parties.
ain't no party like a new york party cuz a new york party don't stop!!!! lol
Posted by Goldie39
ain't no party like a new york party cuz a new york party don't stop!!!! lol
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Posted by Goldie39
ain't no party like a new york party cuz a new york party don't stop!!!! lol
HEYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYY WHOP WHOP![]()
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yea, weddings outside of Long Island/New York City area are just different. I went to college in PA and all of my friends from school that got married had completely different weddings. One of them didn't have a dj, they used a desktop computer for the music and the food was awful - it was a buffet with a bunch of strange looking food. another one had an open bar but the only alcohol available was what the bride and groom had brought to the RH. all of these was completely normal to the people from PA. i just found it very strange.
hmmm i was also thinking, maybe there could be a cultural explanation to all this... like if i decided to have a chinese reception instead of an american wedding there won't be like an open bar or anything and its traditionally a family style dinner with 10 courses...lots of red and gold decor at a chinese restaurant...
Posted by christophersgirl
hmmm i was also thinking, maybe there could be a cultural explanation to all this... like if i decided to have a chinese reception instead of an american wedding there won't be like an open bar or anything and its traditionally a family style dinner with 10 courses...lots of red and gold decor at a chinese restaurant...
Posted by Goldie39
Posted by christophersgirl
hmmm i was also thinking, maybe there could be a cultural explanation to all this... like if i decided to have a chinese reception instead of an american wedding there won't be like an open bar or anything and its traditionally a family style dinner with 10 courses...lots of red and gold decor at a chinese restaurant...
that is so true, good point. that's just like a lot of people think the dollar dance is tacky but in certain countries and cultures it is the norm and is only considered harmless fun. i never knew just how many people thought that was tacky until i came on this site. personally, i don't know if FH and I are doing this. as a little girl seeing it done it looked so freaking fun! I guess it depends on your guest. some people actually realize that it's not the bride and grooms way of begging for money, but i dunno!
Posted by christophersgirl
hmmm i was also thinking, maybe there could be a cultural explanation to all this... like if i decided to have a chinese reception instead of an american wedding there won't be like an open bar or anything and its traditionally a family style dinner with 10 courses...lots of red and gold decor at a chinese restaurant...
Posted by SpringBride2010
Posted by Goldie39
Posted by christophersgirl
hmmm i was also thinking, maybe there could be a cultural explanation to all this... like if i decided to have a chinese reception instead of an american wedding there won't be like an open bar or anything and its traditionally a family style dinner with 10 courses...lots of red and gold decor at a chinese restaurant...
that is so true, good point. that's just like a lot of people think the dollar dance is tacky but in certain countries and cultures it is the norm and is only considered harmless fun. i never knew just how many people thought that was tacky until i came on this site. personally, i don't know if FH and I are doing this. as a little girl seeing it done it looked so freaking fun! I guess it depends on your guest. some people actually realize that it's not the bride and grooms way of begging for money, but i dunno!
I never even heard of a dollar dance only when i started watching Bridezillas. So like people pay the bride with dollars so they can dance with her...sounds interesting lol
Posted by Goldie39
Posted by SpringBride2010
Posted by Goldie39
Posted by christophersgirl
hmmm i was also thinking, maybe there could be a cultural explanation to all this... like if i decided to have a chinese reception instead of an american wedding there won't be like an open bar or anything and its traditionally a family style dinner with 10 courses...lots of red and gold decor at a chinese restaurant...
that is so true, good point. that's just like a lot of people think the dollar dance is tacky but in certain countries and cultures it is the norm and is only considered harmless fun. i never knew just how many people thought that was tacky until i came on this site. personally, i don't know if FH and I are doing this. as a little girl seeing it done it looked so freaking fun! I guess it depends on your guest. some people actually realize that it's not the bride and grooms way of begging for money, but i dunno!
I never even heard of a dollar dance only when i started watching Bridezillas. So like people pay the bride with dollars so they can dance with her...sounds interesting lol
ooh lord, bridezillas make anything look tacky! lol![]()
Posted by Goldie39
Posted by SpringBride2010
Posted by Goldie39
Posted by christophersgirl
hmmm i was also thinking, maybe there could be a cultural explanation to all this... like if i decided to have a chinese reception instead of an american wedding there won't be like an open bar or anything and its traditionally a family style dinner with 10 courses...lots of red and gold decor at a chinese restaurant...
that is so true, good point. that's just like a lot of people think the dollar dance is tacky but in certain countries and cultures it is the norm and is only considered harmless fun. i never knew just how many people thought that was tacky until i came on this site. personally, i don't know if FH and I are doing this. as a little girl seeing it done it looked so freaking fun! I guess it depends on your guest. some people actually realize that it's not the bride and grooms way of begging for money, but i dunno!
I never even heard of a dollar dance only when i started watching Bridezillas. So like people pay the bride with dollars so they can dance with her...sounds interesting lol
ooh lord, bridezillas make anything look tacky! lol![]()
I went to a very bad wedding at an LI recption hall I will not name (although I don't think any 2010 girls are getting married there anyway) The bride had no DJ just a lap-top and a friend played MC. The table cloths were dirty and used up looking. The bridesmaids just had any dress on... everything was so unorganized. The food was terrible & FH and I just wanted to leave! This wedding could have been alot better without spending more money...guess the bride didn't know about li weddings!! She also planned this mess for an entire year!!
Posted by Nurse12985
I went to a very bad wedding at an LI recption hall I will not name (although I don't think any 2010 girls are getting married there anyway) The bride had no DJ just a lap-top and a friend played MC. The table cloths were dirty and used up looking. The bridesmaids just had any dress on... everything was so unorganized. The food was terrible & FH and I just wanted to leave! This wedding could have been alot better without spending more money...guess the bride didn't know about li weddings!! She also planned this mess for an entire year!!
