Okay today is FMIL's birthday and we are supposed to go over there
Last Friday FSIL had 105 fever and she was diagnosed with the flu, she had a low grade fever even yesterday. She has three kids and none of them have any symptoms as of now. I have my flu shot.
FH called FMIL to make sure that no one was sick today so I can come to dinner. FMIL said in a nice way 'If Matilde is scared of getting sick, tell her she doesn't have to come - I understand'
So, I told FH to swing by and pick up her card and he pauses and says 'wait what? you are really not going to come?'
So I laughed it off and pretended I was joking, but I wasn't. Is that criminally insane NOT to go?
Julybride08
Posted:
Member since
Re: tell me i am crazy
No you are not crazy!! I would not go either. I wouldn't want to chance it.
ant n tilde
Posted:
Member since
Re: tell me i am crazy
thank you all so much for the advice!!!!!!
SB7308
Posted:
Member since
Re: tell me i am crazy
Make sure he doesnt kiss anyone!!! Have him wear a mask
anneandchris
Posted:
Member since
Re: tell me i am crazy
Glad to hear you are not going. Tell FH to be very careful!
JTsGal829
Posted:
Member since
Re: tell me i am crazy
yea def. tell FH to be careful having him be sick for the wedding or passing it on to you would be a nightmare. Def have him wash his hands a lot and not share any drinks.. and try not to get to close to anyone. you are def. not wrong for wanting to be healthy on ure wedding day!!!!!!!!!!!!!
minibride08
Posted:
Member since
Re: tell me i am crazy
Posted by ant n tilde
FH called me and begged me not to go yay! he is still going though boo!
Good thing you are staying home! Tell FH not to get too close & just call when they are all there to wish FMIL a happy bday
pameladhd
Posted:
Member since
Re: tell me i am crazy
If I were in your situation I would send over flowers with a little note explaining. Then when your FMIL calls to thank you you can apologize for not going and wish her a happy birthday.
That is just what I would do.
Crystan08
Posted:
Member since
Re: tell me i am crazy
OooOO i wouldn't even talk to anyone who had been in contact with anyone who is sick!! LoL JK Your not insane i feel the same way right now and my wedding is in June!!! LoL
jenn122397
Posted:
Member since
Re: tell me i am crazy
you are crazy! I mean seriously, should we start calling you Britney becaue you are a classified nutjob!
well you asked us to tell you that you were crazy - what did you expect?
ant n tilde
Posted:
Member since
Re: tell me i am crazy
Posted by jenn122397
you are crazy! I mean seriously, should we start calling you Britney becaue you are a classified nutjob!
well you asked us to tell you that you were crazy - what did you expect?
Mizzdimple
Posted:
Member since
Re: tell me i am crazy
if she understands....dont go..
xXxNovember08xXx
Posted:
Member since
Re: tell me i am crazy
Posted by SB7308
Posted by bluegreen08
i wouldnt want to go....
I wouldnt either and they should understand that you dont want to get sick for YOUR wedding!!!!
amen.... dont go... if you get sick u will hate that you went to her bday dinner... u can redo the bday dinner AFTER ur wedding
