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Today's QOTD is something i have been pondering lately....
What do you want to do or plan on doing for your bachelorette party??
Are you against strip clubs (for yourself & FH)??
I am hoping to have two bachelorette parties...
one being away somewhere tropical.. maybe the Bahamas or Puerto Rico for the weekend.. somewhere warm (since it will be in february/march) where we can relax on the beach.. i can work on my wedding tan & enjoy a good night life at the end of the day ... nothing to outlandish.. just a nice & relaxing trip with the girls!
the second one will most likely be a local one since i'm sure not everyone would be able to go away for the weekend for one reason or another.. either have it in AC or in Manhattan.. go out to dinner and then a club & stay in a hotel for the night/or weekend with my girliessss .. party like a rock star.. but it's up to my MOH & BM's as to where we would go.. if we wound up in a strip club i wouldn't be upset.. but in all honesty i think male strippers are not too attractive (well at least the ones i have seen when i've been to these clubs).. so if they do bring me somewhere i hope they're atleast hottt LOL
&& lastly... will i be upset if FH goes to one?? No.. it's what guys do & i'm not going to be one of those girls that tells him what he can and cannot do.. i trust his judgment and believe that he knows what is tastefully fun and what is crossing the line & he will make the right decision... his friends on the other hand.. they're lost causes!! LOL
okay... so what are your thoughts & ideas??
MrsC2010
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i am not sure what we will do for my bachelorette party yet...probably a fun dinner and drinks out and then some bar hopping.
i am neutral about strippers for my party....it could be fun but i wouldnt be upset if we didnt have one.
as for FH, i really dont mind the strip club thing. obv i don't love it but i trust him and i know its just a fun night out with the guys...nothing is going to happen. PLus, the last few bachelor parties he has been too...the strippers basically just whip the bachelor iwth his belt and hurt him...so its not even sexual its more about torturing him for the amusement of his friends. lol i am fine if thats what happens for FH
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I am hoping to have a crazy night out in Atlantic City, Mohegan Sun, the Sands in PA-- one of those casinos. I would LOVE LOVE LOVE if it were for the whole weekend. I think it would be fun for there to be a stripper/strip club. I don't care if FH goes to a strip club/stripper is there, as long as they don't touch him. But I know he wouldn't let that happen.
Dean Bean
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I think I'm going to go the AC route, but really it's up to my MOH and BM's. They know I hate male strippers, so I know we won't do that. I told them as long as we have a nice dinner and go out dancing I'll be very happy.
FH hatesssss strippers with a passion, so he put his foot down on that one already with his BM and GM's. He already knows what he's doing for his Bach party. He has a friend who is a pro hockey player for Nashville Predators. They're all going to go to a game down there, and then go out with the team afterwards and spend the weekend there.
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i hate strippers. i went to hunk-a-mania in Manhattan once for a friends bachelorette party & had the worst time ever. i found no enjoyment in watching them & personally feel its a little degrading to be dancing up on a stage & having people drool over you. JMO.
i would like to go to AC on a friday morning & just spend the day with my bridesmaids (my sister & 3 cousins). go to casbah that night & then came back to Brooklyn on Saturday. then on saturday night i would like to go to a club in Manhattan with my sister & cousins & invite all my friends.
to be honest i hope FHs friends actually plan something for him. some of the guys r like hermits & like to stay home all the time. i don't care if he goes to a strip club i just don't ever wanna know about it.
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Depending on the $ situation among my friends, I'd like to go to AC for a couple of days. If that's not possible, then DEFINITELY LipsNYC and then maybe a concert or local show or something. I'm not into the strip club thing for myself, and always have a blast at Lips. Also, some of my coworkers are very good friends with some of the drag queens there so I'm sure I'd get some great treatment from them!
As for FH, his will probably be a strip club and barhopping, which doesn't bother me at all.
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I'm hoping for two bach parties. One will hopefully be in vegas with my sister and BFF and a couple of other friends, just partying and having fun. The second will be more local, low key just hanging out going bar hoping or spa day.
For FH he can do whatever th GM's plan for him, its his time to party it up and have fun, so go right ahead, i trust him
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Posted by kris_gets_hitched
Depending on the $ situation among my friends, I'd like to go to AC for a couple of days. If that's not possible, then DEFINITELY LipsNYC and then maybe a concert or local show or something. I'm not into the strip club thing for myself, and always have a blast at Lips. Also, some of my coworkers are very good friends with some of the drag queens there so I'm sure I'd get some great treatment from them!
As for FH, his will probably be a strip club and barhopping, which doesn't bother me at all.
i went to Lips for one of my friends bach parties.. it was so much fun!! they are great!!!!
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im pretty sure we're going to atlantic city...fh is going to myrtle beach with his best friend as a 'combined' bachelor party ( even tho his friend doesnt have a date set or anything...which i find strange but w/e) strip clubs....why not!
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I wanna do something fun...like go to a fun club and dance the night away.
Strip clubs are so gross and nasty...i dont want any of that. I dont think FH should be going to a strip club either. He's way too classy for that shytt.
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Ideally VEGAS... realistically I have no idea, and want to keep it that way. I would really like to be surprised. I am not against strip CLUBS! I would rather my FH's friends not hire one to come to a house party or something where there isn't much security and in my opinion nastier things go on.
Boys will be Boys, but I know my brother's will be there so I don;t anticipate things getting to out of hand.
As for me, if my friends wanted to take me to a male strip club I would laugh my a$$ off. I went to the Thunder from Down Under in Vegas with my girls a few years ago and we had a BLAST!
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I really don't like the whole male stripper thing, so I don't want them at my bach. party. I would prefer a night out on the town with the girls for my party.
I don't mind if FH has strippers or goes to a strip club for his party, I trust him. Let him have his fun and I know he really won't do anything to upset me.
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I not into the male stripper thing! I would like a weekend in the city with a Spa day!!!!!!! Or maybe AC with a spa day!!! and a night of dancing!!!
My FH wants to go camping with paint ball and white water rafting. . . . I am sure that his groomsmen are going to take him to a strip club at some point but that will be more for the groomsmen my FH is not into that - he hates strip clubs. I trust him.
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i just wanna go out to dinner w/ friends, something very low key
ETA: i know FH is going to do the stripper thing, it doesnt bother me though
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I honestly have no idea what I want to do for my bachelorette party yet. My BM's keep asking me and I have no answers.
As for strip clubs - I'm open to it. I really don't care if FH goes to one. I know what he thinks of strippers so I have no qualms about it.
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I hope to either do a three days out east and go to brunch, spa, and wineries Or... AC for a few days Or... Nice dinner in the city that a bar.
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I have no idea. I am not a fan of strippers so there will be none of those. We went to a strip club for my sister's in AC and I could not wait to leave. I am leaving it up to my MOH.
As for FH he'll proberly have strippers and I am ok with it. I trust him and know it is just one night of having fun!
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im not into strip clubs. so my sister said we will go to lips in the city. it a bunch of trans. she went to one for my other sisters and they had a blast so we will go there they but oh a show and have food and drinks. hope its fun. fh is not into strip clubs either. but i wll not be upset if fh oes to one.
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we know exactly what we're doing.. but i dont wanna jinx it. cant waiiiiiiiitttt
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I'm not against strippers for me or FH... I don't necessarily need them though - i'll be happy just going out with my girls and partying hard! I'll probably be having 2 bachelorette parties though - one with friends in Virginia and one with my wedding party and my NY friends so i'll be leaving it up to my MOH and whoever else :) FH is not really into the whole stripper thing and all of his GM are in different states so i'm gonna have my brother and brother in law take him fishing and out in the city for drinks after!
