Thank you!

Sweetness Posted: Nov 30, 2004 05:35 PM

Thank you!

Thank you everyone for your insights and thoughts. I will process everything related to this and do what is best for me. I am NEVER selfish but maybe this time I need to do something for me. It's time for me to say No to something.

Thanks again for everything.

hmm8191 Posted: Nov 30, 2004 05:45 PM

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Are you in her wedding? I wouldn't go either way. Just curious.

cantwait2bewed Posted: Nov 30, 2004 05:49 PM

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I wouldnt go it was foul what she did to you. She is inconsiderate and doesnt deserve anything from you. Learn how to say No to people like this. I feel so bad that your BM's didnt come through for you. Well look at it his way they were probably just gealous.

Sweetness Posted: Nov 30, 2004 05:53 PM

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Posted by hmm8191

Are you in her wedding? I wouldn't go either way. Just curious.

Yes I am in the wedding party..

hmm8191 Posted: Nov 30, 2004 05:54 PM

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Yes I am in the wedding party..

I still don't think you should go!! How rude is she...jeez!!

D&C Posted: Nov 30, 2004 05:55 PM

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So you did nothing for your bach. party then at all? Need more info to comment

Sweetness Posted: Nov 30, 2004 06:00 PM

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Posted by D&C

So you did nothing for your bach. party then at all? Need more info to comment

I did nothing with my friends, My parents wound up taking me out for dinner in the city while my husband was out having a true bachelor party.

D&C Posted: Nov 30, 2004 06:01 PM

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First of all thats so sweet that you went out with your mom and dad

Second of all, screw her I wouldnt do anything for her then

hmm8191 Posted: Nov 30, 2004 06:01 PM

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That's JUST AWFUL!!

suven Posted: Nov 30, 2004 06:02 PM

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I wouldn't go

heidla Posted: Nov 30, 2004 06:11 PM

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I would go. I know that your feelings are hurt. Mine would be too, but she is now a part of your family and we all do things for the sake of our families. I just think that this is a battle that should not be fought.

sophie78 Posted: Nov 30, 2004 06:13 PM

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Posted by heidla

I would go. I know that your feelings are hurt. Mine would be too, but she is now a part of your family and we all do things for the sake of our families. I just think that this is a battle that should not be fought.

AGREED.

nferrandi Posted: Nov 30, 2004 06:23 PM

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Why don't you come up with a legitimate excuse for that day. Say it's one of your friends b-days and you already have plans. Maybe that's shady, but so is what they did to you.

JimmysBride Posted: Nov 30, 2004 06:35 PM

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I wouldn't go. Some of my BMs dropped out on my Bachelorette Party for even stupider reasons and I forgave them. I say come up with a weak excuse and don't go. She'll get the hint.

halfpintny Posted: Nov 30, 2004 06:41 PM

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My first thought would be to not go...what does your brother think? Does he feel you should go? What does the family think....the last thing you want is to start a family war over this but if you have family backing i would say make plans for that night and stick to it

Sweetness Posted: Nov 30, 2004 06:53 PM

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jonsgirl Posted: Nov 30, 2004 06:58 PM

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I would for sure not go. Being treated like that would really hurt me and I just dont think I would be able to bring myself to be so nice to someone who was so inconsiderate

MandM07-03-05 Posted: Nov 30, 2004 09:36 PM

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personally i wouldnt go but then u are stuck w/ her for life....

BriBri529 Posted: Nov 30, 2004 09:37 PM

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no way

stevejamnik Posted: Nov 30, 2004 10:14 PM

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I wouldn't go, and I would be completly honest with her why. Since you are family you should be able to speak you mind. I can't stand people that hurt others and only think of themselves. She doesn't deserve anything from you, family or not. She needs to apologize to you.