I just wanted to thank those who answered my post.... it def. showed the different thoughts on this!!
Okay... the BM that is in question is FH's young 20 something year old cousin.
This particular cuz has 2 large tatoos on BOTH arms and one on her back- so there goes the theory of positioning her in every picture so that the tatoos' don't show.
Tattoos def. mean something to some people. i myself have one (on my leg- out of site) I personally thought ahead when i getting how it would look if I needed to dress up- thus the reason for it being on my leg.
To be honest with you all- my tatoo means nothing to me- it was something I got when I was 18 just b/c.
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We are all brides and we all want different looks for our wedding. For me I believe in carrying a look all the way through. I want a unified, classy look.
As a couple of you know MY picture means sooooo much to me, thus my concerns with the tatoos.
If it means suggesting or asking this one Bm to cover her tatoos so that she doesn't stand out that is just my feelings and I know more than half of the people in my circle of friends and family feel the same way!!!
Me suggesting, asking or wanting you put some damn powered on ur arm is not that bad..... I could be a BRIDEZILLA and ask you to do much worst.
Does this mean that I am trying to take away from her individuality- no.
This is a person that after her g-father died recently wanted to put a tribute tatoo on her hand. (Which I have no problem with) Her cuz and I had to 'school' her on the possibilty of her going on a job interview and not being able to cover it.... right then and there she realized that we were right.
I am sorry if this turned into another hot topic on the '07 board... i guess every now and then we need a little of that.
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For the two brides that said that I would be 'rude 'to ask that or the one that said you would have 'balls' to ask- totally uncalled for, but I will leave it alone now.
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Dayna- I know u didn't mean anything by your comments- maybe different choice of words- but none the less- I know what u meant
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With that said- if I do have her in the BP ( in which she TOLD me she is in without me asking) I will STILL ask her to cover her tatoos....
Afterall: M Y Day MY WAY!!!!!
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