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Thanking guests during reception?

cdh2672 Posted:

Thanking guests during reception?

So, what is the proper thing to do? We aren't having a receiving line after the ceremony. Is it better to walk around during cocktail hour (we will be there) and individually greet and thank our guests or during the reception??

2013Bride Posted:

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Posted by cdh2672

So, what is the proper thing to do? We aren't having a receiving line after the ceremony. Is it better to walk around during cocktail hour (we will be there) and individually greet and thank our guests or during the reception??




I'd say walk around & thank everyone at the cocktail hour... you'll want to dance & party at the actual reception!!
cdh2672 Posted:

Re: Thanking guests during reception?


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Posted by cdh2672

So, what is the proper thing to do? We aren't having a receiving line after the ceremony. Is it better to walk around during cocktail hour (we will be there) and individually greet and thank our guests or during the reception??




I'd say walk around & thank everyone at the cocktail hour... you'll want to dance & party at the actual reception!!



Good point!!
Bride2012 Posted:

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You probably should thank everyone. The cocktail hours is a good idea. I personally am not tradtional. I think we will greet and thank people right after the ceremony. But I refuse to waste my whole party going around thanking everyone and talking to people for that matter. The party will be over by that time!!! I may have the dj say something or say something myself at the reception like thank you for coming and sharing our special day. You can meet me at the bar or dance floor. Thanks! I know I might be a little crazy! My parents will probably think its rude or not formal but I don't care. These people know me! I'm not formal!

pjt212301 Posted:

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I think most guests will walk up to you sometime during the ch or reception - most guests know that you'll be overwhelmed with everything that's going on. I would say do what you can in getting around to talk to everyone but still enjoy your party.

torresm Posted:

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Posted by 2013Bride

I'd say walk around & thank everyone at the cocktail hour... you'll want to dance & party at the actual reception!!



ITA! I am going around and saying hi during cocktail hour because I know it will take a while and if I wait until the reception to do it, I know that by the time I'm done, I will turn around and the party will be over. Better to be relaxed and just party during the reception
chrissie0121 Posted:

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Posted by cdh2672

So, what is the proper thing to do? We aren't having a receiving line after the ceremony. Is it better to walk around during cocktail hour (we will be there) and individually greet and thank our guests or during the reception??




I'd say walk around & thank everyone at the cocktail hour... you'll want to dance & party at the actual reception!!



Agreed!!
teacherteacher Posted:

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I'm either going to walk around and say hi at the CH, or if I can convince FH, what I really want to do is help 'serve' at the candy bar when it comes out - that way when everyone comes up to get their favors we'll be there scooping things out for/with them and can say thank you, etc.

net267 Posted:

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I'm doing a receiving line for this reason. I want to make sure I say hi and thank all of our guests but am afraid I will miss some if I try and get to everyone at the cocktail hour.

pixietina Posted:

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CH is the best time to get around to everyone. They will also come and approach you.

raquel37 Posted:

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me and dh said hello to everyone during cocktail hr i wanted to enjoy the party and i defn did!

chliekm Posted:

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Posted by cdh2672

So, what is the proper thing to do? We aren't having a receiving line after the ceremony. Is it better to walk around during cocktail hour (we will be there) and individually greet and thank our guests or during the reception??




I'd say walk around & thank everyone at the cocktail hour... you'll want to dance & party at the actual reception!!



We did this and we tried to get everyone in the CH but its so hard!! But I would say get to everyone that you can as early as possible and then during the reception you can get the others.. we didn't go to table to table, too much time away from the dance floor imo!

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