Thanks so much ladies!!

Original post by MrsDR2010

Mar 31, 2010 09:11 AM

Thanks so much ladies!!!! You ladies are the best.

MrsDR2010 Posted: Mar 31, 2010 01:51 PM

Re: What would you do or say if your so called

Posted by AngnShaun

Posted by MrsDR2010

I'm so glad that I am not the only one that saw a problem with it. It really made me cry to think that someone I call a friend would do such a thing. I have learned that when planning a wedding that you learn who your TRUE friends are and obviosly she is not one. FH is angry and wants her out. Our wedding is in 2 months. Do you think it is too late to kick her out?

THanks so much girls!!!

no, not only should you kick her out... but you should kick her a$$ as well...

Do you think I have to reimburse her for the dress?

Michi Posted: Mar 31, 2010 01:53 PM

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I am dumbfounded. That is horrific. I would kick her a$$ out of the BP and then out of my life. WHO SAYS SUCH A THING!!!?

AngnShaun Posted: Mar 31, 2010 01:54 PM

Re: What would you do or say if your so called

Posted by MrsDR2010

Posted by AngnShaun

Posted by MrsDR2010

I'm so glad that I am not the only one that saw a problem with it. It really made me cry to think that someone I call a friend would do such a thing. I have learned that when planning a wedding that you learn who your TRUE friends are and obviosly she is not one. FH is angry and wants her out. Our wedding is in 2 months. Do you think it is too late to kick her out?

THanks so much girls!!!

no, not only should you kick her out... but you should kick her a$$ as well...

Do you think I have to reimburse her for the dress?

i honestly do not know what you should do about that... but i wouldnt worry about it...

JennandAnthony Posted: Mar 31, 2010 01:54 PM

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I dont think you should have to reimburse her for anything.....its her fault shes out of the bp not yours

asg450 Posted: Mar 31, 2010 01:56 PM

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That's just mean.

Noelsgirl Posted: Mar 31, 2010 02:05 PM

Re: What would you do or say if your so called

Posted by MrsDR2010

Posted by AngnShaun

Posted by MrsDR2010

I'm so glad that I am not the only one that saw a problem with it. It really made me cry to think that someone I call a friend would do such a thing. I have learned that when planning a wedding that you learn who your TRUE friends are and obviosly she is not one. FH is angry and wants her out. Our wedding is in 2 months. Do you think it is too late to kick her out?

THanks so much girls!!!

no, not only should you kick her out... but you should kick her a$$ as well...

Do you think I have to reimburse her for the dress?

Hell no!! U don't have to give her back $hit!! she blood clat lucky!!! she is no rass fren at all!!

MrsDR2010 Posted: Mar 31, 2010 02:11 PM

Re: What would you do or say if your so called

Posted by Noelsgirl

Posted by MrsDR2010

Posted by AngnShaun

Posted by MrsDR2010

I'm so glad that I am not the only one that saw a problem with it. It really made me cry to think that someone I call a friend would do such a thing. I have learned that when planning a wedding that you learn who your TRUE friends are and obviosly she is not one. FH is angry and wants her out. Our wedding is in 2 months. Do you think it is too late to kick her out?

THanks so much girls!!!

no, not only should you kick her out... but you should kick her a$$ as well...

Do you think I have to reimburse her for the dress?

Hell no!! U don't have to give her back $hit!! she blood clat lucky!!! she is no rass fren at all!!

OMG!!!! You just made me laugh so hard. I have been kinda down all day. Thanks, I really needed that.

MrsDR2010 Posted: Mar 31, 2010 02:12 PM

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Thanks so much ladies!!!

FutureMrsLMS Posted: Mar 31, 2010 02:13 PM

Re: What would you do or say if your so called

that's nuts!! She isn't your friend - no way. Friends don't talk to each other that way, my friends (who are guys and even more blunt!) sure don't!

I'd take her out of the wedding altogether. Thats just class-less and rude. She doesn't deserve to be a BM. I'd write her back and say 'well if you think I am going to be a cow, don't worry because you won't be seeing me on my wedding day after all..'

That should teach her a lesson.

**shakes head in disbelief**

joctorre Posted: Mar 31, 2010 02:16 PM

Re: What would you do or say if your so called

I don't know about the dress, but I would say no. Like someone said, it's not like you decided that you couldn't fit her in or that you are taking her out on 'good terms'. Can you uninvite her as well???

I don't care how jealous someone is, if she's supposed to be a friend, there are ways to express concern and be there for friends after having a baby!!!

Good luck with this, I know it's not easy to make these decisions or deal with people like this. It's your wedding, and nobody should try to make you feel TERRIBLE about it....

Congrats on the 29 pounds, but please don't think that you have to lose weight just for your wedding. FH is marrying YOU bc he loves you, you don't need to feel any pressure to live up to other's standards...

dfw343 Posted: Mar 31, 2010 02:50 PM

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wow just wow
there are nicer ways to say that,

WOw

nanpink Posted: Mar 31, 2010 02:54 PM

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I would immediately tell her she is not a BM now.
You don't need a 'friend' like that - especially on your wedding day! WOW

flibbertigibbet Posted: Mar 31, 2010 02:57 PM

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give me her address ... i'm going over there to kick her rude ugly face in.

GiannisWifey Posted: Mar 31, 2010 02:59 PM

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I just read this again and I stil can't believe what she said.....that was rude, uncalled for and DEFINITELY inappropriate........I would kick her azz right out of the BP and she can kiss MY AZZ if she thinks you are going to give her her money back!!!!

She is a pathetic excuse of a 'friend'

grkbarbie Posted: Mar 31, 2010 03:00 PM

Re: What would you do or say if your so called

thats sooo fkd up!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

and i would def write her back the letter becca wrote lol!

send me this bishes picture. i will abuse her for u. take some of my material in the letter.

jennybee Posted: Mar 31, 2010 03:01 PM

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definitely not too late to give her the heave ho.

Lu2700 Posted: Mar 31, 2010 03:26 PM

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oohhhhhhh myyyy goddddd.......is she SERIOUS with that!?!??! I had to read that party twice bc i was SURE that she didnt say what she said......wow...some friend u've got there! i'd be sooooo p*ssed!!!!!!!

AdriandSteve Posted: Mar 31, 2010 03:30 PM

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ugh... This is why I hate people. They're stupid and think giving there opinion is really helping.

ugh... I don't even know how to tell you to respond.

Its2Snappy Posted: Mar 31, 2010 03:49 PM

Re: What would you do or say if your so called

Step 1: Tell her off and kick her out of the BP

Step 2: Do NOT reimburse her for the dress

Step 3: Post her picture on LIW so we know whose @$$ to kick!

CristinanBen2010 Posted: Mar 31, 2010 03:52 PM

Re: What would you do or say if your so called

That is sooo messed up!! That is not a true friend!! Shes probably jealous of everything good you have going on. I wouldnt even know how to repsond to her