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Thanks so much ladies!!

Original post by MrsDR2010

Thanks so much ladies!!!! You ladies are the best.

Jenn2330 Posted:

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SERIOUSLY who fnnn says that! You look beautiful in your gown!

JandM2010 Posted:

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Posted by Becca2010

First off, CONGRATS on losing 29 pounds! That's Amazing!!!

Second, this is what you do:

Dear friend,

I appreciate your concern for my weight gain. As we speak, I am eating very well and losing weight at a very nice rate and I know I'm going to look beautiful on my wedding day. Unfortunately, you wouldn't know this because we haven't seen or spoken to each other in a long time. It's nice that you're reaching out though and pointing out the things I need to work on.

Since we're on that topic, please make sure you get your makeup professionally done for my wedding. I've seen the job you do and frankly, I don't care for it. Your eyes look sunken in and your cheeks look tremendous. I'm hoping a good makeup artist can fix this as I want everyone to look beautiful on my wedding day. I'm sure you want the same since you took the time to tell me I should lose weight.

xoxoxoxox
Sheena

PS: In the note, you don't have to use my makeup example, but make sure to point out SOMETHING that would make her feel self conscious. After all, she did the SAME to you! What a passive aggressive bittch!! I know she's your BM, but wow...


I love this :)

I can't believe someone would say that. I would be fuming!!! Some people are just rude
GR2010 Posted:

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EXCUSE MEEEEE???!?!?!?!?! Is she effing kidding?????

SoonToBMrsC Posted:

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Ok well this animal clearly has SEVERE jealousy issues and she's just trying to knock your happiness! She is obviously not a friend, I'd tell her where the hell to go! Forget just kicking her out of the bridal party, she wouldn't even be attending my wedding!

bride2be1012 Posted:

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Honestly I'd never speak to her again. I'd tell her off first and that would be the last time I ever spoke to her. She sounds like a nasty, mean spirited ***** who should go f*** herself ! I hope you kick out of your bridal party. I wouldn't want such a horror around on the most important day of my life.

Jessica612 Posted:

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She was in nooooo way looking out for you being a complete biatch on purpose maybe its jealousy who knows but that would be the end of my friendship with her I am sooo mad for you

oh and btw congrats on the weight loss
FallBride2010 Posted:

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OMG!!! I cant believe someone would send a text like that!!! Like if she was REALLY concerned and thought you needed help (whcih I am sure you dont), she could have simply asked if you wanted to go walking or take a class with her. I would seriously tell her off...and similar to Becca said...point out some appearance issue she has!!!

Diana508 Posted:

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a cow??? I'd be like, thanks for telling me what you think I look like!

i'd be fuming!
MrsDR2010 Posted:

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Posted by Lu2700

oohhhhhhh myyyy goddddd.......is she SERIOUS with that!?!??! I had to read that party twice bc i was SURE that she didnt say what she said......wow...some friend u've got there! i'd be sooooo p*ssed!!!!!!!


Yes, and my FH was so pissed . He said he doesn't want her in the wedding.
MrsDR2010 Posted:

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Posted by Jessica612

She was in nooooo way looking out for you being a complete biatch on purpose maybe its jealousy who knows but that would be the end of my friendship with her I am sooo mad for you

oh and btw congrats on the weight loss


This is what everyone said.
AngnShaun Posted:

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Sheena, i know you probably dont feel great right now... but you did the right thing... even for the most comfortable friends somethnig like that is so wrong to say...
MrsDR2010 Posted:

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Thanks ladies!!! I feel relieved that she won't be in my BP anymore. No more B***ches
little j Posted:

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maybe she sees on FB that you tryin to lose weight?/ idk.....even if she was tryin to b funny, she is rude.

is she overweight? cuz if so, i would probably respond w something mean...and maybe even tie in a barney reference.

MrsDR2010 Posted:

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Posted by AngnShaun

Sheena, i know you probably dont feel great right now... but you did the right thing... even for the most comfortable friends somethnig like that is so wrong to say...


I know. It was hard. B/c she was like a sister...she lived with me at some point when we were younger and she is also my dauter's god mother so it was hard but I feellike a burden has been lifted off my shoulder. She never calls to ask how she is doing anyway so Kaitlyn won't miss her.
BriansWifey Posted:

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is she effin serious?!?!
kris_gets_hitched Posted:

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Sorry that the friendship ended...that's never easy.

But good for you for sticking to your guns and booting her stank @ss!
MrsDR2010 Posted:

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Posted by little j

maybe she sees on FB that you tryin to lose weight?/ idk.....even if she was tryin to b funny, she is rude.

is she overweight? cuz if so, i would probably respond w something mean...and maybe even tie in a barney reference.



She isn't on FB. Yea, it was beyond rude and she doesn't see anything wrong with it.

She is really skinny. I don't think she wears 100 lbs and a very tiny person.
MrsDR2010 Posted:

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Posted by kris_gets_hitched

Sorry that the friendship ended...that's never easy.

But good for you for sticking to your guns and booting her stank @ss!


Yea, I know it was really tough. We had been friends for over 17years.
MrsDR2010 Posted:

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You girls are the best. I don't know what I would do without you. Thanks so much for all your help and advice!!!

Its2Snappy Posted:

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Good for you! I'm so sorry that you even had to deal with that type of person in the first place. But, I'm glad you stuck to your guns. You don't deserve to be treated like that. And if someone is going to bring that kind of poision into your life, then they don't deserve to be in your life.

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