Thats it!!! I'm demotiong my MOH!!!!! UPDATE!!!!!

who just happens to be my sister!!! I seriously just cant take her, ive been going back and forth on this for a while, but have tried to keep her as moh because 1) shes my sister 2) my mom really wants her to be 3) i dont feel like dealing with family gossip

But seriously I just dont like her lol i lover her cuz shes my sister but more times that not were fighting (like bad, ive never had anyone call me things she does) and as of the past week were not speaking, we just seriously dont get along and she's so inconsiderate and disrespectful and has done absolutely ZERO for me since i got engaged, nore does she even ASK how everything is (best example ---- she thought i was getting married this Novemeber, ummm helllloooooooo)

my moms away i dont want to tell her until she comes back cuz then she'll get all stressed out, is anyone else not having their sister as MOH?



UPDATE: so i asked her if she even wanted to be my moh since i never really asked her, and this is the convo:

me: dont say i guess or whatever just yes or no
sister: from the way your acting, not really
me: ok, do you want to be a bm or do you not want to be in the bridal party at all?
sister: count me out sis
me: ok

Yes I am hurt, but it was honestly just not working. I didnt even respond to her 'by the way your acting' comment cuz that wouldve just started another brawl

i feel better and sad at the same time, strange feeling

but thanks ladies for all your advice