The +1 drama begins...

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Posted by kimmaymb20

Wait till you send the invites out oy! I only invited the bridal party that were single with a guest but i already was asked on fb ( so rude) if by some chance this person was dating someone by the wedding can she bring them as a date!!!! Really? Seriously?

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wow!!

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Posted by lilgem250

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Posted by Kerrys_Princess

I had quite a few people that I invited without dates. I explained it to them personally and privately before the invitations were even mailed. I also explained that if after I had all of my RSVP's back, if I was able to work a space in for a date, that I would let them know. Everyone appreciated my honesty and my efforts and I did not have anyone bring an uninvited guest.

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I like this idea.

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This is what we are doing

I dont know about you but the majority of my list are married, engaged, or people in serious relationships. If I added a quest to all the single people if probably only is an extra 10-20 people. I know for a fact the type of people my friends are and they wont just scrape up anyone for the sake of bringing a guest. I think at the age of 21 and older, everyone should have the honor of bringing who they choose. The goal of your wedding is for your guests to have a good time, and if bringing someone with them will help them with that, then so be it. I think anyone bringing a date would know to add money to their gift. It's common sense.

If you think you have a girlfriend who is wanting to bring a girlfriend.. that would be f*ked up and maybe I wouldn't invite that particular person with a guest but I have been really offended in the past by this.. I swore not to do it..
That is the not the part of a wedding that you should be cutting back on.

Just my opinion.. i had to defend the other girl on here..

You have to do what you have to do!! I have had people talk about coming to my wedding that are not even on the guest list!!! They are in for a surprise.

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Posted by itbroi805

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Posted by BlushandBashful

Yikes, sorry about that. I don't have any advice because we are inviting everyone with a +1. That was super important to me.

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This—the only questionables for me are like 1 or 2 20 yr old family friends, and like 2 20 year old cousins.

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This - and this is my problem too... a few 20 yr old cousins etc.

I really want my wedding to be personal and intimate so no I am not inviting people with +1 just because

Every single person that is invited to my wedding, I will know personally.

I had a few friends say, oh man who am I going to bring or 'I need a boyfriend by then.'

I told them flat out sorry you're coming alone....everyone understood or at least didn't make a big deal about it.

I feel the same as others, I really don't want random people at my wedding, it was very important to me that I kept my list exclusive and only to people that matter in my life

any friend that has a serious relationship will be invited with their partner and the invite will be addressed with both names....no invite will say & guest, just like my STDs they were all addressed with names

If I don't know your name why should you be a part of one of the most important days of my life?!