The 7 Tougher Questions I Love to Ask Women...

2) again you are right - I don't think PMS makes it 'acceptable' for us to act exceptionally b(&chy. But I DO think that it is an EXPLANATION as to why we're unusually b(&chy. Its way more than just feeling crampy and drained and achey... it really is sometimes a hormonal roller coaster that causes severe mood swings. Its extremely hard to control when we are in our 'extreme moody' days .. hard to explain to a man who doesn't go through it. Not a cop-out answer, its a truthful as I can explain it!

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ok, i'll buy that -- i don;t know what it feels like to PMS anymore than you girls can understand the excruciating pain associated with getting hit in the 'jewels'. But I HATE when someone uses the whole PMS thing as a cop-out.

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Posted by don424

2) again you are right - I don't think PMS makes it 'acceptable' for us to act exceptionally b(&chy. But I DO think that it is an EXPLANATION as to why we're unusually b(&chy. Its way more than just feeling crampy and drained and achey... it really is sometimes a hormonal roller coaster that causes severe mood swings. Its extremely hard to control when we are in our 'extreme moody' days .. hard to explain to a man who doesn't go through it. Not a cop-out answer, its a truthful as I can explain it!

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ok, i'll buy that -- i don;t know what it feels like to PMS anymore than you girls can understand the excruciating pain associated with getting hit in the 'jewels'. But I HATE when someone uses the whole PMS thing as a cop-out.

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Don.. you're the magic man.. now get Felicia to admit she's a closet Met fan.

And that she loved Benitez in pinstripes..

I have another question

1. What IS it with you guys and shoes???????

1. Yes i think money and power is VERY attractive. Now the guy that has that money and power..if he is butt ugly..no money or power could will me to be attracted (ei..bill gates)

2. This question really depends on the man. If i like the guy...i want the rose. If i am only physically attracted to the guy...shallow sex is best

3. Sorry to tell ya...size does matter. I don't care how well ya move it..if it is tooo small or tooo big...BIG NO NO

4. It is just a trashy word...I have no respect for a man or woman who uses it.

5. UHMMMMM YES

6. i am a competitive person.. I don't have to out do or wish bad things for most but i like doing well..

7. I have no idea but it is a big reason why i LOVE being a girl

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Posted by don424

I have another question

1. What IS it with you guys and shoes???????

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They make an outfit...
But it isn't just shoes..it is pocketbooks and jewelry too

1.) Are women REALLY attracted to money and power?

Not me. It takes a lot of effort to get & maintain money & power. Effort that can be better spent paying attenion to meee

Its also a lot to live up to, and then there are issues ( does he think i just want his money, etc)

2.) Which is better.. a guy who puts a rose on your car at lunchtime with an 'I Love You' note..

EWWW- Mega cheezy. But less cheesy sweet gestures are appreciated if you are smitten. If you are not, its creepy.


or a guy takes you out til dawn.. gives you thes best sex ever.. but becomes evasive or just a booty partner?


at times , that was the perfect thing.
but when he leaves, and your roomate gets a rose & a cheezy note, you geta little lonely & envious.

3.) Does size REALLY matter to a woman?

not really. but it can.
we all know it shouldn't, but
if you are used to one thing, you have to adjust to something else.
and on either end of the spectrum, you have to know how to use what you've got to your best advantage. THAT's what matters. good skills, leave a lasting impression.

4.) What is it about the C-word that drives a woman absolutely crazy and into a rage?

I think its very expressive if used selectively.
Never know why it was more offensive than any other curse wrod.

Words are what you make of them.

The wrod trousers sends one of my male friends into a blind rage. Who knows?

5.) Is there a woman who you have never met or only spoken to once briefly but you really hate her guts?

OH HELL YA!
let me get my college yearbook. . .

6.) Do you feel competition with other women.. even your best friends?
Yes. more often the wives/girlfreinds of my male freinds. its always good to have an arch nemeisis.
Right now, its my FH's cousin's girlfriend.
She's nice enough, but everything she does is perfect according to the family, so I'm always looking for things I know I do better.

7.) Why generally do woman shop a lot more than men do?

I don't think that's so true anymore.

My guy friends are big gadget whores with their new cell phones every six months, etc.
Some of them with clothes too.
Women's clothes are more varied than men's & we are more judgmental, so I think that's a partial explanaition of why we shop more for clothing.

Some people say it is the hunter gatherer thing. . .

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Posted by don424

I have 2 pairs of shoes and they go with everything

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Let me guess a pair of black and brown ones

1.) It’s not so much money & power as the confidence that those men have. It’s the strength. Not every woman is for that, but it’s natural instinct to gravitate toward good providers for our ‘breed’ and to choose the top of the crop for prestige which equals protection. JMHO

2.) Which is better.. The guy who puts a rose on your car at lunchtime with an 'I Love You' note.. Means more than a quick hit in the sack. I’m not going to say Sex isn’t important to women, but I think most women can make sex work with most men. We have patience and are willing to teach if necessary for a good man.

3.) Does size REALLY matter to a woman? Not to me. It’s not the size of the toy is how it’s used.

4.) What is it about the C-word that drives a woman absolutely crazy and into a rage? Actually that doesn’t bother me. A guy can call me that and I won’t blink I think it’s an odd word though. Then again I’ve never heard it said in reference to me or anyone I know and when I have heard it in reference to a woman it honestly sounds weak to me. Now B!tch on the other hand. If used correctly is just pure evil. I get all crazy about that one.

5.) Is there a woman who you have never met or only spoken to once briefly but you really hate her guts? Uhm, no. Hate her guts, no.. Think very little of, yes. I don’t waste my time making judgements on people I don’t know personally. Those I hear things about I allow them to make their own mistakes with me before I put my verdict in.

6.) Do you feel competition with other women.. even your best friends? In what? I feel it sometimes at my job but that’s just the nature of a female in office politics. I don’t take it personal. On a personal side, no I feel no competition. I am confident in myself enough to not give a damn about what my girlfriends do. But, I must add I have very few ‘girl’ friends because I don’t put up with games like that.

7.) Why generally do woman shop a lot more than men do? Ok, now this I am WAY off on. Jim shops WAY more than me. I hate shopping. I mean spending money is so annoying to me. I like to browse and try on but never actually buy. Jim puts me in $200 business suits that I find a waste of money but I admit I do look good in them.

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Posted by oct.2004bride

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Posted by don424

I have 2 pairs of shoes and they go with everything

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Let me guess a pair of black and brown ones

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Uhmm


I have two pair of shoes.. yes one black and one brown both for work and one pair of sneakers.

Uhmm


yes?

I'll play too - sounds fun!

1.) To some degree. For instance, I find it extremely sexy when FI is dressed in a shirt and tie and I see the nice Fossil watch I bought him for graduation peeking out under the sleeve on his tanned wrist. I love that subtle aura of power and success. I would never date someone just b/c of those qualities, however.

2.) Definitely the rose and love note - I only had to grow up to get over that other kind of guy.

3.) Yes, but not for the reason you think. I don't enjoy 'big' - it hurts and doesn't do it for me in the least.

4.) I'm gonna take this from a different direction too, which may sound funny. Being as I was an English major and am a poet, I'm going to look at it linguistically. It's a derogatory word, yes. To me, the thing that makes it one of the worst is that it's so harsh. The hard, blunt, harsh sound of the 'c' and 't' really emphasize the cruelty of it, in my opinion. Interestingly enough though, during sex, I'd rather hear that then the p*ssy alternative.

5.) Not that I can think of.

6.) Sometimes, though not usually.

7.) It's a sensuality thing. The colors, the fabrics, the way things make you feel, etc.

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Posted by Xelindrya

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Posted by oct.2004bride

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Posted by don424

I have 2 pairs of shoes and they go with everything

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Let me guess a pair of black and brown ones

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Uhmm


I have two pair of shoes.. yes one black and one brown both for work and one pair of sneakers.

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1) I don't get that money/power thing. Yes, I would like to be financially secure, but FH and I can work on that together!

2) I am more of the 'romantic' type, so I would definitely prefer #1, if I can't have a mix of the 2! (but I do!)

3) YES!!! and anyone who says 'No' or 'its the way you use it' never went out with 'MR. THUMB' (and I mean a womans small, slender thumb! I have never felt so bad for anyone in my life!!!)

4) I HATE IT! I DUMPED A GUY FROM IRELAND BECAUSE HE CONSTANTLY USED THAT WORD AND THOUGHT IT WAS FUNNY THAT I HATED IT SO MUCH!!! He said women in England & Ireland use it like we might use 'B**CH', jokingly with their friends, especially the term 'Silly C***'??? I guess it's an AMERICAN WOMAN thing!

5) No, I usually try to find the good in everyone! Although, the first time I met this girl at work, she yelled at me on my first day!!! HOW MEAN! She's now my best friend though!

6) Yes, its just human nature. Guys feel just as competitive, they just hide it better. Don't think so? Next time you are around a really HOT guy with his shirt off, see if the other guys around aren't sucking in their stomachs!!!

7) Because WE CAN!!!

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Posted by don424

2) again you are right - I don't think PMS makes it 'acceptable' for us to act exceptionally b(&chy. But I DO think that it is an EXPLANATION as to why we're unusually b(&chy. Its way more than just feeling crampy and drained and achey... it really is sometimes a hormonal roller coaster that causes severe mood swings. Its extremely hard to control when we are in our 'extreme moody' days .. hard to explain to a man who doesn't go through it. Not a cop-out answer, its a truthful as I can explain it!

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ok, i'll buy that -- i don;t know what it feels like to PMS anymore than you girls can understand the excruciating pain associated with getting hit in the 'jewels'. But I HATE when someone uses the whole PMS thing as a cop-out.

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Actually, I used this as an explanation to FI one time about what cramps feel like. If you think about it, ovaries and testes serve essentially the same reproductive function in both men and women, just in a different place in the body. Now, imagine not a sharp kick in the jewels, but someone holding one in the palm of his/her hand and continuously squeezing it for hours, or until the medication finally kicked in. There's cramps for ya. :o)

In reference to the toilet seat thing, it's actually pretty funny. It never bothered me if it was upm, I guess because the guys out numbered the girls in my family. I just made sure to take note of it's position even when I was half asleep in the middle of the night. FH's parents were divorced when he was 10 and his mom made sure that he put it down when he was done which he still does. It figures

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Posted by smilealways

ok, i'll buy that -- i don;t know what it feels like to PMS anymore than you girls can understand the excruciating pain associated with getting hit in the 'jewels'. But I HATE when someone uses the whole PMS thing as a cop-out.

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Actually, I used this as an explanation to FI one time about what cramps feel like. If you think about it, ovaries and testes serve essentially the same reproductive function in both men and women, just in a different place in the body. Now, imagine not a sharp kick in the jewels, but someone holding one in the palm of his/her hand and continuously squeezing it for hours, or until the medication finally kicked in. There's cramps for ya. :o)

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Perfect analogy