The 7 Tougher Questions I Love to Ask Women...

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Posted by OctGroom

I'm an inquisistive type as you all probably have perceived.. and I have questions that I can't put in a poll.. so...

let's assume I am from another planet.. (stop that.. LOL) and I landed on earth and was observing the chicks.. (I mean women..)

JUST KIDDING!!!!!
here we go.......


1.) Are women REALLY attracted to money and power? Is it really an aphrodisiac for a women to be seen with a man who has millions.. eg. would you date Donald Trump?

2.) Which is better.. a guy who puts a rose on your car at lunchtime with an 'I Love You' note.. or a guy takes you out til dawn.. gives you thes best sex ever.. but becomes evasive or just a booty partner?

3.) Does size REALLY matter to a woman?

4.) What is it about the C-word that drives a woman absolutely crazy and into a rage?

5.) Is there a woman who you have never met or only spoken to once briefly but you really hate her guts?

6.) Do you feel competition with other women.. even your best friends?

7.) Why generally do woman shop a lot more than men do?

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WOW! Ok...since I like to talk about myself..here goes.....

1-money and power...yes...Donald Trump ...NO! Basically if you are 'good looking', charming and have money and power you can have any women in the world...if you are stuffy, not so good looking, old and have money and power , you better BUY yourself something nice, it ain't happening...

2-The rose and the I love you note....depending again on age, the second is fun...but gets old REAL fast...girls/women want attention and all types of attention...

3-Nope...it's what you can do with it...

4-If you mean the female c word, I'll say for some reason the connotation is harsh and demeaning...rather be called a bit** ....yeah I think after pondering this, it's demeaning!

5-YES...for many reasons, none that a 'guy' would think of...I just HATE people with no manners, selfish or petty

6-yes, I feel competitive a lot, even with my closest friends, you just learn to deal with it or get over it with those you are closer with

7-I don't know about the shopping thing...it gives me a high I guess...guys buy 'BIGGER' things...cars, Tv's, video games..sports equipment....Hell, Im happy with a new mascara....genetics I guess??


SO.....feeling any more enlightened?

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Posted by dm24angel

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Posted by OctGroom

I'm an inquisistive type as you all probably have perceived.. and I have questions that I can't put in a poll.. so...

let's assume I am from another planet.. (stop that.. LOL) and I landed on earth and was observing the chicks.. (I mean women..)

JUST KIDDING!!!!!
here we go.......


1.) Are women REALLY attracted to money and power? Is it really an aphrodisiac for a women to be seen with a man who has millions.. eg. would you date Donald Trump?

2.) Which is better.. a guy who puts a rose on your car at lunchtime with an 'I Love You' note.. or a guy takes you out til dawn.. gives you thes best sex ever.. but becomes evasive or just a booty partner?

3.) Does size REALLY matter to a woman?

4.) What is it about the C-word that drives a woman absolutely crazy and into a rage?

5.) Is there a woman who you have never met or only spoken to once briefly but you really hate her guts?

6.) Do you feel competition with other women.. even your best friends?

7.) Why generally do woman shop a lot more than men do?

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WOW! Ok...since I like to talk about myself..here goes.....

1-money and power...yes...Donald Trump ...NO! Basically if you are 'good looking', charming and have money and power you can have any women in the world...if you are stuffy, not so good looking, old and have money and power , you better BUY yourself something nice, it ain't happening...

2-The rose and the I love you note....depending again on age, the second is fun...but gets old REAL fast...girls/women want attention and all types of attention...

3-Nope...it's what you can do with it...

4-If you mean the female c word, I'll say for some reason the connotation is harsh and demeaning...rather be called a bit** ....yeah I think after pondering this, it's demeaning!

5-YES...for many reasons, none that a 'guy' would think of...I just HATE people with no manners, selfish or petty

6-yes, I feel competitive a lot, even with my closest friends, you just learn to deal with it or get over it with those you are closer with

7-I don't know about the shopping thing...it gives me a high I guess...guys buy 'BIGGER' things...cars, Tv's, video games..sports equipment....Hell, Im happy with a new mascara....genetics I guess??


SO.....feeling any more enlightened?

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totally!

the plethora of answers and the cornucopia of opinions and the potpourri of insights are absolutely intriguing!

totally!

the plethora of answers and the cornucopia of opinions and the potpourri of insights are absolutely intriguing!

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YEs I figured as much

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Posted by OctGroom

I'm an inquisistive type as you all probably have perceived.. and I have questions that I can't put in a poll.. so...

let's assume I am from another planet.. (stop that.. LOL) and I landed on earth and was observing the chicks.. (I mean women..)

JUST KIDDING!!!!!
here we go.......


1.) Are women REALLY attracted to money and power? Is it really an aphrodisiac for a women to be seen with a man who has millions.. eg. would you date Donald Trump?

2.) Which is better.. a guy who puts a rose on your car at lunchtime with an 'I Love You' note.. or a guy takes you out til dawn.. gives you thes best sex ever.. but becomes evasive or just a booty partner?

3.) Does size REALLY matter to a woman?

4.) What is it about the C-word that drives a woman absolutely crazy and into a rage?

5.) Is there a woman who you have never met or only spoken to once briefly but you really hate her guts?

6.) Do you feel competition with other women.. even your best friends?

7.) Why generally do woman shop a lot more than men do?

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Just in case you were wondering.. my FW has been asked all these questions previously.

Here's what she said..

1.) Money's nice but can get old quick. You have to stay grounded and remember there are much moe important things in life.

2.) Love note

3.) Not really. Quality not the quantity.

4.) That would make me yell (or break up with a guy if I was dating him) immediately.

5.) Maybe once or twice.

6.) Yes.

7.) Because we can.

1.) Are women REALLY attracted to money and power?
Not always but I just can't help but look when a gorgeous BMW or Lexus goes by....

2.) Which is better..
At this point in my life the rose....there was a time when I just wanted a 'booty call'..It reallychanges as you get older.

3.) Does size REALLY matter to a woman?
No!! as a friend once said...it's not the pencil but how you write with it....Some small men can be very good.

4.) What is it about the C-word that drives a woman absolutely crazy and into a rage?
Nothing ...I really don't get that either...But when the next question occurs...#5...I like to even use that word!

5.) Is there a woman who you have never met or only spoken to once briefly but you really hate her guts?
Yes, Yes and Oh YES!!!!!

6.) Do you feel competition with other women.. even your best friends?
Yes again...

7.) Why generally do woman shop a lot more than men do?
Why not???

1.) Are women REALLY attracted to money and power? Is it really an aphrodisiac for a women to be seen with a man who has millions.. eg. would you date Donald Trump?
answer-
in my honest opnion of course money doent not hurt lol but its not the most important thing to me i married a city cop lol.


2.) Which is better.. a guy who puts a rose on your car at lunchtime with an 'I Love You' note.. or a guy takes you out til dawn.. gives you thes best sex ever.. but becomes evasive or just a booty partner?
Answer-
i think that sometimes the smallest signs of affection on the best and the ones that leave the longest impressions

3.) Does size REALLY matter to a woman?
Answer-
i think its all in how you sail not the size of the boat lol

4.) What is it about the C-word that drives a woman absolutely crazy and into a rage?
answer-
i couldnt care less about that word

5.) Is there a woman who you have never met or only spoken to once briefly but you really hate her guts?
answer-
no i usually hate people after i know them for long periods of time. i have an open mind when i meet people

6.) Do you feel competition with other women.. even your best friends?
answer-
no never
7.) Why generally do woman shop a lot more than men do?
answer-
its in our blood

1.) Are women REALLY attracted to money and power? Is it really an aphrodisiac for a women to be seen with a man who has millions.. eg. would you date Donald Trump?

2.) Which is better.. a guy who puts a rose on your car at lunchtime with an 'I Love You' note.. or a guy takes you out til dawn.. gives you thes best sex ever.. but becomes evasive or just a booty partner?

3.) Does size REALLY matter to a woman?

4.) What is it about the C-word that drives a woman absolutely crazy and into a rage?

5.) Is there a woman who you have never met or only spoken to once briefly but you really hate her guts?

6.) Do you feel competition with other women.. even your best friends?

7.) Why generally do woman shop a lot more than men do?

Ok...let's see
1 - donald trump type?? Hell no - my fh works for the LIRR and we will never be millionaires - that is not what it is all about

2 - I had the guy who once left a single red rose on my car when i was at work. it was a nice, sweet surpirse. he said he wanted me to know he was thinking about me..great, right? well it didn't last...

3 - Size does NOT matter - I've had big and not so big - 'It's not the size of the boat, its the motion of the ocean'

4 - I've already told FH - if he EVER uses that word at me, about me, near me, I am leaving for good. I think because the word describes what should be a very 'special' part of a woman. Do you get me?

5 - i don't think that I really hated someone instantly, like that

6 - no competition at all

7 - fh owns more clothes then me, and he has to wear a uniform to work...'nuf said

1. Some women are attracted to money. Personally, give me love. I can make my own money.

2. Give me the mush with the rose.

3. Yes and no. Abnormal matters. Within reason does not.

4. The word does not really bother me.

5. Hmm, there has to be. I'm assuming she's tall and skinny.

6. Nope. In fact, I get very upset with people who feel we are in competition when we are not. It annoys me.

7. Um, I'm in charge of the money, so there ya go. Why do guys watch sports more than women? Hmm? HMMMMM?

1.) Are women REALLY attracted to money and power? I am attracted to someone who is ambitious. Ambition leads to success. He may start off poor but he has his head on his shoulders and you can see that he will be a success one day.

2.) Which is better.. a guy who puts a rose on your car at lunchtime with an 'I Love You' note.. or a guy takes you out til dawn.. gives you thes best sex ever.. but becomes evasive or just a booty partner? Hmmmmm, can't I have both!! LOL

3.) Does size REALLY matter to a woman?
In general, no.

4.) What is it about the C-word that drives a woman absolutely crazy and into a rage? Lets get this straight, the P and B word pisses me off too!

5.) Is there a woman who you have never met or only spoken to once briefly but you really hate her guts? Yes, I know the first few minutes whether or not I will like someone.

6.) Do you feel competition with other women.. even your best friends? Yes, all women do. We all dress to impress other woman. Just a fact. LOL

7.) Why generally do woman shop a lot more than men do? Because we can.

1.) Are women REALLY attracted to money and power? Is it really an aphrodisiac for a women to be seen with a man who has millions.. eg. would you date Donald Trump?
**Some are, some aren't. That's the best answer I can give.
I would not touch The Donald with a 20 foot pole. Ugh.

2.) Which is better.. a guy who puts a rose on your car at lunchtime with an 'I Love You' note.. or a guy takes you out til dawn.. gives you thes best sex ever.. but becomes evasive or just a booty partner?
**The rose guy

3.) Does size REALLY matter to a woman?
**Yes and no. I mean yes it's niiiiiice but if ya love the guy then it's OK that he's not that big. He can make up for it in other ways. And if you trust him you can say you want him to do this or that to make sex more pleasureable.

4.) What is it about the C-word that drives a woman absolutely crazy and into a rage?
**It's gross and degrading. A C**t is a cow (well in certain areas that's what a cow is called in slang) and sorry but I ain't no cow! I mean have you ever heard anyone calling a woman a c**t where it was a COMPLIMENT?

5.) Is there a woman who you have never met or only spoken to once briefly but you really hate her guts?
**Yeah this there's this one lady in my firm I don't like and I have no reason not to, other than she looks like a b**** and knows me damn well and never says hello to me.

6.) Do you feel competition with other women.. even your best friends?
**Not really. I do feel envious of my sister b/c she's drop dead georgeous but more because I wish I worked out more (she has)

7.) Why generally do woman shop a lot more than men do?
**Because it's FUNNNNNNNNNN

1.) Are women REALLY attracted to money and power?

No, I really go for some one who can make me laugh my *** off. Good looks don't hurt either!!
Donald Trump? All I can say is.....EWWH!

2.) Which is better.. a guy who puts a rose on your car at lunchtime with an 'I Love You' note.. or a guy takes you out til dawn.. gives you thes best sex ever.. but becomes evasive or just a booty partner?

Sexual attraction can be strong, but usually fades pretty fast if nothing else is going on.
Love is more enduring and way more special.

3.) Does size REALLY matter to a woman?

Nope. Just make me say 'Oh God!'


4.) What is it about the C-word that drives a woman absolutely crazy and into a rage?

I don't know. It just seems EXTREMELY vulgar. For a long time, the male C word disturbed me too, but not any longer!


5.) Is there a woman who you have never met or only spoken to once briefly but you really hate her guts?

Yes. But I can also say the same for some men I've met. Some people just really irk me.

6.) Do you feel competition with other women.. even your best friends?

Not in this stage of my life. I think I used to when I was younger. But now, I'm wiser and more mellow.

7.) Why generally do woman shop a lot more than men do?

I don't know, but shopping is sooooo much FUN! I wish FH liked it even half as much as I do!

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Posted by OctGroom

I'm an inquisistive type as you all probably have perceived.. and I have questions that I can't put in a poll.. so...

let's assume I am from another planet.. (stop that.. LOL) and I landed on earth and was observing the chicks.. (I mean women..)

JUST KIDDING!!!!!
here we go.......


1.) Are women REALLY attracted to money and power? Is it really an aphrodisiac for a women to be seen with a man who has millions.. eg. would you date Donald Trump?

2.) Which is better.. a guy who puts a rose on your car at lunchtime with an 'I Love You' note.. or a guy takes you out til dawn.. gives you thes best sex ever.. but becomes evasive or just a booty partner?

3.) Does size REALLY matter to a woman?

4.) What is it about the C-word that drives a woman absolutely crazy and into a rage?

5.) Is there a woman who you have never met or only spoken to once briefly but you really hate her guts?

6.) Do you feel competition with other women.. even your best friends?

7.) Why generally do woman shop a lot more than men do?

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1, Money and Power are nice, but nothing i would base my feelings of falling in love with someone.

2. Puts a rose on my car (or even if he tells me he loves me daily)

3. Size matters....i really don't like too big or too thick...

4. I use the c-word....so i don't understand it either.....but a lot of my friends hate it!

5. There are exactly three woman i have met in my life that i can honestly say i really disliked the first time i met them.....all at different parts of my life....but they were people not only that i met that i thought i can't be friends with , but i thought i really don't like you for who you are as a person....3 people is not that bad though after 28 years...however trish from the bachelor is another one!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

6. Every woman does...but when it comes to friends - its competition - but you think of it more in the way of how can i improve myself...and not jealousy

7. Because we think A LOT more then Men!!!!

1 - I would never date Trump, but I think there is something to the power thing...strength, power. Not that DH has either, I don't think I could live with the ego, but it is sort of attractive.
2 - The guy who puts a rose on my car and gives me the best sex ever!
3 - A 'little'...mostly it is the other stuff! (Think foreplay!!)
4 - It actually doesn't bother me, I have been known to use it on occasion.
5 - But of course!!
6 - Yes, but it is different with friends as opposed to strangers. I am happy for my friends if they lose weight, but am a little jealous when I see a woman my age that looks way better than me.
7 - It's a social thing! We shop and talk, or we shop for things to look good in.

1. I want to live simply and comfortably, not lavishly. If I wanted money I would've gone into a more lucrative line of work. I never think of money as a criterion for a relationship.

2. Rose boy. Although, as others have pointed out, that could be creepy in certain circumstances!

3. Nah.

4. It's an ugly word, but there are lots of ugly words. In Scotland, they use the c-word as slang. It basically means 'guy.'

5. I'm not proud of this, but yes. Maybe 'hate' is a strong word for the feeling, though. The negative feelings come and go fairly quickly with me. Example: if someone is tailgating me, I immediately hate that person, and then I get over it. Another: if someone (someone I don't know -- I'm more understanding with folks I do know) expresses a political view I find completely abhorrent, I might hate that person for a minute or two. This applies to women and men alike.

6. I'm not proud of this either, but sometimes I do feel a little jealous of my friends. Again, the feeling comes and goes quickly, and applies to women and men alike. This is an issue I'm trying to work on, actually.

7. I love shopping, but I prefer shopping for presents for other people rather than shopping for myself. I don't get the same kick out of buying, say, shoes for myself, but I can see the appeal... asking friends for opinions, trying things on, et cetera. Even grocery shopping can be fun!

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Posted by OctGroom

I'm an inquisistive type as you all probably have perceived.. and I have questions that I can't put in a poll.. so...

let's assume I am from another planet.. (stop that.. LOL) and I landed on earth and was observing the chicks.. (I mean women..)

JUST KIDDING!!!!!
here we go.......


1.) Are women REALLY attracted to money and power? Is it really an aphrodisiac for a women to be seen with a man who has millions.. eg. would you date Donald Trump?

2.) Which is better.. a guy who puts a rose on your car at lunchtime with an 'I Love You' note.. or a guy takes you out til dawn.. gives you thes best sex ever.. but becomes evasive or just a booty partner?

3.) Does size REALLY matter to a woman?

4.) What is it about the C-word that drives a woman absolutely crazy and into a rage?

5.) Is there a woman who you have never met or only spoken to once briefly but you really hate her guts?

6.) Do you feel competition with other women.. even your best friends?

7.) Why generally do woman shop a lot more than men do?

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1. Some women are really attracted to money and power. I want my own money and power - I wouldn't do Trump with someone else's body.

2. FH won my heart by leaving a note at my door with a little book the day after our first date - so the rose on the car works for me, as long as it doesn't turn into stalker status.

3. Yes. Too big, too small, no good.

4. C word just sounds vulger. Although I've used it when someone really gets under my skin.

5. I don't truly hate anyone I don't know. No one is worth that much energy or attention from me, especially if I don't like them.

6. I don't compete with my friends, there's no need to.

7. Because we have more clothing options - guys (and by guys I mean FH) just have to chose between khakis or jeans, 3-button henley or button down shirt - boring!

1.) I know some that are, but I don't consider them human, I think they are without emotion.

2.) I don't like either of those options to tell you the truth. The rose thing would raise the red stalker flag in my head.

3.) Does horsepower really matter to an engine???

4.) It's just an ugly word and last I checked most men do not like being referred to as a D*ck... maybe not with such animosity, but they still don't like it.

5.) There is one, though I have spoken to her more than briefly.

6.) Not really.

7.) I hate shopping with a passion.... I cannot stand malls. I even dislike the grocery store, but I recognize it as a necessary evil.

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Posted by don424

ha -- the mets are a whole separate topic

i want to add 2 questions

1. what is the whole big deal with the toilet seat --why do some guys get crucified if they leave it up? If you see that it's up, put it down

2. when did PMS make acting b*tchy something that should be understood and accepted?

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1. Ahh the toilet seat issue, almost as controversal as chicken/egg issue. Just play the odds.... women have to sit, men have to sit half the time (unless they are drinking beer). LEAVE IT DOWN.

2. I have the same question about farts!!!

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Posted by OctGroom

1.) Are women REALLY attracted to money and power? Is it really an aphrodisiac for a women to be seen with a man who has millions.. eg. would you date Donald Trump?

2.) Which is better.. a guy who puts a rose on your car at lunchtime with an 'I Love You' note.. or a guy takes you out til dawn.. gives you thes best sex ever.. but becomes evasive or just a booty partner?

3.) Does size REALLY matter to a woman?

4.) What is it about the C-word that drives a woman absolutely crazy and into a rage?

5.) Is there a woman who you have never met or only spoken to once briefly but you really hate her guts?

6.) Do you feel competition with other women.. even your best friends?

7.) Why generally do woman shop a lot more than men do?

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(1) I do not know why women are attracted to money and power. I do not understand why women thing it reflects on them AT ALL if their partner has something that they do not. I was a at a party a while back and some girl was acting all big and important because her fiancee is an attorney. So what. You want to impress me - tell me what YOU do that is impressive.

(2) The guy with the rose.

(3) I don't think it is the size that matters, but people generally associate a bigger one with more pleasure. If you have a guy who is huge and doesn't know what to do with it, that is NOT better.

(4) The c-word is the most disrespectful thing that you can say to a woman because it implies that you are nothing more than that part of your body. Your thoughts, beliefs, intelligence and sense of humor are completely irrelevant because all that you are is something for a man to use for pleasure. Woman who use that word are worse because they are demeaning, not only the person they say it to, but themself, and all women, by saying it at all. I think only the lowest form of trashy women use this word.

(5) No. Women who hate people that they don't even know are jealous and miserable people.

(6) No, the only person I am in competition with is myself to achieve my own goals as quickly as I can.

(7) Because, in general, women care more about how they look due to societal pressures to look like supermodels.

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Posted by Becky
(4) The c-word is the most disrespectful thing that you can say to a woman because it implies that you are nothing more than that part of your body. Your thoughts, beliefs, intelligence and sense of humor are completely irrelevant because all that you are is something for a man to use for pleasure. Woman who use that word are worse because they are demeaning, not only the person they say it to, but themself, and all women, by saying it at all. I think only the lowest form of trashy women use this word.

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i guess i need to be thrown in the garbage then

seriously, this word cracks me up. i would never use it in public, but i have been known to use it to describe really mean, evil women who are just awful, awful people. FH hates this word and can't believe it comes out of my mouth. if anyone called me that word or used it to describe a body part, i would laugh in their face and simply walk away...

1.) Not me! I would never have dated a guy just because he was rich. Yeah, there is something pretty attractive about a successful man with money, but it was never an important criteria to me. And if you ask me, they can't be trusted. I'm sure a lot of them cheat on their women.

2.) The rose guy. But if he's wishy-washy nice all the time, that's such a turnoff.

3.) If he's eensy-teensy, yes! Sorry, but little peeters are creepy. I know it's horrible to say, but I was with a guy once and when I saw 'IT' I almost let out a gasp. I'd never seen one so small! Oh, and I couldn't tell you if he was good or not because the little guy got stage fright! ha ha! But on the other side of the spectrum, guys that are too big scare me. There's only so much room up in there. Ouch is all I can say...
Luckily FH is just the right size..... ahhh....

4.) Complete and utter disrespect. If a man (or woman) ever called me that word I'd go ape$hit on him/her.

5.) Hmmmm.... don't think so.

6.) Yes in a way, but it's so silly. I don't know why women can be like that, but guys can be like that too, right?

7.) In my case, I shop a lot more than FH because I'm always looking for gifts for people and he's not! I just care about that kind of thing and he doesn't. I like getting my friends gifts for their birthdays and he doesn't do that. Also, women need more clothes. It's just a fact. Guys can wear the same pants every other day and no one cares.