The Best Man

Ok so Fh asked an old College friend to be his best man. He all ready told me that he is a player, a charmer w/ the lady's ect.....
I can just see it now the batcholer party I will not be happy

I think I am going to have to put out some rules

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Posted by hsacks23r

I think I am going to have to put out some rules

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I hear ya loud,and clear. I was thinking maybe doing it the same night (you know mines, and his) so we will have our minds off of eachother. But I don't even think that will work. I can only imagine wahts going to happen. They (his best friend, and my brother) already think I can him housed up.
OMG
Get those rules coming

we all do..!!!!
try and have to togther.
i think we all are going to AC or somewhere and then go our seperate ways.. when we are there. who knows wat they have planned i have awhile

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Posted by hsacks23r

I dont care if they drink, smoke....what ever -- I just do NOT want Stripers, they can go to a club, a bar what ever NO STRIPPERS....

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I here ya

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Posted by smurray

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Posted by hsacks23r

I dont care if they drink, smoke....what ever -- I just do NOT want Stripers, they can go to a club, a bar what ever NO STRIPPERS....

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I here ya

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Thank you-- so girls Are like so what as long as they dont sleep w/them they can look or are fine with it I am not- I can honesly say I am not happy with my body and am verry self concious and dont even like it when he makes a coment about a fit girl or 'not fit girl '

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Posted by hsacks23r

Ok so Fh asked an old College friend to be his best man. He all ready told me that he is a player, a charmer w/ the lady's ect.....
I can just see it now the batcholer party I will not be happy

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maybe he has changed since College

I may be alone in this thought, but if you trust your FI then you shouldn't have to place restrictions on something he can only experience once in his life.

It's his BP and I'm sure you wouldn't want any restrictions placed on you for your BP.

Just b/c his BM is a 'lathario' doesn't mean that your FI is.

I personally know that if I EVER had any hesitation in how my FI would act just b/c of his friend, I wouldn't be marrying him.

I completely agree with Christine. Why are you stressing, you'll have your own night to have fun, if you trust him then no worries, right??

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Posted by hsacks23r

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Posted by smurray

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Posted by hsacks23r

I dont care if they drink, smoke....what ever -- I just do NOT want Stripers, they can go to a club, a bar what ever NO STRIPPERS....

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I here ya

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Thank you-- so girls Are like so what as long as they dont sleep w/them they can look or are fine with it I am not- I can honesly say I am not happy with my body and am verry self concious and dont even like it when he makes a coment about a fit girl or 'not fit girl '

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We ALL have something that we're self conscious about. You have to keep in mind that your FI asked you to marry him - the way you are inside and outside.

Your FI should not have to pay for your self esteem.

OMG, I'm a plus sized girl and I don't care about that. Sorry you don't feel good about yourself, but realizes your man is marrying YOU, nobody else. It obviously doesn't bother him, so don't let it bother you. Also, I've been in wedding where the whole stripper thing becomes an issue, and ends up ruining both your nights. Go with the flow, you're beautiful, you're getting married, relax

I'm probably the only bride who is actually encouraging her FH to see strippers.

Honestly, I agree with Christine. Have faith in your guy, I'm sure he won't dissapoint you.
He loves YOU, he asked YOU to marry him - not some Scores chick.

Don't worry about it.

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Posted by ChristineAE

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Posted by hsacks23r

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Posted by smurray

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Posted by hsacks23r

I dont care if they drink, smoke....what ever -- I just do NOT want Stripers, they can go to a club, a bar what ever NO STRIPPERS....

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I here ya

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Thank you-- so girls Are like so what as long as they dont sleep w/them they can look or are fine with it I am not- I can honesly say I am not happy with my body and am verry self concious and dont even like it when he makes a coment about a fit girl or 'not fit girl '

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We ALL have something that we're self conscious about. You have to keep in mind that your FI asked you to marry him - the way you are inside and outside.

Your FI should not have to pay for your self esteem.

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He should not have to pay for my sled-esteem issues --- so he looses out at looking at other girls -- he will live w/out it

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Posted by hsacks23r

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Posted by ChristineAE

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Posted by hsacks23r

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Posted by smurray

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Posted by hsacks23r

I dont care if they drink, smoke....what ever -- I just do NOT want Stripers, they can go to a club, a bar what ever NO STRIPPERS....

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I here ya

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Thank you-- so girls Are like so what as long as they dont sleep w/them they can look or are fine with it I am not- I can honesly say I am not happy with my body and am verry self concious and dont even like it when he makes a coment about a fit girl or 'not fit girl '

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We ALL have something that we're self conscious about. You have to keep in mind that your FI asked you to marry him - the way you are inside and outside.

Your FI should not have to pay for your self esteem.

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He should not have to pay for my sled-esteem issues --- so he looses out at looking at other girls -- he will live w/out it

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In the end, I hope all works out for you. If it were me, and it's not, I would not want the person I'm going to spend the rest of my life with put any restrictions on me.

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Posted by ChristineAE

I may be alone in this thought, but if you trust your FI then you shouldn't have to place restrictions on something he can only experience once in his life.

It's his BP and I'm sure you wouldn't want any restrictions placed on you for your BP.

Just b/c his BM is a 'lathario' doesn't mean that your FI is.

I personally know that if I EVER had any hesitation in how my FI would act just b/c of his friend, I wouldn't be marrying him.

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Your not alone a agree ..... you should trust him and your Relationship!

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Posted by kellwolfe

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Posted by ChristineAE

I may be alone in this thought, but if you trust your FI then you shouldn't have to place restrictions on something he can only experience once in his life.

It's his BP and I'm sure you wouldn't want any restrictions placed on you for your BP.

Just b/c his BM is a 'lathario' doesn't mean that your FI is.

I personally know that if I EVER had any hesitation in how my FI would act just b/c of his friend, I wouldn't be marrying him.

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Your not alone a agree ..... you should trust him and your Relationship!

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I also agree. Your FH proposed to you, sweetie! He loves you, for all that you are- the whole package! If your relationship is solid, then I wouldn't stress. Who knows, his best man could suggest strippers and he may say that he doesn't want any.