The Best Man

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Posted by hsacks23r

all I am saying is that I dont want another girls a s s in my FH's face

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No one wants any arse in their face. If your man didn't LOVE your arse, then the arse that's PAID to shake in his face DOES NOT MEAN A THING.

I agree-

You trust your man i am sure-so who cares what his friends are like. Give him credit for being an adult and knowing what is right and what is wrong. If he is going to act on anything at his B party he would do it on any day-JMO
Let him have fun-and be the better person-hope that he has hot arse in his face and that he has the best B party ever-and in the end the less grief you give him will show him not only how lucky his to have you but how secure you are with yourself, him and your love.

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Posted by hsacks23r

I TRUST him and he trust me BUT I JUST DONT WHANT A STRIPPER !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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Sweetie, we know how frustrating this is for you. You have to understand that we are outsiders looking in, and entitled to our own opinions.

You're a beautiful person and have honestly expressed your sentiments with us, and that is greatly appreciated.

Don't get stressed out about it.

In the end, if they LIE to you and say 'no strippers, we promise' - chances are they will go behind your back and do it anyway.

I understand I trust FH 100%. I know he would never cheat on me. I know he would never think of cheating on me, yet the thought of another girl stripping with her naked parts all exposed is still gross to me (because ewww).

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Posted by chikita315

I'm probably the only bride who is actually encouraging her FH to see strippers.

Honestly, I agree with Christine. Have faith in your guy, I'm sure he won't dissapoint you.
He loves YOU, he asked YOU to marry him - not some Scores chick.

Don't worry about it.

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oh no, nena, I am right there with you. I even offered to pick them out for him since I know what he likes

we are very open about that stuff....secretive or in plain view, if a mans gonna cheat, he's gonna cheat....

edited to add- you shouldn't be thinking about what YOU don't want at HIS party and think more about your own. He is a grown man and can and should be able to make his own decisions. I would not tolerate for an INSTANT if fh told me I couldn't have strippers or anything else at my bachelorette party. it boils down to respect- if you respect your partner and he/she respects you, you have NOTHING to worry about, and no $50 rented ENTERTAINMENT should bother you.

and let's not forget that odds are his party is one of hundreds the stripper would do- it is highly doubtful that she will have ONE OUNCE of interest in your fh or his buddies...

remember, the tighter your grip, the more they fight.

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Posted by JessicaM.

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Posted by chikita315

I'm probably the only bride who is actually encouraging her FH to see strippers.

Honestly, I agree with Christine. Have faith in your guy, I'm sure he won't dissapoint you.
He loves YOU, he asked YOU to marry him - not some Scores chick.

Don't worry about it.

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oh no, nena, I am right there with you. I even offered to pick them out for him since I know what he likes

we are very open about that stuff....secretive or in plain view, if a mans gonna cheat, he's gonna cheat....

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EXACTLY!!!

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Posted by SuzBride

I understand I trust FH 100%. I know he would never cheat on me. I know he would never think of cheating on me, yet the thought of another girl stripping with her naked parts all exposed is still gross to me (because ewww).

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ETA: I agree 100% Very well put.

These are women who get PAID to take their clothes off. In my opinion, that's enough degradation without having men touch up on you.

You have plenty of characteristics that they do not have. Most importantly, your self-respect and decency.

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Posted by SuzBride

I understand I trust FH 100%. I know he would never cheat on me. I know he would never think of cheating on me, yet the thought of another girl stripping with her naked parts all exposed is still gross to me (because ewww).

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THANK YOU

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Posted by hsacks23r

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Posted by SuzBride

I understand I trust FH 100%. I know he would never cheat on me. I know he would never think of cheating on me, yet the thought of another girl stripping with her naked parts all exposed is still gross to me (because ewww).

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THANK YOU

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Everyones point of view is very understandable to me b/c we do trust our FH, and thats why we're marrying them, but at the same token i also do not want strippers b/c of the above quote....BUT I KNOW FH's best friend will get them, and I won't be mad at him for having them, I just don't like them, and not even just for him. I myself am not a stripper fan. but to each their own, I'll have fun, and so will he at the end of the night

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Posted by hsacks23r

Ok so Fh asked an old College friend to be his best man. He all ready told me that he is a player, a charmer w/ the lady's ect.....
I can just see it now the batcholer party I will not be happy

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My FH's BM is the ultimate ladies man/charmer/player. (the stories I've heard of their escapades in the last 15 years will make your hair stand on end). I KNOW the bachelor party will involve some sort of nonsense (stripper or whatever). I don't care. I know my man, and I know there is nothing for me to be concerned about.