Just wondering if any of you still speak with your exes. FH obviously still speaks with his since they have a child together and within the past year I actually reconnected with mine. FH is not jealous in the least.....which can be rather irritating at times but whatever. I don't hang out with the ex, just trade text messages. It's just nice to be on cordial terms since a lot went down while we were together and we turned to each other a lot for support. There has been talk of getting together, but we'll see. FH knows he can trust me and I would never do anything to jeopardize our relationship.
SummerBride10
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I dont really speak to my exes at all. I was sorta friends with one, but thats about it. Once a relationship is over I cut all ties- I find thats the best way to move on.
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i dont talk to my ex at all...Have no need to, and dont have any desire to... The situation with the ex wasnt the best and its not a place I ever want to be again in my life...Lets just say if i didnt meet FH when I did I probably wouldnt be here right now.
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I don't see it as a problem because there is tust in your relationship. My FH hates to run into his past because he is not good at small talk. I haven't run into my ex's, but if i did so be it. I'm happy with a great guy who doesn't judge me.
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I dont really speak to my exes at all. I was sorta friends with one, but thats about it. Once a relationship is over I cut all ties- I find thats the best way to move on.
I completely agree.
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i dont talk to my ex at all...Have no need to, and dont have any desire to... The situation with the ex wasnt the best and its not a place I ever want to be again in my life...Lets just say if i didnt meet FH when I did I probably wouldnt be here right now.
Geez, that's pretty intense. I'm glad you got out when you did. Some things are best left unvisited. Good for you for having the strength to get out of a bad situation and not go back. I've done that before.....not a good idea.
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Yes, I am friends will all of my exes (3) and see them on a regular basis. One is one of my brothers best friends (yes, i was very stupid when i was younger) so he is always at my house. One i dated on/off for 6 years and he is friendly with my family so he just stops by and will hang out at my house whenever he is in the area. The other hangs out with all of my friends so i see him when i go out. FH knows who all 3 are and it doesn't bother him that i still talk to them. And, yes they will all be invited to the wedding.
Goldie39
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Nope, I have no communication with my exes. It is the best situation for me.
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i totally keep away from my ex....i don't feel is necessary to talk to him. If we see each other in the streets we say hi but that's about it no need to keep ties with him he is out of my life for a reason
JenBill61210
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Nope, my last ex was from when i was 17! (i have been with FH for almost 6 years now!)
Christine N Ralph
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I talk to him once in awhile...we used to work together so I still see him sometimes when I go there- there is no hard feelings between us, and he was always a good guy so there is no reason for me not to talk to him once in awhile...just small talk. FH doesnt really care he knows im not leaving him for anybody else.
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Yankees2323
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wellll.... the ex b4 fH i will NEVER speak to ever again!! he put me threw hell and if i didnt leave him i dont know what would f happend... but i do have a few like 2 or 3 that i broke up with and it was a mutual thing or we were friends 1st and i do still talk to them... honestly i have told FH they are exs but he doesnt really care or prob forgot lol... i barely speak to them its like a myspace thing or text message thing occasionaly a phone call..
CristinanBen2010
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I do not talk to any of my exes.. Just better for me, Last one put me through alot so I dont need him in my life
MrsL2010
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One of my ex's occasionally texts me, but I don't answer back. I have no interest in communicating with him. Another one still IM's me, and if i feel like it, I'll respond, but he seems annoyed that i'm engaged....whatever.
LouMar2010
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none of my other relationships ended bad. i bump into exes randomly but thats about it.
eternitybride
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FH speaks to the one person who is truly and 'ex'. There is someone I was casually dating, and he and I are still friends, I was at his wedding, and recently the Bris for his new son.
My other Ex, the one FH still occasionally talks to and I do NOT talk at all. thankfully, I dont need to put up with his hypocritical idiocy
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Posted by ShannonSoon
Posted by SummerBride10
I dont really speak to my exes at all. I was sorta friends with one, but thats about it. Once a relationship is over I cut all ties- I find thats the best way to move on.
I completely agree.
I also agree 1000%
stinenandy2010
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I don't speak with any of my exes and either does FH. I used to be friendly with one but we lost touch.
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i dont talk to my ex at all...Have no need to, and dont have any desire to... The situation with the ex wasnt the best and its not a place I ever want to be again in my life...Lets just say if i didnt meet FH when I did I probably wouldnt be here right now.
