the future in-laws

April302005 Posted: May 13, 2004 09:31 PM

the future in-laws

I was just wondering how people got along with their future in laws??

RedHead Posted: May 13, 2004 09:34 PM

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I get a long with them....
They can get on my nerves but i let my FH take care of that....

nicknmb Posted: May 13, 2004 09:36 PM

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I love them both...they are the best. I couldn't have asked for better in-laws!

exotica776 Posted: May 13, 2004 09:37 PM

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I absolutely LOVE my future in laws. our families have known each other for soooo long, way before Fh and i ever started dating!! My FFIL may just be the sweetest, most kind person in the world, and my FMIL is just the best! She is so wonderful, and we have an awesome relationship. (we have so many similarities its scary too lol, i.e. same birthday, 'flat heads' lol dont ask, we think of the same thing at the same time and say it lol). My future brother in law has a heart of gold and is just so great! FH is just as close with my family as well. It definitely helped that we all knew each other for years before we started going out, my brother and his cousin have been best friends for about 15 years! Sorry i went off on a tangent, but I realize just how lucky i am with this situation and i wanted to share!!

April302005 Posted: May 13, 2004 09:39 PM

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I think it's gret that u all have such awesome relationships.

jill13bean Posted: May 13, 2004 09:41 PM

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I love the whole family!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! they are the best
our parents get along great also!!
i feel so bad when people on here tell horror stories about their in laws because i could not say one bad thing about mine
LOVE THEM!!

I am also getting a sister out of the deal... that i have always wanted

Rae912 Posted: May 13, 2004 10:04 PM

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Mine are great, well except for one little thing. When they call here and I answer the phone they say 'is shawn there'. They dont even say hi to me! and to top it off as soon as he picks up the phone they say'oh, tell Renee I forgot to say hello'
Whats up with that??? They 'forget' every single time to say hello, but always remember to say sorry to him for not saying hello to me... Maybe Im being over sensitive, but i think thats just plain rude. Last time his mom did it, I dsaid hold on, and then really loud I said 'Shawn, the phone is for you, its the people that forget to say hi to me'
I got a good laugh out of it, and his mom heard me and appologized again.

April302005 Posted: May 13, 2004 10:09 PM

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That's weird! Maybe they are just always in a rush to talk to their son !!

no stress bride Posted: May 14, 2004 10:00 AM

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I love my in laws they are great!! Tehy also live in south carolina so that could be too!! But besides that they are wonderful and I'm so happy to have them!!

mattituckprincess Posted: May 14, 2004 10:04 AM

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i adore my fil's. they are fantastic!

brideinapril Posted: May 14, 2004 10:05 AM

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I get along with them, they are very nice to me. Its just an adjustment having to share holidays!!!

zaley Posted: May 14, 2004 10:10 AM

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Posted by oct.2004bride

I get a long with them....
They can get on my nerves but i let my FH take care of that....

same here

nylisa Posted: May 14, 2004 10:10 AM

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I get along with them but we are just not the best of friends. I get along better with my FFIL then my FMIL.

capgrl26 Posted: May 14, 2004 10:15 AM

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My FH only has his Mom...sometimes she's ok, but more than not, I'm putting up with her...She's loud, jealous, and clings to my FH and always make him feel guilty for moving away when she's by herself...I told her to find a rich man and get over it...I have no horror stories yet, the plannig hasn't begun. But, our Mom's already had a cat fight over a Catholic wedding (I'm not), my mom said no Catholic wedding and if she insists, they're not paying...ugh!

jen110704 Posted: May 14, 2004 10:15 AM

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I get along with them, although my FMIL can really get under my skin. My FFIL is awsome.

diamondgrlie Posted: May 14, 2004 10:17 AM

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I feel we got along better before all the wedding planning started but we are still really close. I have felt like a member of their family for years already. I am very lucky.

fall2005bride Posted: May 14, 2004 10:17 AM

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It's not that we don't get along.... we just don't see eye to eye on things....
They aren't interested in our wedding at all!
But we have my family, and they're great so...

darly Posted: May 14, 2004 10:26 AM

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i used to like them alot - then they hurt me and my family deeply and and added alot of unneccesary stress in our lives (incl. fh) and put a damper on the planning...but i try to move forward and to be excited about OUR wedding - we just keep on saying 'it's about' us - neither sides are talking to one another so it's been tough...alot of tears!