the 'I Gotta Scream' thread

radiostar Posted: Sep 03, 2003 09:55 PM

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Ladies....I sincerely hope that your guests/BP are smarter than mine.

aliciahelene Posted: Sep 03, 2003 09:56 PM

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rachel..you crack me up!! My Fh says whatever you wnat is fine too..it drives me crazy. Our wedding is going to be a surprise to him. He says he trusts my taste...I showed him the ugliest dress in a catalog and asked him if he liked it..he said if I liked it, then he liked it!!! UGH!!!! I know he just wants to make me happy..but I just wish he would put in something into planning this...
hey.I like this venting thread..Im feeling better already!!!

Jordan Posted: Sep 03, 2003 10:04 PM

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Vent away women - I'm glad we're all here for one another.

aliciahelene Posted: Sep 03, 2003 10:15 PM

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GOOD THREAD CP0329!!!!!!

prncssrachel Posted: Sep 03, 2003 10:21 PM

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ALicia, you just gave me an experiment for the weekend! I'm going to point out the UGLIEST things this weekend when I see him! Although I showed him the centerpieces we are getting and he was silent and said, 'Those are...nice.' What the HELL DOES THAT MEAN?

aliciahelene Posted: Sep 03, 2003 10:23 PM

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heheeeeee let me know your experiment goes!!!! I think maybe they just want what we want. My mom said my dad had no clue about their wedding..maybe its normal.

franksbride Posted: Sep 03, 2003 10:27 PM

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My FH doesn't even look at the pics or whatever it is I show him...everything to him is great, nice, sure hon, whatever you want...I may try the ugly pic experiment with him too and see what happens.

aliciahelene Posted: Sep 03, 2003 10:30 PM

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Try it Franks bride and let us know how it goes. I did it even with hairstyles..but for soem reason then..he gave me honest opinions..he doesnt make any sense.

juju Posted: Sep 03, 2003 11:10 PM

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Im pmsing. It ****s! I'm going through an emotional roller coaster!

ThreeTwenty Posted: Sep 04, 2003 12:04 AM

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I CAN'T BELIEVE MY FSIL SHOWED MY FH A PICTURE OF ME IN MY DRESS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

MarciaD Posted: Sep 04, 2003 12:07 AM

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I'm the crazy one!!!

Everyone is driving me crazy except my FH. I b*tch to him so much about everyone else that he probably thinks I'm going crazy...

I have an idiot co-worker that I have to deal with that is really driving me bonkers, I know everything will get screwed up while I'm on my HM and I just don't care anymore....

I admit, I'm obsessed with LIFE, and I hate being a work these days!!!

radiostar Posted: Sep 04, 2003 12:11 AM

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ThreeTwenty....

NOW THAT TAKES THE CAKE!

ThreeTwenty Posted: Sep 04, 2003 12:16 AM

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Woo Hoo! I win LOL.....Can you believe it?
FH doesnt see it as a big deal but I'm still furious and can't bring myself to ask her to be a BM....it's not like she is young and didn't know any better...shes 37!

ThongLori Posted: Sep 04, 2003 12:26 AM

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joanna OH MY GOD!!! that is unacceptable!!?!?!?? WHAT is she thinking?!?!?!?

MarciaD Posted: Sep 04, 2003 12:28 AM

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OMG Joanna, that is horrible!!!

AHHHHH!!!

2UNTAMED Posted: Sep 04, 2003 06:40 AM

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Twentythree- I would immediatley take away ALL the pictures with you in the dress and destroy them or hide them away. I read your profile that you are getting married in 2004. Hopefully your FI has NORMAL MALE MEMORY, and dosen't noticed details!! By that time he won't really remenber excatly the details of the dress. And I'm sure seeing you LIVE is totally different than in a picture, just like the bridal dresses you see on the magazines. I would definalty NOT ask FSIL to be in the party till the very Last Minute possible!! Let her wonder for a while........ Hope this helps?

embee Posted: Sep 04, 2003 09:18 AM

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girls, can i just say that i think our FH must share dna, we have a broken remote as well as a hole covered by a picture of our smiling faces...how ironic is that. we have never fought so much as since we have been engaged. i think it just has a lot to do with the amount of stress we put on ourselves and the fact that now we are really faced with the fact that we are going to spend the rest of our lives toghether. it isn't just a hypothetical situation anymore. i think we will survive, i hope!

Jordan Posted: Sep 04, 2003 11:23 AM

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Egad, my FH is so NOt of the same DNA! Thank Bob!

I don't think I could tolerate such (no offense, childish) outbursts.

112903 Posted: Sep 04, 2003 07:29 PM

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I am sorry to hear that... hugs to you

sept20yay! Posted: Sep 04, 2003 07:42 PM

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I think I can add here.

My mother is a HORROR SHOW. I am SOOO jealous of all the girls who have mothers to help plan their wedding, mothers who get excited over their daughters wedding, who fuss over every detail. Even on her best day, I have been furious at my mother and will never forget how cruel she has been to me over the past year since I got engaged. Whilt my mother has never been maternal to say the very least, I would have thought she would have been into the wedding at all of her first born child who is marrying the nicest guy in the world- the nearest thing she has ever had to a son. But no, she NEVER went with me to look at dresses, had my poor bridesmaids plan my shower, *****ed about how she had to do seating for her friends, and never came with me to one appointment. Other mothers are interested in how to bustle their daughters dress and help them on the wedding, but not my mother. She is sooo into herself, so selfish and egotistical- it kills me. The woman has no soul. To be 25 years old and planning with vendors who don't listen to someone so young, it is so painful.

My father and his wife have been so much nicer (obviously) to her 25 year old twin girls and their fiancee's, even though one is obviously gay and in the closet. (Ladies- This kid is FLAMING) and the other fiance's father was in jail and he curses 'F- U!' at the top of his lungs to his fiance often. The two are on the rocks at best. My father has never even toasted our engagement or said congratulations.

You are right- That felt good!!!