The lunacy!!!! - UPDATE W/MORE CRAZY!
Haha wow this got long...I'm sure you can all guess who its about. ![]()
You're all probably sick to death of hearing it but here it goes...
FMIL has really lost it. To start, we are driving out to Ohio for xmas so that she can spend time with FSD. Apparently, that's not enough. FSD's birthday is December 4 (a Friday this year). FMIL decides she wants to fly out here on the 3rd and fly back to Ohio the 5th so she can be here for FSD's bday.
This is a REALLY inconvenient time for us. Thursdays we both work and on Thursday nights I have school so FH has to be home by 5:30 (which is a tight squeeze for us). It is the week before my finals week. My parents are busy Thursday nights as well. There is NOBODY to pick her up from the airport.
ON TOP OF THAT...what is she coming for, anyway?? I get that she wants to be with FSD on her birthday, but she'll be in school all day long!! And then she's leaving the next day!! So she really wants to inconvenience EVERYONE for a couple of hours!!
We tell her we want to discuss it. FH discusses it with her, about how its not really a good time and the logistics aren't great. He ends the conversation with her last night under the impression that there will be more discussions about it.
He gets a call this morning from her, letting him know that SHE JUST BOOKED A TICKET. She decided she was just going to IGNORE everything we said and book a freakin ticket!!!! She goes 'Oh well it gets in to MacArthur and I can get on the train and get to you that way'...this is a woman who can't even handle NY traffic, she's going to navigate a transit system she's never experienced before?? Also, does the train even come near the airport?? Its her passive aggressive ploy to get us to bend over backwards and rearrange our whole lives to pick her up....WELL IT AIN'T HAPPENING, CRAZY!!!! She can take the train and get here when she gets here and if she gets lost OH WELL....she made her bed, SHE CAN LIE IN IT!!
WTH is wrong with the women in FH's family?!?!![]()
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UPDATE - FH comes home...and he tells me that not only is she still DEFINITELY coming...but he INFORMS me of her plans for that Friday...she's going to bake FSD a cake! PRAY TELL, WHERE IS SHE GOING TO BAKE THIS CAKE?!?! She's just decided that not only is she going to be staying with us or my parents, but she's going to be using my or my parents kitchen to bake this child a cake!! But not only that, I'm guessing she expects US to get her all the materials she needs!!!
WHO ASSUMES CRAP LIKE THIS?!?!?! My goodness....its just so freakin ridiculous!!!!
UPDATE #2 - FH is on the phone w/her right now confronting her about her heinous behavior. WILL KEEP YOU UPDATED!!!![]()
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UPDATE TO THE UPDATE (lol!) - She hung up on him!!!! He was actually standing up for himself but being totally calm and rational about it, talking about how its really a terrible time of the year for us and all this stuff and she goes 'I'M SORRY MY COMING TO VISIT IS SUCH A BURDEN!' and hung up!!!!![]()
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FMIL has really lost it. To start, we are driving out to Ohio for xmas so that she can spend time with FSD. Apparently, that's not enough. FSD's birthday is December 4 (a Friday this year). FMIL decides she wants to fly out here on the 3rd and fly back to Ohio the 5th so she can be here for FSD's bday.
This is a REALLY inconvenient time for us. Thursdays we both work and on Thursday nights I have school so FH has to be home by 5:30 (which is a tight squeeze for us). It is the week before my finals week. My parents are busy Thursday nights as well. There is NOBODY to pick her up from the airport.
ON TOP OF THAT...what is she coming for, anyway?? I get that she wants to be with FSD on her birthday, but she'll be in school all day long!! And then she's leaving the next day!! So she really wants to inconvenience EVERYONE for a couple of hours!!
We tell her we want to discuss it. FH discusses it with her, about how its not really a good time and the logistics aren't great. He ends the conversation with her last night under the impression that there will be more discussions about it.
He gets a call this morning from her, letting him know that SHE JUST BOOKED A TICKET. She decided she was just going to IGNORE everything we said and book a freakin ticket!!!! She goes 'Oh well it gets in to MacArthur and I can get on the train and get to you that way'...this is a woman who can't even handle NY traffic, she's going to navigate a transit system she's never experienced before?? Also, does the train even come near the airport?? Its her passive aggressive ploy to get us to bend over backwards and rearrange our whole lives to pick her up....WELL IT AIN'T HAPPENING, CRAZY!!!! She can take the train and get here when she gets here and if she gets lost OH WELL....she made her bed, SHE CAN LIE IN IT!!
WTH is wrong with the women in FH's family?!?!
UPDATE - FH comes home...and he tells me that not only is she still DEFINITELY coming...but he INFORMS me of her plans for that Friday...she's going to bake FSD a cake! PRAY TELL, WHERE IS SHE GOING TO BAKE THIS CAKE?!?! She's just decided that not only is she going to be staying with us or my parents, but she's going to be using my or my parents kitchen to bake this child a cake!! But not only that, I'm guessing she expects US to get her all the materials she needs!!!
WHO ASSUMES CRAP LIKE THIS?!?!?! My goodness....its just so freakin ridiculous!!!!
UPDATE #2 - FH is on the phone w/her right now confronting her about her heinous behavior. WILL KEEP YOU UPDATED!!!
UPDATE TO THE UPDATE (lol!) - She hung up on him!!!! He was actually standing up for himself but being totally calm and rational about it, talking about how its really a terrible time of the year for us and all this stuff and she goes 'I'M SORRY MY COMING TO VISIT IS SUCH A BURDEN!' and hung up!!!!
