The official 'I am doubting my choice' thread

Where should I start??

1. Choice of bridesmaids!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2. My dress
3. BM dress
4. Date of wedding

The only thing I am sure about is I LOVE MY PHOTOGRAPHER. I'm 1 for 5 :)

I already exchanged my dress for one that I like so much better....other than that, I am good to go

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Posted by Tina120206

Where should I start??

1. Choice of bridesmaids!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2. My dress
3. BM dress
4. Date of wedding

The only thing I am sure about is I LOVE MY PHOTOGRAPHER. I'm 1 for 5 :)

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who is your photographer?

i doubt some things to as well...its common..
after the wedding..i had some doubts also but what done is done

I'm second guessing my dress (you all know about that dilemma) and my hall....worried about the hall having too much going on at the time that I will have to fight other brides for picture time on the premises!!

I should add that I am doubting my choice of veil. Everytime I look at it or feel it, it seems really cheap to me!!

1. My hall- is it too much $$$
2. My dress- is it just too much
3. My FH- just kidding (only once)

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Posted by glinda_goodwitch

My big doubt is if my reception room will hold all the people on my list!! I'm inviting 180, the room holds 150 but might be crowded, and we're hoping for 140. I hope it works out!!

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Beth, that's one of the many things I am NOT worried about!! We're only inviting 115, and even if everyone comes, there's still room!!

I started doubted my hair stylist about a month before the wedding, but couldn't do anything about it because I had given her a $200 non refundable deposit to hold the date, and that was too much $$ to be out of.

As it was, she never showed up the morning of my wedding. I should have listened to my gut and forfieted the deposit.

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Posted by FallBride05

I started doubted my hair stylist about a month before the wedding, but couldn't do anything about it because I had given her a $200 non refundable deposit to hold the date, and that was too much $$ to be out of.

As it was, she never showed up the morning of my wedding. I should have listened to my gut and forfieted the deposit.

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That is crazy, after she didn't show did she give you your money back?

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Posted by ZuzusPetals

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Posted by Tina120206

Where should I start??

1. Choice of bridesmaids!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2. My dress
3. BM dress
4. Date of wedding

The only thing I am sure about is I LOVE MY PHOTOGRAPHER. I'm 1 for 5 :)

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who is your photographer?

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BrettMatthews

i dont really doubt any of the vendors that i have so far chosen or my dress. the one thing i doubt is the wedding date i have chosen. i was going to do the wedding in november/december but opted for july for visa reasons (i am applying for permanent residency in Australia, where FH is from, and the fiancee visa means you have to get married within 9 months).

i thought i may have been cutting it too close by doing the wedding in november, but it turns out my visa may not even be ready by the time of my wedding! which means i may have to stay back while FH goes back to work after the wedding and wait for it. the australian immigration department is really putting a strain on our relationship....

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Posted by FallBride05

I started doubted my hair stylist about a month before the wedding, but couldn't do anything about it because I had given her a $200 non refundable deposit to hold the date, and that was too much $$ to be out of.

As it was, she never showed up the morning of my wedding. I should have listened to my gut and forfieted the deposit.

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what did you wind up doing? who did your hair?

I second guessed my gown, but I kept it.

Second guessed the color of my BM dresses - changed it after they had all been ordered.

Second guessed my tiara after I bought it - cried in the store and they were happy to let me exchange it (yay Bridal Styles!).

Second guessed my invitation wording - AFTER I received my full order. So I ordered a second set.

And I spent a good 6 months (if not more) worrying about whether or not the room we booked would be too small but never did anything about it. There's nothing in the world like pre-wedding paranoia.

i second guessed everything...

however, like another, i love my photogragher..
i love my engagement pics and she is a great person..

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Posted by klingklang77

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Posted by FallBride05

I started doubted my hair stylist about a month before the wedding, but couldn't do anything about it because I had given her a $200 non refundable deposit to hold the date, and that was too much $$ to be out of.

As it was, she never showed up the morning of my wedding. I should have listened to my gut and forfieted the deposit.

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what did you wind up doing? who did your hair?

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Unfortunately at 6:00 am on a Sunday morning when we had to be dressed and ready for pics at the catering hall by 9:00, there was not much we could do. Had it not been for my sister who remembered about 7:00 am that morning that she knew someone, I seriously don't know what we would have done. Especially since none of us had any hair products or curling irons with us.

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Posted by FallBride05

I started doubted my hair stylist about a month before the wedding, but couldn't do anything about it because I had given her a $200 non refundable deposit to hold the date, and that was too much $$ to be out of.

As it was, she never showed up the morning of my wedding. I should have listened to my gut and forfieted the deposit.

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Are you kidding? Did you at least get your money back, what did you do about your hair. Ok forget these questions I see someone else asked them.