There is so much talk about our year approaching....well ladies, this is our last year as SINGLE women! So, I have a question...

Original post by JessicaM.

Dec 30, 2005 09:42 AM

of course we all love our fh's. of course we love to be with them and WANT to spend the better part of the next 70 years (hey, I have high aspirations! LOL) with them BUT......

what is the one (or more ) thing you will miss about being single. And I don't mean so much dating, but just being what you will miss about being 'on your own'?

esb980 Posted: Dec 30, 2005 12:54 PM

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I know this is weird, but I will miss getting up to catch the bo-k!

tracie143 Posted: Dec 30, 2005 01:13 PM

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For me nothing is really changing. We live together alreday we both spend time with our friends at least once a week and if I want alone time I just go to a differnt room and stay by myself. so really nothing is changing for me but my last name

Jen2999 Posted: Dec 30, 2005 01:16 PM

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Call be clingy if you wish but I HATE being single. I love having someone else there all the time, especially since most our relationship was long distance.

If I had to pick ONE thing.. I guess itd have to be that feeling when you have a crush on someone and they have it back...

JazzyT Posted: Dec 30, 2005 05:06 PM

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The alone time, I love being with FH but i also like the fact that i can go home and be by myself sometimes.

Love_my_Freddybear Posted: Dec 30, 2005 06:33 PM

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Posted by JessicaM.

for me, it has to be living alone. fh and I see each other pretty much every day, BUT there are some days when he goes off and does his thing, and I can just go home and be alone. Watch food tv, eat pizza, and worry about NO ONE but myself. It's very selfish I know (but once and I while I don't think there is anything wrong with that) and I know I will miss it terribly, though most likely not until the initial 'newlywed' bliss is over.

You will still get along time!!!!! So you think you might miss it, but you won't. You will still have it.

Do you honestly think for the next 70years you won't be able to turn on the TV alone and munch on some pizza? Of course you will!!! That's what playing hookie from work is for!!! LOL You need 'you' time!!! And you will still get it.

EmberLynn Posted: Dec 30, 2005 06:36 PM

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To be honest I don't think much about single life. Its almost like a distant memory. I've been with joe so long and hes feels the same way as I do on this. We can't imagine life without being together.

Jackie&Justin Posted: Dec 30, 2005 06:44 PM

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We've been together since highschool, so I can't even remember being single. I guess it would be hanging out with friends....But I would much rather be with my FH

EJSD2006 Posted: Dec 30, 2005 08:19 PM

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having my own bank account and being able to spend money any way that i want. it will be weird having to think about money as 'ours' instead of 'mine'.

roxyspark Posted: Dec 30, 2005 09:54 PM

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I thought I would miss the independence.
The last minute road trips
Flirting with cute boys
Happy hours that started at 4 and lasted until ?

But actually since I tried everything I wanted to, the only thing I will really miss is having the whole bed to myself.

cmastro25 Posted: Dec 30, 2005 09:57 PM

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To be very honest, I am just so excited to finally be married, live in the same location and start our happy little family with our 2 cats. I don't think I'll miss anything except maybe my last name that I have to give up.

seta Posted: Dec 29, 2006 12:28 PM

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Bumping....So how are we feeling these days?

Preshy7 Posted: Dec 29, 2006 12:45 PM

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how funny...
i feel the exact same way..
i miss my savings account- the house drained me...but i feel the exact same way as i did when i posted originally

lipglossjunky73 Posted: Dec 29, 2006 12:48 PM

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Little did I know what else was coming after my wedding....

JessicaM. Posted: Dec 29, 2006 03:10 PM

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wow...I loved this thread.

I DO miss being able to go home and have no one there when I get there...that hardly ever happens now...

but at the same time, I love hearing dh's key in the door when he gets home, knowing that he is opening up the door to me...

I still flirt like a mutha...and it's all well and good. I'll never stop, but I'll never do something that would hurt my dh...so I don't have to...

I DO get to spend a bit more on myself now that we live together...a definite plus

other than that...it wasn't as dramatic a change as I thought....I have been able to maintain my sense of self...I am still Jessica...not just Leo's wife.

johnsae Posted: Dec 29, 2006 03:29 PM

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Honestly, I miss going out and getting sh*tfaced and attracting random dudes....it's always flattering to have a few guys following me around a bar. Now I just feel so responsible and not as attractive.