Thinking back on your wedding...

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Posted by janwinterbridejoy

my sister she was the worst a drunken fool plan and simple and she has no class!!!!!! she embarrassed my entire family. not onl;y would i not have her in my wedding party i wouldnt invite her to my wedding if i could do it again

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I can't believe she did that to you!

Nope...still close to all of them

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Posted by bedda26

I sort of regret putting one of my friends in. We were very close at the time. At least that's what I thought. I got married in July of 2003 and when she got married in feb of 2004...I was kind of disappointed that I was not in her bridal party. I understand she wanted to keep it small...that's fine but she still chose close friends. Which left me thinking what was I???

We are not that close anymore now. I mean there was no fight or anything. I just don't feel close anymore.

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Thats the exact same thing thats happening to me. I was kinda hurt that this friend didnt ask me, granted I would have had to drop out being my son is due 1 week before her wedding, but I would have been thrilled to have been asked

Oh well at least I'm in another friends wedding in 2006

ABSOLUTELY!!!!!
A friend that I lost touch with who was part of our 'group' in college, got back in touch with me 6 or 7 months before my wedding...I felt obligated to put her in because the others were.

BiG MISTAKE! She was fine on the wedding day, but after that, back to her old ways.

I dont regret my BP at all..I do regret not including some people. I was all worried about having uneven numbers..big deal..i couldve had 2 more BMs! Oh well, it was still a special day!
If I was getting married this year, i'd be lost..ive met so many more people and have such a great group of friends..LOL..my BP would be like 23/24 people.

No way! I had the best bridal party ever. i also could have added two more people but i was happy with who i had overall. We had a blast on my wedding day!

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Posted by StayandJohn

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Posted by bedda26

I sort of regret putting one of my friends in. We were very close at the time. At least that's what I thought. I got married in July of 2003 and when she got married in feb of 2004...I was kind of disappointed that I was not in her bridal party. I understand she wanted to keep it small...that's fine but she still chose close friends. Which left me thinking what was I???

We are not that close anymore now. I mean there was no fight or anything. I just don't feel close anymore.

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Thats the exact same thing thats happening to me. I was kinda hurt that this friend didnt ask me, granted I would have had to drop out being my son is due 1 week before her wedding, but I would have been thrilled to have been asked

Oh well at least I'm in another friends wedding in 2006

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It kind of stinks but i'm over it...anyways later on in the year another one of my close friends that was in my bridal party put me in hers and we're still close friends so that meant a little more to me.

no

I kind of regret one of my friends. But even looking back, there was no way I could have discluded her, but involved 2 of my other BMs. She was just extremely cheap and I don't feel like an of my BM, except for my sister and sister-in-law really put in any effort. Oh well.

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Posted by bedda26

Is there anyone you regret putting in your bridal party?

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just curious as to what made you ask - are you thinking about someone in particular?

My co-worker! I put her in it because she was one of the very first people to befriend me when I first started working there and we styed cool ever since but when it came time to spend money on the dress and the limo for the bachelorette party she supposedly did not have money to spend but then the following week she's talking about going to Atlantic City!!!!

no one at all! The ones we did regret we got rid of!!!!

Our Bridal party consisted of all family except my MOH who is like my sister. The rest were my BM's, my daughter, my SIL(his sister), my two neices (DH's side) DH's BM was my FIL & 2 GM were 2 BIL's (his sisters husbands)