This abstinence stuff is kiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiling me

cantwait2bewed Posted: Feb 22, 2006 11:11 AM

This abstinence stuff is kiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiling me

Anyone else out there feel me? Fh and I decided to stop Feb 1st. Thats 4 friggin months. Ahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh

Anyone have any tips on how they are just forgetting about it. Its so hard since we live together.

M&S Sept12006 Posted: Feb 22, 2006 11:13 AM

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Im sorry but this kind of stuff doesnt really make sense to me...I mean really.

Mrs. Powell Posted: Feb 22, 2006 11:13 AM

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DH and I abstained for a few months and it was hard for both of us. We basically take the time and focus on each other without the intervention of sex and it was quite different in a good way. If you would like to talk about this more you can FM me.

LaurenluvsTJ Posted: Feb 22, 2006 11:15 AM

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Posted by M&S Sept12006

Im sorry but this kind of stuff doesnt really make sense to me...I mean really.

Yeah, me too.

BEANS Posted: Feb 22, 2006 11:16 AM

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Posted by LaurenluvsTJ

Posted by M&S Sept12006

Im sorry but this kind of stuff doesnt really make sense to me...I mean really.

Yeah, me too.

me three-

SIBride06 Posted: Feb 22, 2006 11:16 AM

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Posted by BEANS

Posted by LaurenluvsTJ

Posted by M&S Sept12006

Im sorry but this kind of stuff doesnt really make sense to me...I mean really.

Yeah, me too.

me three-

me 4.. Whats the point anyway??

ChrissynRicky Posted: Feb 22, 2006 11:17 AM

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Posted by SIBride06

Posted by BEANS

Posted by LaurenluvsTJ

Posted by M&S Sept12006

Im sorry but this kind of stuff doesnt really make sense to me...I mean really.

Yeah, me too.

me three-

me 4.. Whats the point anyway??

me 5...all i can remc'd is a good vibrator to hold you over.

kissy27 Posted: Feb 22, 2006 11:17 AM

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I respect your decision to do it but i don't see the point of it....

69 Posted: Feb 22, 2006 11:18 AM

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good for you.. I couldn't /wouldn't... but again.. I guess stay busy!!

M&S Sept12006 Posted: Feb 22, 2006 11:21 AM

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Nicole,

I really did not mean any disrespect to you. I totally respect your decision, its just that this stuff really doesn't make any sense to me...ESPECIALLY since you live together! But hey, if that does something to you then like Chris said...get a good vibrator and VIOLA!

summer06bride Posted: Feb 22, 2006 11:22 AM

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We or at least I was thinking of doing the same thing but probably only for a month before the wedding. If you guys are able to keep it up that is great! Good luck!

cantwait2bewed Posted: Feb 22, 2006 11:23 AM

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Posted by ChrissynRicky

Posted by SIBride06

Posted by BEANS

Posted by LaurenluvsTJ

Posted by M&S Sept12006

Im sorry but this kind of stuff doesnt really make sense to me...I mean really.

Yeah, me too.

me three-

me 4.. Whats the point anyway??

me 5...all i can remc'd is a good vibrator to hold you over.

johnsae Posted: Feb 22, 2006 11:25 AM

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I don't get this AT ALL.

cantwait2bewed Posted: Feb 22, 2006 11:26 AM

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Posted by M&S Sept12006

Nicole,

I really did not mean any disrespect to you. I totally respect your decision, its just that this stuff really doesn't make any sense to me...ESPECIALLY since you live together! But hey, if that does something to you then like Chris said...get a good vibrator and VIOLA!

Its supposed to make things extra special. Waiting always makes it that much better. JMHO

Its hard as heck though

jada2destiny Posted: Feb 22, 2006 11:26 AM

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Me too

JXNOscar Posted: Feb 22, 2006 11:26 AM

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Posted by ChrissynRicky

Posted by SIBride06

Posted by BEANS

Posted by LaurenluvsTJ

Posted by M&S Sept12006

Im sorry but this kind of stuff doesnt really make sense to me...I mean really.

Yeah, me too.

me three-

me 4.. Whats the point anyway??

me 5...all i can remc'd is a good vibrator to hold you over.

I spit out the tea i was drinking
Giddy up?

M&S Sept12006 Posted: Feb 22, 2006 11:29 AM

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Posted by cantwait2bewed

Posted by M&S Sept12006

Nicole,

I really did not mean any disrespect to you. I totally respect your decision, its just that this stuff really doesn't make any sense to me...ESPECIALLY since you live together! But hey, if that does something to you then like Chris said...get a good vibrator and VIOLA!

Its supposed to make things extra special. Waiting always makes it that much better. JMHO

Its hard as heck though

I would get some foxy lingerie and get freaky the night of!

johnsae Posted: Feb 22, 2006 11:29 AM

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Posted by cantwait2bewed

Posted by M&S Sept12006

Nicole,

I really did not mean any disrespect to you. I totally respect your decision, its just that this stuff really doesn't make any sense to me...ESPECIALLY since you live together! But hey, if that does something to you then like Chris said...get a good vibrator and VIOLA!

Its supposed to make things extra special. Waiting always makes it that much better. JMHO

Its hard as heck though

how does your FH feel about this? I think mine would kill me.

SIBride06 Posted: Feb 22, 2006 11:29 AM

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I just feel that it will be special no matter what.. Anytime your intimate with your FH/DH it is special. Why wait until you are 'official' to please each other? I totally respect your decision, but I couldn't do it.. Lord knows my FH would never either.

cantwait2bewed Posted: Feb 22, 2006 11:31 AM

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he actually wanted to do this as well. He is dealing with it fine. He likes the mental connection he has with me. But i can tell its a bit straining on him as well.