Did any of you girls or will any of you girls have other thoughts on your mind the day of your wedding like maybe a sick family member or a pending lawsuit or paying off credit cards? I'm a worry wart. How can you put thoughts like that out of your mind and truly enjoy your day?
dimples092907
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DEFINITELY NOT. I didn't think of anything except marrying my sweetheart that day. Nothing else went through my mind. It's not something you can 'plan' for, it should just happen naturally...IMO.
roan126
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Believe me...you wont have time to think about other things that day. The adrenaline just takes over and you are soooo busy with so many things and people that nothing else will really cross your mind.
PegaLega
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I agree with the PP, you will not have time to think about anything else. I thought the same thing but you only thing about the day being here finally.
Brila09
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I'm sure there will be other things going on that will be distracting you from worrying about anything other than your day!
Besides, nothing a little champagne or alcohol can't fix!
You'll be fine!
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Posted by KimberlyScott
Did any of you girls or will any of you girls have other thoughts on your mind the day of your wedding like maybe a sick family member or a pending lawsuit or paying off credit cards? I'm a worry wart. How can you put thoughts like that out of your mind and truly enjoy your day?
I am just scared as hell of all those people looking at me!
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Kricket212
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I am alittle scared too.
Saram
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xanax and a glass of champagne will cure any anxiety u have
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Posted by Saram
xanax and a glass of champagne will cure any anxiety u have
actually - mix both and you'll be passed out on the floor. DO NOT mix xanax and alcohol!
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I mixed both the other day and I was rocked! I don't think I have been more blitzed since college. I will space it apart. I am worried about all my vendors being coordinated and my family etc. (AND I have a DOC) I have to let go of the control issues and just let the day unfold
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I'm a control freak too. But think about it this way. You've done everything you could before the wedding day. If something goes wrong on the day of, you've done all you can do, and you cant fix it then. Just go with the flow and everything will be amazing.
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i felt like this, but two days before the wedding a wave of calm came over me, and i was just happy and excited, i wasn't going to let anything ruin the day. i'm sure you'll experience something like that too i also am a worrywart, but you'd be surprised at how you can just focus on the wedding that day
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Posted by KimberlyScott
Did any of you girls or will any of you girls have other thoughts on your mind the day of your wedding like maybe a sick family member or a pending lawsuit or paying off credit cards? I'm a worry wart. How can you put thoughts like that out of your mind and truly enjoy your day?
I am just scared as hell of all those people looking at me!
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ME TOO! All the build up leading up to one day and then all the eyes on me.....Scary! I think the ceremony is the scarypart. After that it's just dancing and eating and shmoozing!!
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I totally feel your pain! As happy as I am to plan a wedding im so worried about money- our student loans, my car loan, paying for a wedding and buying a LI home! I also just resigned from a terrible stressful job and now im in between jobs without pay...ugh!
I hope the day of all I can think of is my love!
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Inside I was a mess...but I gotta tell you..... The instant I saw DH at the alter every single thought in my mind was all about him and how much I loved him and how lucky I was to be marrying him. Everything after that was gravy!
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Posted by MIssBridalBliss
I mixed both the other day and I was rocked! I don't think I have been more blitzed since college. I will space it apart. I am worried about all my vendors being coordinated and my family etc. (AND I have a DOC) I have to let go of the control issues and just let the day unfold
One thing I'd do different.....let go mentally! I let my DOC deal with the things physically...but of course in my head I was all over the place. I was watching her do it all and I knew it was being taken care of, but I was a lunatic on the inside!!! But again...once I saw DH...it was a million times better!!!!!!!!
If anyone has a DOC...they know there job and they do it great! If it wasn't for Ryan at Above and Beyond I would have forgotten deotorant!!!!!! She honestly did make life easier!!! If you don't have a DOC...get one!!!
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Posted by KimberlyScott
Did any of you girls or will any of you girls have other thoughts on your mind the day of your wedding like maybe a sick family member or a pending lawsuit or paying off credit cards? I'm a worry wart. How can you put thoughts like that out of your mind and truly enjoy your day?
I am just scared as hell of all those people looking at me!
: faints:
ME TOO! All the build up leading up to one day and then all the eyes on me.....Scary! I think the ceremony is the scarypart. After that it's just dancing and eating and shmoozing!!
I was scared as hell and the ceremony was the worst for me. Especially since I thought we would be facing the Rev. and she had us face each other which means that everyone in the audience could see me. It is written all over my photos how nervous I was at the altar. I should have had a drink before the ceremony to loosen up. After the ceremony that is exactly what I did and I was able to get through our introduction into the Reception and our first dance
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My dad gave me a shot before the ceremony and DH gave me a shot before our first dance.... I had no more worries!
