I'm fortunate enough to be marrying a tried and true geek---therefore, he's all psyched up on spending his bachelor party in Florida at Space camp
while this makes me relieved, i'm just wondering how you ladies feel about your man and the bachelor party that might be thrown for him.
amstellitelady
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hello there hall twin.
i don't care what my FI does. He's already kind of decided on either A.C. or Myrtle Beach (he loves to golf). he will be 37 years old when we marry, he's not into the whole stripper thing.
my party on the other hand
i'll be 30 when we marry and my BP wants to take me to vegas. i say hells yay to that . my FI wouldn't care if we did that.
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My BP and I are going to Disney World and Universal. There will be plenty of drinking - but no strippers.
FH and his boys are going to Atlantic City. I completely trust him and I hope he has a kick@$$ time.
ChrissynRicky
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I trust him 100%...if he were to think of something that I wouldn't approve of, he wouldn't do it...not worth it.
piyopika
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I trust my FI 100%... besides, my best friend is the best man and my brother is one of the groomsmen... they will make sure he doesn't do anything stupid!
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I trust my FI 100% and that's good enough peace of mind for me.
Plus he knows if he did anything, he's dead meat. Only kidding. He and I both are not the 'forgive and forget' types, we know where the line lies and respect and trust each other so it's not an issue.
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Mine is going to Vegas- it will be ok- If I didn't trust him- I wouldn't be marrying him
I don't even know why he wants to go there- he hates strippers and gambling
cindyandkevin
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I completely trust my FI. He's gonna be 41 by then so he's really past the whole strippers thing. Plus he has a daughter, I know he couldn't even look at another woman like that without thinking she's somebody's lil girl. He's already told me he's fine with the guys just taking him out for a few drinks. And so am I!!!
For my own party, I'm not into all that stuff either. The girls taking me out to dinner would be fine!!
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I think they will all be fine...my fi wants to go paintballing...hey it's fine w/ me but then again his friends mentioned something this past weekend about 3 bachleor parties...like that's going to happen!
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I trust FH 100% - although FH's brother who will likely be planning the bachelor party is a bit of a dirty man-whore ( ) so I'm a little nervous about what kind of stripper he is gonna provide
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my fh is going to foxwoods to gamble and drink at night and then they are all playing golf in themorning and coming home.. i am hoprefully gonna do some kind of 2 day thing.. who knows
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My FH wants to play video games and drink beer at Jullians. I have absolutely no problem with that.. as for me I would love a spa day. Neither one of us want the whole stripper thing.
Steph62406
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I trust him 100% plus my brothers will be there so nothing is going to happen that would make me mad!
Mariec
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ur soo luckky!!! I wish he would go to space camp. we were actually thinking about combining ours we both love to gamble soo maybe Vegas... we shall see!
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Im very liberal about the whole bachelor party thing. He pretty much can do whatever he wants bc I know he would never dishonor or disrespect me. I dont care if there are naked chicks and all that. I dont care about lap dances etc. Just no touching 'down there' on either end. That is def. where i draw the line. But i know he wouldnt even do that. I want him to have FUN!!!
As for me- IMO bachelorette parties are dumb. I have ZERO interest in having one.
Goldi1021
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FH is a grown up and can do whatever he wants. He is the last and youngest of his friends to get married. We were at his best man's b-day party this weekend and all of his friends cam up to us saying 'Congratulations, when is the Bachelor Party?' I told them to do what they want because I sure as hell will. Though at my age, the last thing I want to do is go to Lucky Chengs AGAIN, with a dorky veil on MY head this time bar hopping around the city. I think I'd like something a little more upscale. My friends know my taste.
JanuaryBride06
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all I have to say is that I WILL NOT wear any kind of penis jewerly
Goldi1021
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Posted by JanuaryBride06
all I have to say is that I WILL NOT wear any kind of penis jewerly
Here Here!!!
BKtoLI
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Posted by JanuaryBride06
all I have to say is that I WILL NOT wear any kind of penis jewerly
Knowing my FH, his best friends, my brothers and his brother (who is gay!) they will more than likely end up in AC or Mohegan Sun to gamble and drink. Knowing my older brother, they might end up in a strip club, but that's fine by me.
As for my bachelorette party, I guess I'm torn between acting like a total jack*ss and keeping it toned down. More than likely I will have the stupid veil on my head, but I will prefer going to a lounge and then dancing afterward!! (Either that or I'm dancing on top of the bar at Red Rock West, my old hangout!)
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I am not sure what my BP has in store for me, but I am sure my MOH will make it great
In regards to my FH, I know he will be hitting either the city for dinner & then to a particular strip club...I trust my FH 100% and know the place he is going to. Fortunately in my case, FH WILL NOT do anything stupid in these clubs because he could risk losing them as a customer. They did the exact same thing for FBIL & it was all harmless!
As I have said before, strippers are as harmless as a gorgeous model!
