Tipping

you know I am getting to the point that I don't care..and what they get is what they get...

maitre d probably a little more than $2 pp...between $300-400

bridal assistant...1/2 of the maitre d $150-200

photographer (I already know will not accept for himself, but will accept for the 2nd photographer)...$75-100

video...maybe $20-30 for the 2nd camera man and Michele31 said to get the owners a nice gift, but I don't know what to get

dj...(this is the one I don't like) on the contract 15-20% is suggested!!! there is no way that I am giving them a $300 tip!!! I was thinking of giving $100 for all 3 of them...plus Im giving them a dinner.

flower deliverer...$20...one location

string trio...$20 each...asked owner what I should give and that is what she suggested for 2 hours

Did I cover everyone..I should write this down myself, so I know.. :)