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To invite or not??

Original post by soontobemrsag

Ok...so my father was married 3 times - my step-sister is the daughter of my fathers 3rd wife & is 1 of my MOH's.... (i knwo its sounds like a jerry srpinger episode) anyway.... my dads 2nd wife who i call my mom- is my other maid of honor. My step sister feels her mother should be invited to the shower & the wedding. I dont want my mom (technically step mom but in my eyes my real mom) to get upset she says she wont but i think i would bother me. Now my step sister was very adimant about her mom sitting with my fathers parents which will be where my mom is sitting so i told her thats not happening & she threw a mini tantrum...... i really dont have a relationship with my 3rd step mom. i dont think she needs to be at any of it.... what do you ladies think? thanks!

soontobemrsag Posted:

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seawedding:

if my dad was alive i would give almost anything to have him at my wedding - why would you not have him at your wedding?? if its too personal i understand!
JillandJoe Posted:

Re: To invite or not??

u do what makes you happy, its your day. everyone else will survive and deal with it like adults

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