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To spend or not to spend...check this out

SOTHISISLOVE53109 Posted:

To spend or not to spend...check this out

I found this while searching the web while I was suppose to be working I wanted 3 out of the 5 lol
The things that you will spend money on and 5 reasons not too!

The Champagne Toast - Almost every reception venue offers to pass a champagne toast to all of your guests for a $200-$400 fee. Don't do it - it's a waste. Many of your guests will simply take a sip and set the glass down - or not take a sip at all. It's best to allow your guests to simply toast with the drink of their choice when the toasts are made.

The Champagne/Chocolate Fountain - Fountains - especially chocolate fountains - have been the rage for the last few years. If you have your heart set on one - fine. But if not - this is another extra you can do without. Your guests aren't going to search your reception site for the chocolate fountain. Really, they won't.

The Groom's Cake - The groom's cake is a southern tradition that has recently been spotted at wedding receptions throughout the country - (we all remember the armadillo cake from Steel Magnolias). No one ever runs out of wedding cake at a reception, so why have two cakes?

The Tossing Bouquet - Having your florist create an additional bridal bouquet for the bouquet toss has become the norm, but this can tack on an additional $50-$100 to your floral bill. Instead - have a friend or family member pick up some flowers from your local grocery store - a mere $5-$10.

The Extra Hour - Almost every reception site has an upfront overtime fee, and they'll casually mention that your reception can go an extra hour for, say, $200. Guests are usually ready to call it a night after 4 hours - let them.

little34 Posted:

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I have to agree with it all... thanks for sharing!!!

FalNBill Posted:

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thanks for sharing!

HotAir Posted:

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I'm having a chocolate fountain but I got it for free when I booked my appointment with the East Wind at the LI Wedding showcase.

FuTuRe MrS MaZz Posted:

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The only thing I am having on there is the champagne toast and its included in the RH sooo... isnt that like standard anyways???

HotAir Posted:

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oh yeah, I think it's pretty standard to have a champagne toast included at LI weddings. I thought maybe it was something different when I first read it because some places pass champagne out when guests first arrive.

Summertimegal424 Posted:

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thanks for all the great info!

lookitscassie Posted:

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haha i want none of that

yay me
Ms SunnShinne Posted:

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I just need to cancel the champagne toast because most of my ppl do not drink...and the other set are going to to go after the toasting drink of their own...I'm so going to get that takin off no matter how standard it is a waste.


THANKS FOR THIS POST!!
Ann 52409 Posted:

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i think the champagne toast is included, I'm doing the groom cake as a gift/surprise to FH because he loves the eagles and he wants something in the wedding about Eagles and I was thinking about the extra hour at the hotel to keep the bar open in case we want to keep going.... i guess I'm spending a lot of extras

FuTuRe MrS MaZz Posted:

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Posted by Soon2bmrsP

i think the champagne toast is included, I'm doing the groom cake as a gift/surprise to FH because he loves the eagles and he wants something in the wedding about Eagles and I was thinking about the extra hour at the hotel to keep the bar open in case we want to keep going.... i guess I'm spending a lot of extras



what hotel are you using?!? there is like nothing decently priced around roslyn!!!!!!!!
NYMetsBride Posted:

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I initally wanted the extra hour but I was like forget it because my reception is on a sunday night and people have to go to work the next day

olivia30 Posted:

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I want the grooms cake so I decided to have small one made for the rehearsal dinner I am having the champagne toast.

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