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Took engagement photos with my FH and...

FunBride Posted:

Took engagement photos with my FH and...

I don't know; I felt like he wasn't into it. We had a wierd morning - some tension, not so sure why. But I felt like the photog. kept saying 'smile more!' 'arms closer together!' it was wierd. not what i envisioned charlotte saying to henry when they took their photos for NY times in the park.....

does anyone else feel they are going through the motions? just to go through them>
ckgmwedding Posted:

Re: Took engagement photos with my FH and...

My FH refused to even take them so I can understand you FH reluctance. My FH hates himself in pictures and even though a photographer friend was doing them for FREE he said no way. Of course this led me to inviting this friend to the wedding and we aren't even close but that's another story!!!

Your FH probably just did it to make you happy but really didn't want to and didn't speak up. My FH put his foot down on the picture sign-in board, dance lessons, basically the only things I really needed him to do. He is just not into this wedding at all- he says he feels married already and that I am crazy for going so nuts on something that just amounts to a big party.
I know he loves me and is excited about spending the rest of his life with me but he doesn't see the day or even our honeymoon('its just another trip, we have been on a million together!' ) as the big deal. He just wants to settle down and have babies. It is so frustrating I can't even tell you.

Sorry so long and if I took over your thread!

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