FH and I went over our budget's again last night...we will be okay if everything goes as planned. But it's soooooooooo overwhelming...I hate paying for all of this!!! It's so stressful and it just stinks!
Sooooooooo I have to have absolutely NO LIFE for the next 7 months in order to be able to pay for this wedding, so we dont get in over our heads
i havent had a life for year now!!! stinks saving
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same boat and you think being engaged for 2 years we would have all the money saved up by now nope thanks to the economy and FH being in the constructioin end of life he hasnt had a real good job in over a year and there is only so much we can do. Its 4 months away and Im completly freaking out like i cant sleep Im grumpy. I know it will workout in in the end but I am slowly losing my mind. Im glad alot of stuff is paid off already. Plus we got some bad news regarding FMIL lawsuit and how it wont be settled until like 3months to a year and she isnt getting much.
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Money is the biggest stress. FH and I bought and renovated a house this year, I'm finishing up my Masters this semester (and paying for it), not to mention this wedding we have in 317 days! To top it off my car has been acting up lately and may not make it through the winter All of our savings have been put in to problems that come up with the house. I need to hit lotto NOW!
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i looked at this thread hopin someone was giving $$$$$$ away...
you got my hopes up
LOL...sorry love!
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Posted by kimmaymb20
same boat and you think being engaged for 2 years we would have all the money saved up by now nope thanks to the economy and FH being in the constructioin end of life he hasnt had a real good job in over a year and there is only so much we can do. Its 4 months away and Im completly freaking out like i cant sleep Im grumpy. I know it will workout in in the end but I am slowly losing my mind. Im glad alot of stuff is paid off already. Plus we got some bad news regarding FMIL lawsuit and how it wont be settled until like 3months to a year and she isnt getting much. [/QUO
Oh no! Sorry about the lawsuit...that stinks!
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us too!! im having anxiety!!
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Posted by danielle1211
Money is the biggest stress. FH and I bought and renovated a house this year, I'm finishing up my Masters this semester (and paying for it), not to mention this wedding we have in 317 days! To top it off my car has been acting up lately and may not make it through the winter All of our savings have been put in to problems that come up with the house. I need to hit lotto NOW!
Wow you have a lot on your plate...mine owns a house with 2 other guys that they are trying to sell so as of right now we still do not know where we will be living...and oh my goodness how are you doing all of this plus school! You go girl!
IrishAli
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No social life here, either!
I go out to dinner with friends maybe 4 times a month, and that is IT! No nights out, no nothing. Just studying and money saving
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Posted by danielle1211
Money is the biggest stress. FH and I bought and renovated a house this year, I'm finishing up my Masters this semester (and paying for it), not to mention this wedding we have in 317 days! To top it off my car has been acting up lately and may not make it through the winter All of our savings have been put in to problems that come up with the house. I need to hit lotto NOW!
Wow you have a lot on your plate...mine owns a house with 2 other guys that they are trying to sell so as of right now we still do not know where we will be living...and oh my goodness how are you doing all of this plus school! You go girl!
Thanks! it's definitely a lot. I really don't know what stress-free feels like, but I wouldn't give up anything we have or are doing. I'm happy we are putting our money towards a home that we will be raising our future family in. I wish we had more money so we could have a little more breathing room, but it is what it is right now and I know this is something we have together.
