I want to do the Bo-K/garter toss but there will be less than ten single people at our wedding. Think it's silly to have all men and women come up? I have some married relatives who said they would love to get up. (We would play either Suspicious Minds or You Cheated, You Lied or the like as a joke if a married person caught it) But if we choose not to toss the Bo-K/garter and do the anniversary dance instead, does my FH still take the garter off me before it is given away? (I'm guessing the toss bouquet goes to the female anniversary winner and the garter to the male annivesary winner.)
sunshine&jules
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I'm doing both. Its so fun. People use to wait for it to come. Just for laughs.
june262004
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We did toss because it is tradtion and we like it. Do what you want. My 14 year old cousin caught the bo-k and her brother who is Autistic caught the garter it was cute.
luvsbob4603
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at my wedding i did not throw my flowers and my husband did not throw the garter what we did was we had all of the married people on the dance floor and who ever was married the longest would get the flowers. which was my aunt and uncle at the time they were married 48 years this year will be 50 years OMG!!! i am going to have to get something for them they are also my godparents!
