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TOTAL COST OF WEDDING - ESTIMATE!
RedtoWed
Posted: Apr 12, 2009 11:50 AM+

Posted: Apr 12, 2009 11:50 AM
TOTAL COST OF WEDDING - ESTIMATE!
How much do you girls think your entire wedding is going to cost? When I add it all up, I feel like it's a crazy amount.. and want to make sure I'm in the same ball park as most.I will definitely be over 50 K
Future Mrs H
Posted: Apr 12, 2009 12:05 PM+

Posted: Apr 12, 2009 12:05 PM
Re: TOTAL COST OF WEDDING - ESTIMATE!
My Budget was 20K. So far it looks like we will be going under budget. Getting some great deals, and doing alot of research and of course this site is a great help.
NYMETBRIDE
Posted: Apr 12, 2009 12:13 PM+

Posted: Apr 12, 2009 12:13 PM
Re: TOTAL COST OF WEDDING - ESTIMATE!
It really depends on the cost of your reception site... my catering hall alone costs 20...soo I will be close to your estimate once I add in all of our vendors...Figure on double the cost of your rh!
Marianne13
Posted: Apr 12, 2009 12:13 PM+

Posted: Apr 12, 2009 12:13 PM
Re: TOTAL COST OF WEDDING - ESTIMATE!
I'm guessing 25k.FYI, I don't include the cost of the honeymoon in the wedding. I know some girls do but I don't b/c even if were doing a civil thing at city h all, we'd still be taking a honeymoon.
JenBill61210
Posted: Apr 12, 2009 12:26 PM+

Posted: Apr 12, 2009 12:26 PM
Re: TOTAL COST OF WEDDING - ESTIMATE!
prob like 50 w/ the HM
Espo22
Posted: Apr 12, 2009 12:27 PM+

Posted: Apr 12, 2009 12:27 PM
Re: TOTAL COST OF WEDDING - ESTIMATE!
it won't be the same as most, there is no one amount or range mosst ppl pay. Some pay $15-20k, others $30-40k, 50k-60k and then even 75k-100k and higher.Remember that catering hall will be biggest expense and some have 80 guests while others will have 300 guests and that will be a HUGE difference. Then everyone does different things, some get high cp's others dont. Some get married at an RH and wont rent limo's. Some spend a lot on a dress while others don't. Some will be around same price range as you while others will be a lot less and others more.
I wouldn't pay so much attention to what others are paying, but more to what is your budget and what you can spend.
I had close to 300 guests so our RH bill alone was at the $50k range, but somebody can do the exame same type of wedding i did and have half the guests but meanwhile their budget would be half of what mine was based on that alone. Even if everything else was identical
RedtoWed
Posted: Apr 12, 2009 12:29 PM+

Posted: Apr 12, 2009 12:29 PM
Re: TOTAL COST OF WEDDING - ESTIMATE!
Posted by Espo22
it won't be the same as most, there is no one amount or range mosst ppl pay. Some pay $15-20k, others $30-40k, 50k-60k and then even 75k-100k and higher.
Remember that catering hall will be biggest expense and some have 80 guests while others will have 300 guests and that will be a HUGE difference. Then everyone does different things, some get high cp's others dont. Some get married at an RH and wont rent limo's. Some spend a lot on a dress while others don't. Some will be around same price range as you while others will be a lot less and others more.
I wouldn't pay so much attention to what others are paying, but more to what is your budget and what you can spend.
I had close to 300 guests so our RH bill alone was at the $50k range, but somebody can do the exame same type of wedding i did and have half the guests but meanwhile their budget would be half of what mine was based on that alone. Even if everything else was identical
yeah this makes a lot of sense.. thanks!! WOW 300 guests that is so awesome!!
GT143EA
Posted: Apr 12, 2009 12:42 PM+

Posted: Apr 12, 2009 12:42 PM
Re: TOTAL COST OF WEDDING - ESTIMATE!
when everything is said and done between 20 and 25K
Espo22
Posted: Apr 12, 2009 12:46 PM+

Posted: Apr 12, 2009 12:46 PM
Re: TOTAL COST OF WEDDING - ESTIMATE!
Posted by RedtoWed
Posted by Espo22
it won't be the same as most, there is no one amount or range mosst ppl pay. Some pay $15-20k, others $30-40k, 50k-60k and then even 75k-100k and higher.
Remember that catering hall will be biggest expense and some have 80 guests while others will have 300 guests and that will be a HUGE difference. Then everyone does different things, some get high cp's others dont. Some get married at an RH and wont rent limo's. Some spend a lot on a dress while others don't. Some will be around same price range as you while others will be a lot less and others more.
I wouldn't pay so much attention to what others are paying, but more to what is your budget and what you can spend.
I had close to 300 guests so our RH bill alone was at the $50k range, but somebody can do the exame same type of wedding i did and have half the guests but meanwhile their budget would be half of what mine was based on that alone. Even if everything else was identical
yeah this makes a lot of sense.. thanks!! WOW 300 guests that is so awesome!!
i wish we had less lol, wouldnt have minded to pay half of my rh bill lol but dh has a huge family so no choice. Just his family were 100 guests or more alone
JAAMS
Posted: Apr 12, 2009 12:53 PM+

Posted: Apr 12, 2009 12:53 PM
Re: TOTAL COST OF WEDDING - ESTIMATE!
This really depends on so many different factors: how big the wedding is, when you're having it, if you want lots of additional foods, how many people you are transporting, how much your gown is, etc. etc. etc.However, I think a reasonable AVERAGE (so it could be way more or way less) for a Long Island wedding is prob b/t $25,000-$40,000
MikesBride2B
Posted: Apr 12, 2009 01:12 PM+

Posted: Apr 12, 2009 01:12 PM
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I really hope no more than $35k....
Christine N Ralph
Posted: Apr 12, 2009 01:33 PM+

Posted: Apr 12, 2009 01:33 PM
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for about 175 guests we are at 45k so far...
eternitybride
Posted: Apr 12, 2009 01:38 PM+

Posted: Apr 12, 2009 01:38 PM
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our budget is 20k without honeymoon, we are coming in around 18k
MarjorieFrank
Posted: Apr 12, 2009 01:41 PM+

Posted: Apr 12, 2009 01:41 PM
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My RH alone will be around 30K. With vendors, etc. we hope to only spend about 10-15K more.
jayepyt
Posted: Apr 12, 2009 03:40 PM+

Posted: Apr 12, 2009 03:40 PM
Re: TOTAL COST OF WEDDING - ESTIMATE!
20k-30k
allegracristina
Posted: Apr 12, 2009 04:15 PM+

Posted: Apr 12, 2009 04:15 PM
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Over 50K at this point...Depends on the total RSVPs
Utopia923
Posted: Apr 12, 2009 04:16 PM+

Posted: Apr 12, 2009 04:16 PM
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I was hoping to not top $35k, but it looks like it'll be a little closer to $40k... that's NOT including the HM. Add another $7500 for that...... Then add in the approximate $35k we have to bring to our closing on May 1st...I wish money grew on trees... Don't ask where all this money is coming from....
garrett678
Posted: Apr 12, 2009 04:17 PM+

Posted: Apr 12, 2009 04:17 PM
Re: TOTAL COST OF WEDDING - ESTIMATE!
gonna be around 35,000
MrsDR2010
Posted: Apr 12, 2009 05:17 PM+

Posted: Apr 12, 2009 05:17 PM
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I can stay at 13,500 if I don't add my fancy limo which is 1800 for 3 hrs and the other for my BP and the trumpeteers and birds but I feel like I deserve to have what I want but we will see 9that can bring the budget to 20-25k easily.....but if I keep it basic limos, photo/video,hall, dj,flowers( high cp's)...13,500Welcome New Vendors
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