i really cannot fall alseep at night anymore.............all i do is play things over and over in my head at night about what i have to do or how much it cost i am so tired my fh has been such a tight wad or whatever it is that ppl say about when someone doesnt wan tot spend the money!!!!
now dont get me wrong, i dont want to spend a fortune either, but its getting annoying bc im the one whos paying for it as of now and hes telling me what not to spend my money on as well!!!!
we are in the process of selling/buying a house (which hes paying for the house - down payment, etc.) so its tight......REALLY TIGHT, but we'll make it work i just am tired of not sleeping and worrying all the time about how im gonna pay for this all.
i have become a mega b*tch!! cranky and depressed. planning a wedding is no longer fun for me...............
i cant wait to be over with the planning
MnM52607
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Aw, don't worry, it will get better. Everyone goes through phases of planning. Just try and compromise with FH.
OrangeGrl
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ok, Amanda, ARE YOU READING MY MIND? OMG!!! This is exactly how I am feeling!! AND is MJ an A$$HOLE about like ANYTHING wedding related? Mike is SO TIGHT it's like it's HIS MONEY, when IT IS MINE!! GRRRRR MEN
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Posted by MissMaster13
ok, Amanda, ARE YOU READING MY MIND? OMG!!! This is exactly how I am feeling!! AND is MJ an A$$HOLE about like ANYTHING wedding related? Mike is SO TIGHT it's like it's HIS MONEY, when IT IS MINE!! GRRRRR MEN
no i cant say he's an a** hole about all wedding stuff.........hes just so preoccupied with all the house stuff that he cant be bothered/worry about planning the wedding when im doing it. and he doesnt want me to get stuck with big bills after the wedding which is understandable, but im ready to just book whatever and be done with it!!!
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no i cant say he's an a** hole about all wedding stuff.........hes just so preoccupied with all the house stuff that he cant be bothered/worry about planning the wedding when im doing it. and he doesnt want me to get stuck with big bills after the wedding which is understandable, but im ready to just book whatever and be done with it!!!
Yup, I hear that!!! The more and more I think about it I think going thru TWC is the best, cheapest, and most stressless way
AMANDA2378
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I THINK WE WILL ALSO.
they have been there 40 years so they gotta be doing something right!!!!!
aaaaaaaaaaaaaahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh
Summer842
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Well if you need to get some sleep you can always take Tylenol PM. I seem to be taking it more and more.
kewlpuff
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same problem here except getting worked up about finals and the bar exam may i recommend Bach's Rescue Remedy from drugstore.com? it is quite good!
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Im sorry to hear that. I know how you feel. I wouldnt say my FH is cheap or anything but he isnt putting much into the wedding either, but I do understand why, he is saving money to put into a house/appt that we want to buy/rent...so I cant get mad at him. But at night, I go to sleep around 2am...because I cant stop thinking about the future..including (wedding expenses, getting a job after I graduate, money for the future)...its driving me nuts so sweetie, you are not alone...just try to relax
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Have you tried anything to help you sleep? I havent been able to sleep lately either and its driving me thru the roof! But Ive been taking an ambien here and there...not constantly-FH likes sominex
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I totally understand how you feel. MY fh says 'stop stressing everything will get paid off' 'you cant base everything on the money' You stress to much. Meanwhile he doesnt understand how i want the wedding of my dreams but i also have other dreams like buying a house with him and starting a famiy before the age 35. hehe.. gotta love it. he only sees things as now not the future. Good luck sleeping.. more the reason i work nites.
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I am sorry you are not sleeping. I would sit down and have a long talk with your FH about how you feel. Finances on LI are a big concern for everyone-I really understand where you are coming from. I am not holding back on things I want for the wedding, but at the same time, I try to keep everything within reason, and save when we can.
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Amanda I have to tell you I am the same way. I have not gotten a full nights rest in a while. I a little past you with the planning, so I am over the Bitchyness It will pass. You just have so many decisions and low on funds. Hang in there and try to be nice. It will get better after you book more vendors.
