Posted by AngnShaun
keep the sister youre close with as your MOH... this is your day... you cant please everyone
I agree as well. And also, if anything comes up just say you didn't want your faw away sister to stress, she has a life elsewhere and you didn't want to ripple her waters. Make it about your concern for her. It is your day, I know many families that deal with issues like this, you are not alone and not wrong in your reasoning!
Posted by jennybee
Posted by cavvento
What did your other sisters do when they got married? Did they each just have one MOH? If they each did one, then they clearly 'picked' one sister over the other, and you can do the same. If they both had both you AND the remaining sister, then I would do two MOH.
I was a BM in the first (I was like 16 years old) and a MOH in the second while my other sis was the Matron OH (I was 17). I'm now 38 and barely even remember being in their weddings. I also don't see either of them wanting to go get a BM dress.
I guess you have a good point, though. Some battles may not be worth fighting
Posted by gina409
i may be the odd ball here but i would have two moh and have them both in
i know i dont know the history between u guys but unless u r 100 percent sure she would not want to be a member of ur bridal party then i would include her
in 10 yeasr things could be diffrent and u might regret not having her with you up there
now in sayuing this if she would not want to be a part then by al lmeans dont include her but i would talk to her first
jmo
