Ugh, Fh is sooooooo messy!!!!!!!

i love him to pieces, but seriously, not one single piece of clothing makes it to the hamper, he'll do laundry, but not put it away, so then a couple of days later, he has NO idea what is clean and what is dirty, there is no room to walk, and his $h!t is everywhere...don't get me wrong, i'm not perfect, but it is like he is getting worse the closer we get to the wedding! i just worked 8 hours, i'm exhausted, i come home, he's out and the bed isn't even made from this morning!!!!!!!!!! i had to vent b/c it is killing me and we move in a month and i can't, i repeat, CAN'T live like that!!!

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he'll do laundry, but not put it away, so then a couple of days later, he has NO idea what is clean and what is dirty,

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My FH does the same thing!!

hubby is the SAME way

same here but you gotta love em anyway!

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Posted by 04Bride

same here but you gotta love em anyway!

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i do, i do...but our new apartment will be the size of a box and to me, to make it bearable, we both need to be organized and neat. i just don't get it. i know he tries and he works hard all week, but it takes 15 minutes! i know he has 15 minutes!

you have to train him...baby steps! LOL

My DH used to leave his work clothes all over the place and i would get mad and pick them up. Finally, i went on 'strike' and left them there for a week. They did not get washed for the next week's work and he learned his lesson!

Mine is the same way. I have trained myself to just live with it, pick it up and get rewarded in other ways.

i think thats the way guys are - dh and i have clashed over this at times but he makes realt strides and i have learned to let things go too....it can be so frustrating though - especially if are a neat freak and you love cleaning like i do!

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Posted by MrsTC

you have to train him...baby steps! LOL

My DH used to leave his work clothes all over the place and i would get mad and pick them up. Finally, i went on 'strike' and left them there for a week. They did not get washed for the next week's work and he learned his lesson!

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please, share more!!!!!!! i love my fh, but it is out of control... i tell him we have so much crap that we have to sort out before we move and he says, babe, i've got nothing...i own nothing...i look at him, my chin falling to the floor, crashing through the foundation, finding it's way to China like where the he!! have you been living the past two years?????????

okay, so today the dog decides to take a crap on his clothing on the floor...hmmm, do i leave it for him??? nooooooooo, i'm a bit nicer than that. i clean it up, but i do leave a voice mail telling him that it happened. i come home and he remarks that he works hard all day (which is true, but i work hard all night) and that it wouldn't hurt to pick up his laundry if it bothers me so much! yup, i have permission to pick up his dirty clothing! yeah and i'm thinking if i start doing that NOW, i'll be doing that forever!!!!!!!!! then, i developed three rolls of film. i'm a bit possessive over film, i don't seperate right away, i will make copies of my doubles to give away...so he tells me that he went through the rolls and picked out his favorite doubles and put them in his picture box...i'm like, noooo, don't do that...i'll give you the pictures, don't just take them. he's like what's the big deal? i'm pissed b/c he takes pictures, his mom has a pile set aside and i don't have the pictures anymore! yes, that pisses me off! am i crazy or neurotic? i probably am, but i wouldn't just take his stuff.