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ok so here is what i am really afraid of and is really stressing me out right now! i know im not even close to sending out my invites for the wedding but i am going crazy about this cause i finaly finished putting my guest list together and i really thought i would have more than i really do have! :( i am stressing over this big time because we garanteed our rh 175 people, so we have to make sure we have 175 at least there! so far on my list i only have i think roughly around 220 and that is not enough! we dont want to start putting people down just for the heck of inviting people to have a nice amount, we really dont want to do but now i dont know what to do and i am really stressing over this and freaking out because i have heard at least about 50 people will rsvp NO! so since we want, need and have to have 175 people - sending invites out to only 220 people is definately not enough! and i actually went thru the list to see roughly how many and who would prolly rsvp no and seeing the list i think i counted about maybe prolly a good 30 we have a chance to saying no! ughh i dont know what to do and this is seriously freaking me out cause not only must we have 175 since that is how many we are paying for, but the room is a nice big size and i dont want it to look empty! i want at least 20 tables to be able to fill the room nicely and this is scaring me cause i have a feeling we arent going to like th outcome! :( we have a lot of guests on our list that i have a feeling are going to rsvp no, i just have this feeling! and as is we arent sending invites to enough people to have the room for the ones on our guest to say no! so me and fh spoke about this last night and we really dont want to invite people out of the blue for the heck of it now to make our list higher just so we have room for no's and we dont end up having less of 175, but what else is there to do!? i dont know! :( ughh! people told me at work i should send invites to at least 150 guests so we have room for at least a good 50 to saying no! but we only have about 120 right now on our list! :( shoot me someone, this is really bringing me down! i dont want my day to be empty and have like 100 people there, ill be soo sad! :(
haha if i definately do not get the 175 yes's you guys will for sure be invited to come party, hehe! :) how does that sound girls?
Well, you were planning on paying for 175 either way right? If you only want to invite people who mean something to you, then don't worry about... The price isn't going up. If 50 people say no out of 220 (and its usually 10 to 30%)... you will have 170. Thats only 5 people off!
ok so guess what girls? my guest list after going over it FH giving me more people to add to it.. we are no longer at 220 people, we are at about 270 now.. lol! boyyy, all that stress over this for nothing.. but still, i looked over the list and we have a great amount of people we have a feeling might rsvp NO, so lets see.. we could get suprised, but i dunno! =] still hoping we get at least our 175, so between 175-210 ill be thrilled! =]
Posted by endlesslove116
ok so guess what girls? my guest list after going over it FH giving me more people to add to it.. we are no longer at 220 people, we are at about 270 now.. lol! boyyy, all that stress over this for nothing.. but still, i looked over the list and we have a great amount of people we have a feeling might rsvp NO, so lets see.. we could get suprised, but i dunno! =] still hoping we get at least our 175, so between 175-210 ill be thrilled! =]
awww, hehe.. your soo cute! :) thanx hunnie!
Posted by endlesslove116
awww, hehe.. your soo cute! :) thanx hunnie!
I think you are going to be fine. Wait until you get your responses back before freaking out. You never know maybe most people will go.
