ULTIMATE PISS OFF FOR TODAY....Just read about my coworkers...

btrflygrl Posted: Dec 28, 2004 08:44 AM

ULTIMATE PISS OFF FOR TODAY....Just read about my coworkers...

I found out through another co-worker that the 2 coworkers in the 2 year old room in which I work believe I faked my pregnancy and miscarriage.....because I A: wanted to get out of the room (which I do) and B: I wanted the week before Christmas off....

If I wanted a week off, I'd take it!!!!
I'm a married woman who WANTED this pregnancy....why would I fake it!!!

I am so livid and so ready to hit someone....butI have to go talk to the director and tell her all this and tell her I absolutely refuse to work with them now....I was fine working with them even if they didn't like me......

wc0143 Posted: Dec 28, 2004 08:46 AM

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HOLY CRAP!!!!!! That is soooooooo F*CKED UP!!!!

MonkeyLuv Posted: Dec 28, 2004 08:47 AM

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omg!! Why are people so insane? How closely do you have to work with these shrews?

kissy27 Posted: Dec 28, 2004 08:47 AM

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I know it is hard to stay calm but you must. It is ridiculous how people can think things like that! I would definately go talk to the director & explain the situation & how uncomfortable you are working with these girls.

lvdolphins Posted: Dec 28, 2004 08:48 AM

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That is horrible! Definitley speak to your director.
Why in the world would they say that about anyone? Thats nuts!
I also work w/2 year olds. Its soo hard. I'm looking to move on to something else.
Many 's to you Shana!
How did you find out they said that?
Are you working today? Can you confront them?
OMG Im pissed right now. I cant believe people would say something so dam rude and hurtful!
Im so sorry!

wc0143 Posted: Dec 28, 2004 08:48 AM

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BTW, they sound like they BELONG IN A TWO YEAR OLD room!!!

skew Posted: Dec 28, 2004 08:49 AM

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W T F!!!!!!!. i am SPEECHLESS.

i would be beyond livid and not hesitiate to confront them. it disgusts me that these people work w/ children.

ETA: hoping that they do not have children of their own.

Chloegirl Posted: Dec 28, 2004 08:51 AM

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Disgusting is all I have to say. I am sorry you have to deal with people like that! to you!

Happybride2005 Posted: Dec 28, 2004 08:51 AM

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Shana, I can't believe that!! The director needs to know. THe emotions are bad enough when someone has a miscarriage, they don't need to hear these comments when they return to work. Just curious, were these girls friendly before all this stuff happened.

swags1016 Posted: Dec 28, 2004 08:51 AM

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People are just rude. When I miscarried my shrew of a chair told my friend (and they were the only 2 that knew I was preggo at that point) 'so she miscarried what's the big deal?' I still do not talk to her in a 'nice' way anymore, and I probably never will. People can really be idiots I am convinced!

Shana talk to your director and then do what my Mom always said to do, smile pretty at their faces and thing F U at the same time!

btrflygrl Posted: Dec 28, 2004 08:51 AM

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One is the lead teacher on the room and the other is the assistant who I work with from 10-4:15 when she leaves. The lead teacher is not agreeing or disagreeing, but involved in the conversation.

I found out from another teachers assistant who works in the 1 year old room, which is the same room, just on the other side of the fence separating the 2 rooms. Let's call my 'friend' Nicole....she and her FI went to my DH job to trade in some games and she asked if I was his wife because she didn't remember his name....he said yea....and when she asked him how I was doing, she said 'his face/expression just dropped' so she knew I wasn't lying AND her FI who kind of knew what happened b/c she told him bits and pieces, said the same thing when he saw DH face...plus she also saw me the day I found out when I stopped at my job to tell them the bad news hysterically crying....I'm sorry, but one can't cry like that if it's fake.

I am SO sick of this high school crap and I love everyone else there!

Valentinegirl Posted: Dec 28, 2004 08:52 AM

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Some people disgust me!

btrflygrl Posted: Dec 28, 2004 08:53 AM

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Oh, and let me add that if I do confront them, it won't be pretty.....I'm a Ny'er.....I yell, I get in your face....I curse.....I'm just SO offfended and hurt by this. Neither one of them asked if I was ok or how I was doing when I walked in yesterday, and I was wondering why

1017Bride Posted: Dec 28, 2004 08:54 AM

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What is the problem with some people! These people are idiots!

nov.bride Posted: Dec 28, 2004 08:56 AM

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disgraceful!

Happybride2005 Posted: Dec 28, 2004 08:57 AM

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Posted by btrflygrl

Oh, and let me add that if I do confront them, it won't be pretty.....I'm a Ny'er.....I yell, I get in your face....I curse.....I'm just SO offfended and hurt by this. Neither one of them asked if I was ok or how I was doing when I walked in yesterday, and I was wondering why

do u need a bklyn girl to help u

btrflygrl Posted: Dec 28, 2004 09:01 AM

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Posted by Happybride2005

Posted by btrflygrl

Oh, and let me add that if I do confront them, it won't be pretty.....I'm a Ny'er.....I yell, I get in your face....I curse.....I'm just SO offfended and hurt by this. Neither one of them asked if I was ok or how I was doing when I walked in yesterday, and I was wondering why

do u need a bklyn girl to help u

LOL...I think I can hold my own.....thanks...my dad is from Bklyn and taught me how to fight

suven Posted: Dec 28, 2004 09:06 AM

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oh no, that's terrible. I don't know what's wrong with some people...

kelswiss Posted: Dec 28, 2004 09:10 AM

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I can't believe someone could actually think you would fake something like that.

Dom n Nic Posted: Dec 28, 2004 09:12 AM

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Posted by btrflygrl

I found out through another co-worker that the 2 coworkers in the 2 year old room in which I work believe I faked my pregnancy and miscarriage.....because I A: wanted to get out of the room (which I do) and B: I wanted the week before Christmas off....

If I wanted a week off, I'd take it!!!!
I'm a married woman who WANTED this pregnancy....why would I fake it!!!

I am so livid and so ready to hit someone....butI have to go talk to the director and tell her all this and tell her I absolutely refuse to work with them now....I was fine working with them even if they didn't like me......

that is just so so wrong.
i can't believe someone would say something like that. it's bad enough that you are going through a hard time as it is..

some people just need to grow up and watch what they say

p.s im sorry to hear about that