there is a member of the party that wasn't really happy with her status in the BP and we talked it over & I kinda gave her an honorary position.. fast forward now.. we haven't seen each other in months and its been weird.. I know it's not looked well upon but I really want to have a talk with her and just say this is why i did what i did orignally and id like her to continue to be a part of my BP but as a BM as planned.. what do you guys think?
I completely understand where you are coming from and a lot of brides go through situations like that with their BP. That being said i would just leave the situation alone. Reminding her why she is not your MOH (which i assume is what you meant) will only hurt her feelings even if it really makes perfect sense and i totally agree with you on it but certain things are left unsaid. Some people migt disagree with this and say just say how you feel which normally i am like that i was just avoid this bc i wouldnt want any tension at all or any negative energy surrounding my wedding and then once the wedding is over re evaluate your relationship with her
Posted by 9509Bride
has she been neglectful in her honorary position duties? I ask b/c I just want to understand why you want her back as a BM. Is it b/c you and her are not close so you don't feel she should be in the other position?
Either way, this will be a tough conversation. I always say honesty is best.
Sorry hon, IDK what to really say.
