UPDATE: fight over bachelor party...

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Posted by FuTuRe MrS MaZz

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Posted by SoonToBeMrsR

I hear ya! My FH also wants to go to vegas and it is like the only thing we fight about. I also have not been there, and I just think it's crazy to have have bachelor party weekend, and it will be so much $!! We are paying for everything ourselevs and so I just think it doesn't make sense to go right now! So we can ban together Future Mrs Mazz! NO VEGAS FOR THE BACHELOR PARTY!

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well, the good ole best man found some deal where it would be $400 total for room and flight for the weekend... so they are all gungho about it now

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omg my FH is going to vegas and they found that same deal!!!

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Posted by SoonToBeMrsR

Is there anyway possible that your girls can afford to go? Than maybe you could just go the week before or after. Not the best situation, but maybe a compromise.

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id have to see... my moh would do whatever she has to for me... but 1 bm is out of work and another is working to pay her bills... so its going to be tough... we'd have to miraclously get an amazing deal...

by tomorrow things could change, so all this talk could be for nothing, but i just had to vent to you girls...

thanks for hearing me out

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Posted by stefandken

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Posted by FuTuRe MrS MaZz

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Posted by SoonToBeMrsR

I hear ya! My FH also wants to go to vegas and it is like the only thing we fight about. I also have not been there, and I just think it's crazy to have have bachelor party weekend, and it will be so much $!! We are paying for everything ourselevs and so I just think it doesn't make sense to go right now! So we can ban together Future Mrs Mazz! NO VEGAS FOR THE BACHELOR PARTY!

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well, the good ole best man found some deal where it would be $400 total for room and flight for the weekend... so they are all gungho about it now

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omg my FH is going to vegas and they found that same deal!!!

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idiots... what are you doing for yours?

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Posted by FuTuRe MrS MaZz

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Posted by stefandken

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Posted by FuTuRe MrS MaZz

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Posted by SoonToBeMrsR

I hear ya! My FH also wants to go to vegas and it is like the only thing we fight about. I also have not been there, and I just think it's crazy to have have bachelor party weekend, and it will be so much $!! We are paying for everything ourselevs and so I just think it doesn't make sense to go right now! So we can ban together Future Mrs Mazz! NO VEGAS FOR THE BACHELOR PARTY!

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well, the good ole best man found some deal where it would be $400 total for room and flight for the weekend... so they are all gungho about it now

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omg my FH is going to vegas and they found that same deal!!!

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idiots... what are you doing for yours?

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i really want to go away... but my girls can't afford it... so prob either AC or foxwoods or OC

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Posted by FuTuRe MrS MaZz

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Posted by SoonToBeMrsR

Is there anyway possible that your girls can afford to go? Than maybe you could just go the week before or after. Not the best situation, but maybe a compromise.

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id have to see... my moh would do whatever she has to for me... but 1 bm is out of work and another is working to pay her bills... so its going to be tough... we'd have to miraclously get an amazing deal...

by tomorrow things could change, so all this talk could be for nothing, but i just had to vent to you girls...

thanks for hearing me out

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No problem that's what we are all here for. I just hope they all suddenly grow out of their little boy minds, when ever a guy hears 'vegas' it turns into 'vegas baby!' and high fives start flying all over the place ugh! I wish the was a vomit emote-icon

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Posted by stefandken

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Posted by FuTuRe MrS MaZz

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Posted by stefandken

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Posted by FuTuRe MrS MaZz

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Posted by SoonToBeMrsR

I hear ya! My FH also wants to go to vegas and it is like the only thing we fight about. I also have not been there, and I just think it's crazy to have have bachelor party weekend, and it will be so much $!! We are paying for everything ourselevs and so I just think it doesn't make sense to go right now! So we can ban together Future Mrs Mazz! NO VEGAS FOR THE BACHELOR PARTY!

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well, the good ole best man found some deal where it would be $400 total for room and flight for the weekend... so they are all gungho about it now

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omg my FH is going to vegas and they found that same deal!!!

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idiots... what are you doing for yours?

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i really want to go away... but my girls can't afford it... so prob either AC or foxwoods or OC

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our dates are so close that we could potentially have ours together... so keep me posted on what you're doing and i'll do the same

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Posted by SoonToBeMrsR

No problem that's what we are all here for. I just hope they all suddenly grow out of their little boy minds, when ever a guy hears 'vegas' it turns into 'vegas baby!' and high fives start flying all over the place ugh! I wish the was a vomit emote-icon

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omg... you're so freakinnnn right... doesnt it make you sick

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Posted by FuTuRe MrS MaZz

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Posted by stefandken

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Posted by FuTuRe MrS MaZz

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Posted by stefandken

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Posted by FuTuRe MrS MaZz

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Posted by SoonToBeMrsR

I hear ya! My FH also wants to go to vegas and it is like the only thing we fight about. I also have not been there, and I just think it's crazy to have have bachelor party weekend, and it will be so much $!! We are paying for everything ourselevs and so I just think it doesn't make sense to go right now! So we can ban together Future Mrs Mazz! NO VEGAS FOR THE BACHELOR PARTY!

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well, the good ole best man found some deal where it would be $400 total for room and flight for the weekend... so they are all gungho about it now

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omg my FH is going to vegas and they found that same deal!!!

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idiots... what are you doing for yours?

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i really want to go away... but my girls can't afford it... so prob either AC or foxwoods or OC

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our dates are so close that we could potentially have ours together... so keep me posted on what you're doing and i'll do the same

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We should think of something really aweosme and just tell our FH's last minute!

omg my FH is going to vegas and they found that same deal!!!

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idiots... what are you doing for yours?

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i really want to go away... but my girls can't afford it... so prob either AC or foxwoods or OC

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our dates are so close that we could potentially have ours together... so keep me posted on what you're doing and i'll do the same

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that would be awesome!!!!! i think we are looking at the july 11th weekend

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Posted by FuTuRe MrS MaZz

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Posted by SoonToBeMrsR

No problem that's what we are all here for. I just hope they all suddenly grow out of their little boy minds, when ever a guy hears 'vegas' it turns into 'vegas baby!' and high fives start flying all over the place ugh! I wish the was a vomit emote-icon

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omg... you're so freakinnnn right... doesnt it make you sick

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Yes I actually am feeling a vomit comeing on right now (thats my new vomit face)

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Posted by SoonToBeMrsR

wow Gina this post sparked a lot real fast! It looks like there are a lot of dumb fh's out there, dont get me wrong our fh's are wonderful except when it comes to this!

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LOL... ya know, hes really not a bad guy... its just when bachelor party is mentioned, they turn into some kind of party animal/monster, and totally ignores your feelings... its so crazy how girls level of thinking totally differs from a guys perspective...

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Posted by coldasice217

I'm sorry, I can imagine how much it s/ucks. Not the same thing at all, but I was upset when FH went to Greece over the summer with his family for over 2 weeks, even though he had been there before, it was the first time he went back that we were together, and I was a little upset because I thought the next time he'd go he'd be with me on the HM. I know not the same thing, but hurt too. So I'm sorry...maybe he'll come around if he steps back and sees that it's truly upsetting you.

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isnt it weird how we think like that though? but i guys never see it being a big deal... we just end up looking like lunatics...

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Posted by FuTuRe MrS MaZz

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Posted by coldasice217

I'm sorry, I can imagine how much it s/ucks. Not the same thing at all, but I was upset when FH went to Greece over the summer with his family for over 2 weeks, even though he had been there before, it was the first time he went back that we were together, and I was a little upset because I thought the next time he'd go he'd be with me on the HM. I know not the same thing, but hurt too. So I'm sorry...maybe he'll come around if he steps back and sees that it's truly upsetting you.

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isnt it weird how we think like that though? but i guys never see it being a big deal... we just end up looking like lunatics...

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I know, I feel like an irrational woman sometimes. Bleh.

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Posted by SoonToBeMrsR

wow Gina this post sparked a lot real fast! It looks like there are a lot of dumb fh's out there, dont get me wrong our fh's are wonderful except when it comes to this!

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Soooo true!!!! I love FH more than anything but boy can he be dense sometimes!!!!

I can say that he probably does feel bad. I had the same situation but vice versa. I went to vegas for 1st time for my bachelorette party, dh has been there about 6 times and loves it. He wanted us to go together for my first time there and we're gonna go before the BP's but bc of wedding expenses we didn't.

I did feel bad but at the same time he understood and didnt say anything to me, well he couldn't since he was also going. He just says we will go together soon and he also always says that even though he has been there numerous times, it will be a VERY different experience going together so in a way it will be like experiencing it for the first time but in a different way.

Sorry youre upset about this but i remember how i felt and you do feel bad. But just know that you two can still go and do ALOT of things he didn't do, such as shows and restaurants. Also maybe they wont even get to go to rehab, i saw you mentioned this. The line is like an hour long, its really insane

girl i understand you completely and know where you are coming from. what the heck is wrong with these guys and vegas?? it seems to me these guys all want to do vegas! its so sick! and it does make me vomit sometimes too, haha! and about what someone else posted on here, when are they going to grow up and stop thinking like little boys?? haha, seriously! i love fh with all my heart but when it comes to crap like this it does make me sick, so i know how you are feeling.. trust me! i have gone thru this and still do sometimes when he wants to go out and hangout with that crazy friend of his who does nothing but drinks and is a party animal and it just drives me insane.. as a matter of fact his brother (best man) is planning to also go to vegas for his bachelor and i just think that is soo sick and stupid because with all the $$ they are already spending in the wedding who the hell is going to want to spend that money and go there?? give me a break!! i already told him, no vegas but what will happen will be what is happening to you.. he wont care less about my feelings when it comes to vegas and his brother wanting to do this and he is going to do it anyway.. we think so diferently from these boys and we would never do such a thing to them if they worent ok with it.. it makes me sick to my stomache sometimes, i just dont get it! ughhh guys, we love them and cant live without them - as much as they drive us crazy and we want to kill them sometimes.. lol!

good luck with everything hun! xoxo