update on 1st song thread

Original post by latinaj

Nov 03, 2010 04:29 PM

soooo most of u read the thread i made abt the first song dilemma...

i've been SO busy w/work that it's been hard for me to log on ...hate work! lol

anyway...friend txt me last night and apologized for taking out her anger and frustration on me.... we went back and forth...blah blah

to b honest w/u guys, i could care less what song we end up choosing, FH and i dont have a song that we always dance to...we talked it over and we decided not to use the song my friend and i fought abt bc honestly it just has a bad vibe and blehhhhhhhhhhhhhhh brought 1 day of stress to my life

we changed it....

AND ITS FLIPPING HOT I LOVE IT

GR2010 Posted: Nov 03, 2010 04:46 PM

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She's being ridiculous. She doesn't get a say. END.OF.STORY.

latinaj Posted: Nov 03, 2010 04:46 PM

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but now i feel like it has a bad vibe

WAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAA

MikesBride2B Posted: Nov 03, 2010 04:48 PM

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Tell her if it makes her that uncomfortable then she can stay home!

rockinbride Posted: Nov 03, 2010 04:48 PM

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Oh and advise her that she is not the only bride in the world to use a song and if brides called 'dibs' on songs so that only they could use it...could you imagine what would happen????

Tell her to direct her anger towards the putz who muffed up NOT you!!!

Enjoy ur song and forget that hater!!!!!

rockinbride Posted: Nov 03, 2010 04:48 PM

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Posted by barbtony

tell her you won't use the first 30 seconds of 'her' song so it will be different

on another note - whatever it is - use your song!!!

hahahahahahahahaha

little j Posted: Nov 03, 2010 04:50 PM

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maybe she thought you were asking permission

WRONGGGG

latinaj Posted: Nov 03, 2010 04:51 PM

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grkbarbie Posted: Nov 03, 2010 04:56 PM

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can u have the singer come in an sing the song?! ok ok a lil drastic.. but def CHOREOGRAPH a dance and then bust out to SUAVEMENTEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE

Ray8183 Posted: Nov 03, 2010 04:57 PM

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STOP...Don't write back and play the song. No matter what the song is we will not be the first to play it. Enjoy your wedding and leave the drama alone. She is mad with her dj and is taking it out on you.

dctead Posted: Nov 03, 2010 04:58 PM

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Dont let it give you a bad vibe... you have every right to the song, and if you love it.. play it!!

kris_gets_hitched Posted: Nov 03, 2010 04:58 PM

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Unless it was a song that was written by her or her DH, or FOR her and her DH, then tell her to suck a nut!

latinaj Posted: Nov 03, 2010 04:59 PM

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Lisalana Posted: Nov 03, 2010 04:59 PM

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Posted by SoontobeMrs.Brown

WHAT. That is ridiculous. Leave the song that you and FH want. Who fukking cares that she had the same one.

ITA!

latinaj Posted: Nov 03, 2010 04:59 PM

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Posted by Ray8183

STOP...Don't write back and play the song. No matter what the song is we will not be the first to play it. Enjoy your wedding and leave the drama alone. She is mad with her dj and is taking it out on you.

i wrote back already...but i think ure right... i would hate my dj too

halfbaked Posted: Nov 03, 2010 05:01 PM

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Posted by latinaj

idk.....it brings her bad memories,.... but its 1 out of 200 other ppl. do i even consider that?

Bad Memories? Of what? The DJ messed up her first dance it wasn't like the ceiling collapsed on her.

All it matters is the memories it brings you. Is it gonna make you think of good times with your DH or are you gonna think of this PITA? If you're gonna think of her, might as well change it.

latinaj Posted: Nov 03, 2010 05:03 PM

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AwaitingAugust Posted: Nov 03, 2010 05:09 PM

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i do understand where your friend is coming from ... but i don't agree with her.

just give her some time to get over it ... don't get all worked up about it.

as for feeling bad vibes from this song, you can get over them if you really love the song (i had bad vibes related to my dessert and got over them by making fun of the situation).

JAAMS Posted: Nov 03, 2010 05:18 PM

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That is one of the most ridiculous things I have ever heard in my life. SHe DOES NOTget to pick your song!

Like no one has everrrrrrrrrrr used the same wedding song as someone else

Ray8183 Posted: Nov 03, 2010 05:22 PM

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Posted by latinaj

Posted by Ray8183

STOP...Don't write back and play the song. No matter what the song is we will not be the first to play it. Enjoy your wedding and leave the drama alone. She is mad with her dj and is taking it out on you.

i wrote back already...but i think ure right... i would hate my dj too

Relax talk to your FH and if he wants the song then dance.

SoonToBeMrsCampos Posted: Nov 03, 2010 05:28 PM

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That's effing rediculous! So what! You picked the same song! Just cuz her wedding was first and her song got messed up doesn't mean u have to change urs!
So are you also not allowed to use the same traditional vows?? (Not sure if u are, just an example LOL).
I would tell her too bad and u had ur song before her wedding, so who cares.